The fourth episode of Listen to Her, Remodeling, is online. In this 10-minute narration, Remodeling presents all kinds of language violence faced by women in society with a monologue of 15 minutes. Before marriage, she was dominated by her family, after marriage, she was dominated by her parents and arranged by her husband. After divorce, her middle-aged stay-at-home mother had to accept rumors from outside and was kidnapped by this invisible language violence. "What kind of marriage do you have at this age, and you are still haggling with your ex-husband!"

Examining and judging women is almost with them all their lives. Before adulthood, girls were despised in gender and severely criticized in appearance; When entering schools and workplaces, women often need to pay more to prove themselves; Social slut humiliation and language harassment bring more direct oppression and danger.

These verbal violence, full of contempt, oppression and insult, imply extensive and hidden discrimination and malice.

Cruelly, the people who said these words may be our beloved parents, close friends for many years, classmates and colleagues who get along well, care about our superiors and teach our teachers and elders. Maybe they are really kind to us, but at some point they really become a part of the firm shackles of society and bind us.

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Women's topic in remodeling

"That's not what girls should do. You can't be so wild when you grow up. You should be sensible. "

"Dear daughter, I only have you. You must live up to your expectations. "

"How can you cry? How can you care so much about a man? How can you make people laugh? "

"You want to do beauty, you want to do line carving, you want to do hot Maggie, because you are too thin, so the man ran away, because you are too fat, he doesn't like you ..."

"Are you crazy to divorce at your age? One day, husband and wife for a hundred days. Why do you become so calculating? "