Next to the wishing pool, I often hear such a voice: I hope my career will be smooth sailing; God bless me to succeed in everything; It turns out that good things are around me every day, and bad luck can leave me forever ... However, these wishes are too empty, just the wishes of the weak. How can there be no stumbling blocks on the road of life? Everyone has their own unique growth experience. On this road of growth, there are countless setbacks and all kinds of setbacks. When we encounter setbacks again and again, we will be sad again and again, and the difference between the strong and the weak will be revealed here. The weak should be discouraged, afraid to move forward and retreat. But the strong will bravely face setbacks, fight against setbacks, and finally overcome setbacks, achieve goals and make progress. This is exactly what Pushkin said: "Big stones block the way, the brave are regarded as a ladder to progress, and the weak are regarded as obstacles to progress." It is simple common sense that it is impossible to cultivate towering trees in greenhouses; It is a natural law that the vitality of wild animals is often stronger than that of poultry. Growth needs frustration irrigation, which is the truth proved by countless facts. The word "frustration" is not pleasant to hear. Many people don't have the courage to love setbacks. They are afraid of setbacks, but this is human nature. Who will expect to endure big waves every day? Who wants to live in difficulties and obstacles day and night? Everyone yearns for ease and comfort, but it must be understood that frustration is a bitter cup of coffee. After the bitterness, the lips and teeth remain fragrant, which can also make the mind more sober. Perhaps, the ups and downs of life are frightening, but it is a real life and an indispensable cornerstone of growth. Just like a sentence in the song, "No one can succeed casually without experiencing wind and rain ..." "No one can know how to chase a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain ..." No one's life is smooth sailing, and it is difficult for people who have not experienced wind and rain to gain a foothold in this society. Because they have never tasted failure and have no experience in how to deal with these difficulties. How can people who are afraid of setbacks grow up? How can we reach the other side of success? Frustration affects everyone in reality. People who can speak at birth do not learn human language gradually because they make mistakes again and again. Who can walk at birth, not only falls down again and again, but also gradually keeps up with the pace of human beings. Whose score is always the first? Whose career is smooth sailing? Those who have never failed are not necessarily successful, and those who are afraid of setbacks are not necessarily successful. As shirokov said, "Danger is the touchstone of life." For another example, Liang Qichao said: "Suffering is the highest school to temper personality." The frustration of this life seems to be getting better again. Frustration is a mountain. If you want to see the sea, you must climb over it. Frustration is a desert. If you want to see the oasis, you must leave it. Frustration is still a strait. If you want to see the mainland, you must swim across it. Setbacks can be overcome. As long as you have enough courage to fight, you can beat it. Let it sprinkle flowers on your growth path, pay attention to it, enjoy it and taste it. This is the life of a wise man. Hitty said, "Only in suffering can we know ourselves." Take American President Lincoln as an example. He experienced numerous setbacks in his life: at the age of 22, he failed to run for county Council; At the age of 23, his lover died; At the age of 24, I almost had a nervous breakdown; At the age of 26, he failed to run for the state legislature again; At the age of 30, he still failed to run for Congress ... Today, however, he is a well-known president-he has overcome setbacks. There is also the well-known grandpa KFC, who pushed KFC to the world countless times, but failed every time and hit a wall every time. However, he began to practice his skills from hitting the wall to prepare for the next time. When their career was successfully established, they were already white-haired ... they were strong in life, and it was these countless setbacks that tempered their will, which made them break through one difficulty after another in their life journey and made brilliant achievements in their careers, which was amazing. This kind of experience makes people mature and grow. "A hundred years of life, adversity is often eight or nine." Looking at life with a smile, krylov said, "Those who are afraid of heavy rain are just fake flowers." Teenagers worry about lingyun, sail the sea and cut the waves. If you want life to bloom delicate flowers, please remember: growth needs frustration irrigation!