Starting today, your college life will officially begin. We know that mentality determines thought, thought determines behavior, behavior determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines fate. If we want to enrich our college life, we must first have a good attitude and establish a good concept. So, I want to tell you from two aspects.

Avoid three kinds of shouldn't mentality and establish two kinds of should mentality.

First, a relaxed attitude. The goal of high school is to study hard and get into college. Now that the goal has been achieved, many students want to use their freshman year to enjoy themselves and make up for their previous "dissatisfaction". Dear students, time is the fairest for everyone. If you relax for a month, your college life will be lost for a month. I think we should correctly handle the relationship between study and play. In my opinion, studying in college means playing, playing means learning, playing in middle school and finishing school. In college, we should learn to play with taste, quality and prospect, and stay away from vulgar play. The task of our university is professional learning+ability training+quality training.

Second, the lost mentality. Some people may think that they went to Anhui Business Vocational College, not an undergraduate college, but some students entered one or two similar books, and they only went to a school like a junior college, which is disappointing. Introduce the school:

So, everyone here is a winner, and we are all excellent.

Third, a confused state of mind. After starting a business, we felt very excited and novel at first. However, after the excitement and novelty, we will face new problems, that is, we don't know what the university should do and how to face the current university life, and we have a strong sense of confusion. This is normal. Every freshman will have a sense of confusion. The key is how to deal with this sense of confusion.

Fourth, return to zero mentality. No matter how brilliant and excellent we used to be, how high our college entrance examination scores are; No matter how bad you used to be, how unlovable you were, and how bad your grades were, everything has become a thing of the past when you came here; We should have the belief of starting from scratch and create the glory of our university.

Fifth, the attitude of gratitude. For parents and counselors. From the scene of the freshmen reception, I saw too many parents rushing around for us to go through the registration procedures. I see too many parents are anxious about our tuition. Parents have done too much for us. Now that we are in college, it's time for us to be independent. It's time for us to repay our parents. We should all study and live with gratitude. I hope everyone can express such gratitude, so I suggest you write a thank-you letter to your parents during military training to report your safety, express your gratitude and express your enterprising spirit. Counselors and teachers accompany you all day, and you should also use your excellent performance to reassure counselors and teachers.

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Goal planning:

From now on, if you want to stop being confused, you should learn to plan your college life and set your own goals as soon as possible by combining your major, interests, abilities and family. I ask you to grasp the theme of each academic year and make your own plans. The theme of freshmen is to adapt to college life as soon as possible, find their own position, understand their majors and make clear the goals of college struggle. The theme of sophomore last semester was development. After defining the goal, turn the goal into action to develop. But the basic task is to complete CET-4, CET-6 and CET-2. The theme of the second semester of Senior Two is decision-making. At this time, we should choose the future development path according to our own development situation. Whether it is employment, postgraduate entrance examination, starting a business, taking an examination of civil servants, going abroad, etc. These all need to be decided in junior year. The theme of junior year is sublimation. We should choose a suitable way to harvest our college life and sublimate our important life stage. During this time, I have to be busy with graduation thesis, entrepreneurship and employment. Our goal is to be able to go out into the society, gain a foothold in success, specialize in learning and make use of what we have learned. Our own path is our own choice. If we choose to forge ahead and never give up, we will be enriched and successful. We choose to fall without ambition, and we will be mediocre. I believe all my students will choose the former because you are the best.

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Responsibility:

