When encountering difficulties and setbacks, people with self-esteem and self-confidence can constantly strive for self-improvement, overcome setbacks and failures, and succeed in setbacks and failures. People who lose their self-esteem often give up and degrade themselves when they encounter difficulties and setbacks. People who lack confidence, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, first think that they are dying, thus giving up their efforts. Therefore, it is impossible for people without self-esteem and self-confidence to succeed in their careers.
Mao sui recommended himself, jingwei reclaimed the sea, and established Chu. The food he came to was not bent for five buckets of rice. Ji Hongchang also has the story of Ye Ting's prison song Zhou Enlai shaking hands abroad.
1. Once Beethoven and Goethe were having a heated conversation when the Queen and Crown Prince of Germany passed by them and took off their hats to greet them cordially. Beethoven held his head high as if he didn't see anything, but Goethe was flattered. He quickly shook off the dust, adjusted his collar, took off his hat and held it in his hand. He saluted the queen and bowed. Seeing Goethe's servile appearance, the tall poet image before Beethoven suddenly fell apart.
2. Han Xin likes to study military affairs, and he usually carries a long sword. On this day, another group of hooligans came to make trouble. One of them said to Han Xin, "You carry a sword all day, but you don't use it. If you are really capable, kill me with your sword. If you just pretend that you can't use a sword, you can climb between my legs. " Han Xin showed the flexibility of a gentleman and leaned down from the man.
At the beginning of the 20th century, when Xu Beihong was studying in Europe, he met a foreigner who picked things up. The foreigner said, "China people are ignorant and have become the material of the conquered since they were born. Even if you send it to heaven for further study, you can't become a talent! " Xu Beihong replied indignantly: "Well, I represent my motherland and you represent your country. When you graduate from school, you will know who is a talent and who is a fool! " 1 year
Later, Xu Beihong's oil paintings were well received by French artists. After that, he won the first prize in many competitions. His solo exhibition caused a sensation in the whole Paris art world. Such amazing achievements are far beyond the reach of that foreigner.
Newton, known as the "father of mechanics", founded calculus in his twenties, discovered the spectrum and put forward the law of universal gravitation. But instead of taking the credit for himself, he said modestly, "If I see farther than Descartes, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants." . Darwin, the founder of the theory of evolution, had a conversation in an interview with British writer Halton: "Your special achievements?" "no" "your main weakness?" "I don't understand mathematics and new languages, lack observation and are not good at logical thinking." "Your academic attitude?" "I worked hard, but I didn't master the learning method." Where are the self-esteem and self-confidence of these two accomplished scientists? "Modesty makes people progress, and pride makes people lag behind", and modesty is the expression of self-esteem and self-confidence.
The origin of Parker "
In 1950s, when Zhou Enlai was talking with an American journalist, the reporter saw a Parker pen in the Prime Minister's office and asked with a little irony and pride, "Your Excellency, do you believe in pens in China?" Zhou Enlai said humorously, "A North Korean friend gave it to me. This friend said to me: "This was used by the US military at the Panmunjom surrender signing ceremony. Please keep it as a souvenir! "I think the origin of this pen is very meaningful, so I left this pen in your country." The American journalist's face is red to the ears.
3. A one-sentence movie description
1954, Zhou Enlai attended the Geneva conference and informed the staff to show the participants a colorful Yue opera film "Butterfly Lovers". In order to make foreigners understand China's plays, the staff wrote a 15 page explanation and submitted it to Premier Zhou for review. Zhou Enlai criticized employees for "casting pearls before swine, not looking at the real thing". The staff said unconvinced: "It's casting pearls before swine to show this kind of movie to foreigners!"
"That depends on how you play," Zhou Enlai said. "You have to play it with more than ten pages of instructions. This is random. I'll change the game for you. Just write a sentence on the invitation: "Please enjoy a colorful opera film, Romeo and Juliet by China. "After the film was shown, the audience was fascinated and burst into applause from time to time.
4, smart to Mao Zedong.
In May, 1960, Mao Zedong and Zhou Enlai visited Changsha and went for a walk by the river after work. Looking at Orange Island in the distance, there are hundreds of battles, competing in Qian Fan and flying in Yixing, Mao Zedong. The first link is: "orange island, the boat is adjacent to the continent, and the boat is not good." This couplet is dynamic, with a long artistic conception, three broken sentences, two thimbles, and the homonym of "Zhou" and "Zhou" is extremely difficult to handle. Mao Zedong said to Zhou Enlai around him, "Well, I'm going to leave Kaijianglang for a period of time. How about icing on the cake? " Zhou Enlai's wit is extraordinary, and he is familiar with geography. Within a hundred steps, he got a famous saying: "Tianxin Pavilion, pigeons in the pavilion, pigeons in the pavilion fly." Tianxin Pavilion is a scene in Changsha, opposite Orange Island. It was neat and smooth, the whole couplet was seamless, and the two great men smiled at each other.
5.1On August 28th, 973, the 10th National Congress of the Communist Party of China was held in Beijing. Mao Zedong, who attended the meeting, was unable to stand because of leg illness. After the meeting, in order not to let the delegates see the flaw and worry about their health, Mao Zedong has been sitting in his seat, trying to let the delegates leave first. If the chairman doesn't leave, will the representative leave first? It was the careful Premier Zhou Enlai who saw the President's mind and broke the deadlock. He tactfully said that Chairman Mao wanted to see everyone leave the meeting. Mao Zedong deliberately said obstinately, "If you don't go, I won't go." In this way, the delegates turned around step by step and reluctantly waved goodbye to the chairman.
Yan Zi was sent to Chu.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Qi and Chu were both big countries. On one occasion, the King of Qi sent a doctor, Yan Zi, to the State of Chu. Relying on the strength of the country, the King of Chu wanted to take the opportunity to insult Yan Zi and show the prestige of the State of Chu. Knowing that Yan Zi was short, the King of Chu dug a hole five feet high beside the city gate. When Yan Zi came to the State of Chu, the King of Chu told people to close the city gate and let Yan Zi out of this hole. Yan Zi looked at it and said to the receptionist, "This is a dog hole, not a city gate. Only by visiting the' Dog Country' can you enter from the dog hole. " I'll wait here for a while, and you'll find out what kind of country Chu is. "The receptionist immediately told this to the king of Chu. The king of Chu had to ask him to open the city gate and welcome Yan Zi in.
7. The story of Seiji Ozawa. Seiji Ozawa is a world-famous Japanese conductor. In a music conducting competition, when he played according to the score given by the jury, he found several discordant places. At first, he thought the band was playing wrong, so he stopped to perform, and the result was still the same. At this time, the composers and judges present solemnly declared that there was no problem with the score. In the face of hundreds of authorities, Seiji Ozawa thought for a moment and shouted: "No, the score must be wrong!" As soon as the voice fell, warm applause rang out from the judging panel. It turns out that this is a "trap" carefully designed by the judges. The top two players were eliminated because they blindly followed the authority. Seiji Ozawa finally won the championship. His success is not only a success in artistic attainments, but also a success in self-esteem and self-confidence.