Don't complain about the unfair fate. Poverty is also a kind of wealth. "Since ancient times, talented people have been born in poverty." Sima Guang was born in poverty, but he still wrote the historical masterpiece Zi Tongzhi Jian. Although "porridge and wine are always on credit", Cao Xueqin still wrote the classic Dream of Red Mansions. Fan Zhongyan lost his father at the age of two and remarried with his mother. When he was young, he couldn't even drink thick porridge, but he sang the great feeling of "worrying about the world first, and being happy after the world."
Don't lament the misfortune of life, setbacks can also make us grow. Su Dongpo, a great literary master, had ups and downs all his life, but he had the heroic spirit of "one river never returns" and the calmness of "misty rain all his life". Chibi is also attracting more attention from the world because of its "poem of the bright moon, graceful chapter". There is also a depressed one who writes with a knife. The loneliness of "railing all over" is helpless and heroic. Frustration makes Jia Xuan's ci more depressed and shines in the long river of history. After 5,000 years, many great philosophers and sages experienced setbacks and finally succeeded: "Being arrested and performing Yi, Zhong You wrote the Spring and Autumn Period"; Qu Yuan's exile is Li Sao, and Zuo Qiu's blind obedience has Mandarin. Sun Tzu's knee was full, and Sun Tzu's art of war was revised, so he did not move to Shu and spread to Lu Lan. Han Fei was imprisoned in the state of Qin, and there were 300 unspeakable, lonely, sorrowful, poems and songs, which were largely attributed to the actions of sages who were angry. "
Broad sky is to break the lock of fate with persistence after being brave. If you want to succeed, you can't go back. If you want to harvest, you must let the sweat flow smartly. There are spring and autumn in life, and setbacks will make us more mature. The mighty Yangtze River stretches down from Tanggula Mountain, with rapids and waterfalls along the way, but the river always bypasses one by one with indomitable momentum and determination to meet Wang Yang. Finally embrace the sea. Life is the same. It has never been a broad road, and you will reach the ideal highland along the established track. On the journey of life, there are always obstacles that hinder progress, so many people stop on the road of chasing dreams. Only those who have crossed the ups and downs of life have finally found their dreams, found the truth and ushered in light and hope.
On the road of life, we should learn the pain of failure and frustration in reading. Edison read that 1000 many times and failed, and finally succeeded in inventing the electric light; Gou Jian, the king of Yue, read the failure and bitterness of losing his country, reluctantly gave up what he gave up, and finally got revenge and destroyed Wu in one fell swoop. Don't say that setbacks are invincible, "real warriors dare to face dripping blood and bleak life"; Don't say the pain is unbearable. The real wise man is "not surprised, look at the flowers before the court;" Madame Curie had cancer, but she was not defeated by it. She explained the tenacity of "the road to success is not with tears but with blood" with her thin body. Tao Qian resigned and retired, often starving, but still maintained a sense of self-adaptation of "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely". With frustration as the pen and pain as the strength, we wrote a wonderful picture on the picture of life; Guided by setbacks and driven by pain, we have gained success in the journey of life. In the face of setbacks, we sing: Go ahead.
In the same situation, the same experience, pessimists are miserable and desperate; Optimists are open-minded and cheerful, and enjoy it. Some people were demoted, sent to far away places, and left their homes. They were very sad and depressed. This was the case with Teng, the satrap of Baling in the Northern Song Dynasty, so Fan Zhongyan comforted him with "Yueyang Tower"; Some people, whose fate is bumpy, ups and downs, have been wronged and exiled repeatedly, but they smile at life with open-minded feelings, just like Su Dongpo, so they have the open-minded feelings of "preparing for a rainy day and achieving a lifetime".
Therefore, if we want to be strong in life, we must stand on our own feet, face up to setbacks, never back down, face it calmly and go forward bravely; Dare to challenge setbacks and be unwilling to bow to them; We must overcome setbacks and difficulties. Only in this way can our life be more substantial and meaningful.
"Sunshine always comes after the storm", "How can you see a rainbow without the storm". Without the baptism of the storm, there would be no flowers in bud; Without the sharpening of stone cracks, there would be no majestic image of pine and cypress in the rocks; Without the impact of the waves, there would be no strange rocks.
Just as steep mountains can't stop the raging rapids, the raging rapids can't stop our ships sailing against the wind; Just as the quiet autumn can't stop the cold north wind, so can the cold north wind. The dark night can't stop the twinkling stars, and the twinkling stars can't stop the sunshine outside our window; The clear sky can't stop the sudden rainstorm, and the sudden rainstorm can't stop our long journey. Let the storm come more violently!