First, learn to be responsible for yourself 1, be responsible for your own life, life is only once, and middle school students are in the golden period of their lives-adolescence. Therefore, we should cherish it more and make this flower of life bloom more brilliantly. At ordinary times, we should know how to take good care of our own lives, and don't do dangerous things, such as driving a motorcycle, riding a speeding car, traveling together and making careful preparations. Traffic safety. A healthy body is the foundation of study and future work. As students, it is very necessary to take an active part in sports activities, including attending physical education class in every class, taking part in extra-curricular activities, paying attention to food hygiene at ordinary times and preventing diseases, especially epidemic diseases and influenza A, etc. 2. Be responsible for your own time. Time is fair to everyone, and the past time no longer belongs to you. "Don't wait for leisure, it's sad for nothing." As a middle school student in youth, it is the period when he is most eager for knowledge. He should seize the time, spend as much time as possible on knowledge, pursue less entertainment, read less romance novels and martial arts novels as much as possible, put an end to unhealthy books, especially the popular Japanese cartoons, and don't play video games. 3. Be responsible for your words and deeds. The ancients said, "A word from a gentleman is a promise that cannot be recalled." Let students be responsible for their words and deeds from an early age. As a middle school student, we should: (1) Pay attention to restraining our words and deeds and be strict with ourselves; (2) Do not violate school and class discipline; (3) study hard and concentrate on learning; (4) Actively participate in various activities in schools and classes; (5) Dare to do it and correct mistakes. Good words and deeds make a good character. Only by constantly optimizing one's personality, improving one's conduct and strengthening one's self-cultivation can one enhance one's sense of responsibility. 4. Be responsible for your future. First of all, each student is required to make clear his goal-to pass the senior high school entrance examination unanimously, graduate smoothly, and study a better major in an ideal university as much as possible. Clear this goal, we must work hard for this goal, down-to-earth, a hard work and a harvest. 5. Be responsible for your own destiny. Everyone's destiny is in their own hands. Only by their own efforts can they improve their own destiny. Relying on their parents and others is only temporary. Oppose the idea of blaming others after failure and blaming yourself for bad luck. "Failure is the mother of success". We should face failures and setbacks bravely and learn from them. Second, learning to be responsible for others is an indispensable factor in society. Everyone should handle the relationship with others, the collective and the society at any time. Modern society emphasizes the spirit of unity and cooperation. However, due to the influence of bad social atmosphere, some students are lazy, indifferent to others, disrespectful to parents and teachers, and pursue the selfish idea of "everyone for me". Only by establishing the concept of "I am for everyone and everyone is for me" can the society become harmonious. So we should do the following: 1. Be responsible for our classmates. Students should care for each other, help each other, unite and be friendly. 2. Student cadres should be responsible for their classmates. As class cadres, their duty is to serve, care for and set an example for their classmates. 3. Be responsible for the teacher and complete the tasks assigned by the teacher with good quality and quantity. Einstein said: "I remind myself every day that my spiritual life and material life depend on the labor of others, and I must try my best to repay what I have got and what I am still getting." So, don't forget your responsibility to others, to society, and even to the whole mankind. When you feel that you are a person who is beneficial to others and society, you will also enjoy a kind of spiritual satisfaction and get people's respect. Third, learn to be responsible for the family. Family is the cradle of raising oneself. So everyone has the obligation to be responsible for the family, mainly in the following aspects: 1. Do some housework at home to reduce the burden on parents, and do your own thing. 2. Be responsible for parents, communicate with parents more, and listen to their guidance and opinions on their study, life, thoughts and conduct. It is the best responsibility to repay parents with the best results and performance. 3. Be responsible for siblings and take the initiative to help siblings in all aspects. 4. Parents, grandparents and grandparents take the initiative to take care of them when they are sick. Fourth, learn to be responsible for the collective. Everyone lives in a collective, and the interests of the collective are higher than those of the individual. As students, they are responsible for the class and the school. 1 Be responsible for the class, mainly manifested in: (1) Strictly abide by the class rules and maintain the class image; (2) study hard to make the class top; (3) Take an active part in sports activities and strive for the success of the sports festival; (4) Do a good job in public areas, classrooms and dormitories. 3. Be responsible for the school, mainly as follows: (1) consciously abide by the school rules and regulations and maintain the school image; (2) wear school uniforms and behave in a civilized manner at school; (3) Actively create a good campus environment and effectively build a good campus culture. 5. Learn to be responsible for society. Everyone is a member of society. As a student, we should first be a qualified and law-abiding citizen and a civilized, polite and cultivated citizen. Everyone gets it from the society and applies it to the society, trying to repay the society. China's policy is to allow some people to get rich through labor first, and then promote the development of the whole society. For example, in the summer of 1998, the Yangtze River and Songhua River in China suffered a once-in-a-century flood. When people's lives and property suffered heavy losses, donations from all walks of life reached1600 million yuan, and various relief materials were continuously transported to the disaster areas, which fully reflected the people's sense of social responsibility. As middle school students, we should cultivate this sense of social responsibility from an early age, starting from small things, such as caring for public property, paying attention to public morality and public health, and actively participating in the youth volunteer service team. Peking University students put it well: "Don't ask what society has done for me, ask yourself what it has done for society?"

