"Fate is so unfair to me." I often hear people say that. This makes me a little disgusted.

To blame one's unhappiness on fate is to find a grandiose excuse for oneself. Timid. Fate is actually fair. Just take every step of your life with your heart. Sometimes fate is bumpy, just taking a wrong step, but it's hard to turn back. God gave us the same hourglass, the same texture of sand. The sand flows at the same speed and makes the same sound. Fate treats us equally.

When people are alive, they can always find excuses for their desires. We are constantly pursuing things that are far away, even things that are out of reach, and things that don't belong to us at all, but we want to have for ourselves. And such a pursuit itself is a painful thing. So, we began to be helpless and helpless until we could do nothing. Then there is complaining, complaining about the injustice of heaven, not even giving a chance; Complaining about the injustice of fate makes our dreams burst again and again like beautiful bubbles. In life, how can everything go smoothly? If our present life can't satisfy us, it's not that fate is unfair, but that we have higher goals! When we have to, we must give up what we want to protect for the rest of our lives. Don't expect your every fantasy to come true, and don't expect yourself to be perfect without any defects. If so, fate is really unfair.

The more beautiful, the less wisdom; With more wisdom, there will be more hardships; No matter how much wealth you have, you may not be able to enjoy real happiness and happiness. Fate is fair. It won't let everyone get the same thing. In that case, life is meaningless. Don't envy other people's lives. In your eyes, they are stepping on the horizon, so in their eyes, you are also stepping on the horizon. Fate will not be particularly partial to anyone, because it is unnecessary. You can not give in to life, or you can not give up, but you can't say that fate is unfair. A person's life has ups and downs, depending on how you face it. Life is a rosary, half bitter and half happy. We should learn to count with a smile.

Fate is actually fair, and the process of life is the process of gain and loss. Life is a balance of gains and losses. Fate gave you something, but it also took something away. Give you talent, and you take away the opportunity to look up to ordinary people; Give you self-esteem, but also take away your self-confidence and grace to show others; Give you freedom and take away your long-awaited care. Although we have different life concepts and pursue different goals, life has also given us what we deserve fairly. Although some things look bad, it's just that others have the ability. This has nothing to do with fate. We should learn not to suffer and lose, and learn to be grateful. The more we have, the more we should be grateful.

Calm down and think about it, hoping to hear you say "fate is fair."