The classic material about self-confidence 1 Korea's famous table tennis player lost her self-confidence in front of the world's top players, and even stabbed her hand with a knife, claiming that someone stabbed her to escape the competition. In the later international table tennis invitational tournament, she competed with Japan's Shangzi Jinshen for the championship. Leading by 2: 0, barely leading by a few points, and Han will collapse and eventually lose.
The world table tennis championship is a rare opportunity for athletes. However, Han regrets that he missed this opportunity. This shows how important it is for a person to have strong self-confidence and will.
Mr Leon Qiao Sen, president of Leckie Sewing Machine Company, is very rich now, but a few years ago, he was a poor Polish immigrant who could not speak English. When the newspaper reported his great success, he was quoted as saying, "I have unshakable confidence." I seek its guidance at every step of the way to success. I work with my head and feet. "
Self-confidence is an extremely important quality to conquer opportunities. This is also an opportunity. Confident people can gain and control opportunities and succeed. People who have no self-confidence can only sigh and feel ashamed.
Classic materials about self-confidence 2 According to The Wall Street Journal, 199 1 On the eve of the Gulf War, our reporter went to the US Marine Corps in Saudi Arabia for an interview, and was surprised to find that American officers and men were reading China's The Art of War in Saudi tents and on standby warships. Sun Tzu's art of war has crossed the ocean and is favored by Americans. There is a craze for "Caigen Tan" in Japan. Chinese medicine, traditional Chinese medicine, martial arts and qigong in China are very popular all over the world. Japan and Southeast Asia are particularly fierce. Also, Lei Feng has entered the United States Military Academy at West Point; The film directed by Zhang Yimou has won many awards abroad ... This is a strange phenomenon now: "China monks" recite the scriptures in China, and "few listeners", but "monks in the distance can recite the scriptures" and "flowers inside the wall and incense outside the wall" are very common.
The profoundness of Chinese culture, despite the passage of time and great changes, still cannot hide its brilliance. Knowledgeable young people should study and excavate the cultural heritage of the motherland, inherit and develop the traditional culture of the nation, enhance the national self-confidence, and avoid the national inferiority mentality of "disheartened" and "ashamed" at the mention of China, "amazed" at the mention of the West, and "looked up but looked down".
On the classic material of self-confidence 3 1773, ambitious young people in France want to go to artillery school and get the rank of second lieutenant through school. This year, 180 young people took the exam, most of whom were rich and powerful children in Paris. The examiner at that time was the mathematician Laplace.
As soon as the exam started, the competition was fierce. Soon, the door was suddenly pushed open and I saw a short man dressed as a farmer standing at the door. He is wearing a pair of heavy broken shoes and holding a stick as a pole in his hand. When people learned that the hillbilly was coming to take the exam, the whole audience was in an uproar. Finally, it was the farmer's turn to play. However, to people's surprise, this hillbilly is poised and confident. No matter how difficult the topic is, he can give the correct answer in an orderly way. The examiner was overjoyed and immediately announced that he was the first.
This hillbilly is General Derouau who made great achievements in Napoleon's army.
Classic material about self-confidence 4 An engineer fell in love with a young female student. He pursued her. The female college student ran away with him because she already had a boyfriend. But this engineer often appears in front of female college students, sending her flowers and confessing to her. When the boyfriend of a female college student found out, he was worried about his bad ending, so he took the initiative to interrupt the relationship with the female college student. Soon the female college student met another boyfriend. When the engineer learned of this, he wrote to her boyfriend and said, "I am the only person in the world who can love her wholeheartedly, which you can't do." The second boyfriend of female college students, confident that he can't compete with engineers, also voluntarily withdrew from the competition in love. At this time, female college students are old. She sued the court, claiming that the engineer was guilty of stalking, intimidation and human rights violations. The court sentenced the engineer to 45 days of criminal detention. When the plaintiff and the defendant walked out of the court together, the female college student felt that she had gone too far, but the engineer smiled at her and said, "Honey, I'll come back to you in 45 days." At this time, the female college students were moved by the engineer's indomitable enthusiasm and strong self-confidence, and turned back to the court to ask for the withdrawal of the lawsuit. Later, the two eventually became lovers.
This story is full of romance, but the philosophy of life contained in it is intriguing. Self-confidence is indeed an important factor affecting the success or failure of things. If he hesitates, if he loses confidence in himself, he will lose the opportunity, her and happiness.
One evening more than five years ago, a young immigrant named Henry stood by the river in a daze. Today is his 30th birthday, but he doesn't know if he still needs to live. Because Henry grew up in a welfare home, he was short, ugly and spoke with a strong French accent, so he always looked down on himself, thinking that he was an ugly and stupid hillbilly, afraid to apply for even the most ordinary job, and had no job or home.
Just as Henry was hovering between life and death, John, a good friend who grew up with him in the welfare home, rushed over and said to him excitedly, "Henry, I have good news for you!" " "
"Good news never belongs to me." Henry looks sad.
"No, I just heard a news on the radio that Napoleon had lost a grandson. The characteristics described by the announcer are no worse than yours! "
"Really, I was Napoleon's grandson?" Henry was suddenly refreshed. Reminiscent that Grandpa used to command thousands of troops with his short stature and issue majestic orders in rustic French, he suddenly felt that his short stature was also full of strength and his French accent was somewhat noble and dignified.
Early the next morning, Henry came to a big company with confidence to apply for a job.
Twenty years later, Henry, who has become the president of this big company, proved that he is not Napoleon's grandson, but it doesn't matter anymore.
Accept yourself, appreciate yourself, and put all your inferiority behind you. This is the most important prerequisite for success.
Classic material about self-confidence 6 Socrates, a great ancient Greek philosopher, had a great regret during his lifetime-his right-hand man for many years failed to find the best disciple for him for more than half a year.
The loyal and diligent assistant took pains to look around through various channels. But he brought one after another, and Socrates politely declined.
Half a year later, Socrates is about to die, and the best candidate still has no clue. The assistant was so ashamed that he sat in front of the hospital bed with tears on his face and said with a heavy voice, "I'm really sorry to disappoint you!" " "
"I am disappointed, but you are sorry." Socrates closed his eyes in dismay, paused for a long time, and then said sadly, "Originally, the best thing was yourself, but you couldn't trust yourself, so you neglected, delayed and lost yourself ... In fact, everyone is the best, and the difference lies in how to know yourself, how to explore and reuse yourself ..." Before the words were finished, a generation of philosophers left him forever. The assistant regretted it very much and even blamed himself all his life.
You are a gold mine, and the key is how to explore and reuse yourself.