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Self-motivation:

Face up to yourself and reflect on yourself! First of all, let me explain to you what is self-motivated and self-motivated characteristics: First, what is self-motivated and self-motivated means: an enterprising spirit and a positive mental state that people have. It is an important psychological quality to form a sound personality, and it is also an essential psychological quality for successful people. Second, the characteristics of self-motivation (1) Clear goals Self-motivation must be linked to clear goals. Self-motivation without clear goals is illusory and unrealistic. For example, Zhou Enlai, a great man, set the grand goal of "learning for the rise of the Chinese nation" from his youth. Inspired by this goal, during his revolutionary career of more than half a century, he did his best and made outstanding contributions to the liberation and socialist construction of China people. (2) Striving for the top is a state of mind that is not satisfied with the status quo and always enterprising. This mentality requires people to constantly surpass themselves and move towards higher standards. For example, in the field of sports, in the face of fierce competition, "if you don't advance, you will retreat" is an objective law. Only by constantly making progress and pursuing the sportsmanship of "higher, faster and better" can athletes constantly surpass themselves and achieve better results. (3) Strong will and self-motivation should be accompanied by strong will. To succeed in your career, it is not enough to be self-motivated, but also to have tenacious will. Because in the process of surpassing ourselves and achieving our goals, we often encounter many difficulties, so we need perseverance and despise difficulties. For example, it took Marx 40 years to complete Das Kapital, and Goethe, a famous German poet and playwright, 60 years to complete Faust.

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Tolerance:

In college, it is impossible for everyone to get along with each other day and night. Men should have a man's mind, and female students should have the cultivation of female students. (Written by students)

Tolerance is not cowardice, not resignation, but generosity and tolerance on the basis of understanding. It is a mature mentality, the embodiment of perfect personality, and the best strategy to solve problems before contradictions intensify. Of course, tolerance is not without boundaries, because tolerance is not compromise, although tolerance sometimes requires compromise. Tolerance is not forbearance, although tolerance sometimes needs forbearance. Tolerance is not accommodation, although tolerance sometimes needs accommodation. In a dormitory, a class and a school, you can have a tolerant heart, be generous to others and do things generously. Forgiving yourself won't lose anything, but you can gain happiness and success and add more joy to the world! Tolerance can reflect a person's good rest and elegant demeanor. It is a manifestation of kindness and a symbol of uniqueness. No honor, wealth or nobility can compare with tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, the result of the existence of all things, and there is an eternal and pure heart and heart commitment behind tolerance. Face life with a tolerant attitude, face life, and you will have a calm and calm life, and you will live more easily. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. If we are more tolerant of others, our life will have more space, and tolerance is a realm.

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Happy heart:

Professor Zhai Hongshen, a master of Chinese studies, expounded the idea of "taking the heart as pleasure", because the environment is created by the heart, so there is nothing in the world and much ado about nothing. Only when people are happy can they make friends and get on well with each other. Professor Zhai once went to a place to give a lecture, but he couldn't see the person who met him at the airport. Later, he found that after a long time, he was naturally unhappy. However, when he saw the pick-up person holding the pick-up card with the name upside down, he thought of the truth that "happiness is good" and "name is evil", and he was overjoyed. From then on, he summed up the truth that people are happy. (There are also stories such as "Fluorescent Lamp", "On the Train and Entrepreneurs")

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Three "abilities": 1, the ability to learn. The cultivation of learning ability can be obtained through the training and self-training of school teachers. College students should have the spirit of inquiry. When they encounter problems in their studies, they should not give up. They should regard the process of overcoming difficulties as a kind of happiness. They should know that any difficulty will fade with time. Even if you encounter problems, you should study them repeatedly, scrutinize and understand them, and seek solutions to them. 2. Self-discipline. As a contemporary college student, we should have the ability to distinguish right from wrong and know what we can and can't do. We should have self-control ability, arrange our time reasonably, properly handle the relationship with our classmates, consciously abide by school discipline and avoid impulsive and emotional behavior. Abide by rules and discipline, the system is a good orientation, and freedom and the legal system are linked. 3. Ability to analyze and solve problems. We will encounter many problems in real life, which requires us to have the ability to analyze and solve problems. In the face of problems, we should seriously think and analyze, find the breakthrough point and find the solution to the problem.

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In a word, the university is a society with only walls. It is a place where people pursue truth, a world where new people are educated to grow up, a place where individuals become talents, and a place where adults become talents. I hope every student sitting here can become a useful person and believe in their "since God has endowed talents, let them find jobs!" " Work hard, realize your ideals, continue to struggle and walk out of the glory of life!