In one's life, setbacks are inevitable. If we want to be successful and happy, we must be able to bear pain and frustration. This is a kind of tempering for people, and it is also a necessary process for a person to grow up.
We can think about it. If everything went smoothly from the day when human beings were born on the earth and did not feel any setbacks and failures, would human beings still be as wise and successful as they are today?
Facts have proved that the success of many celebrities at all times and all over the world was achieved after overcoming various difficulties and setbacks. Dayu, who is famous for water control, Qin Shihuang, who swept the six countries to unify the world, Sima Qian, who worked hard to write history books, Sun Yat-sen, who revived China and ended the imperial system, Mao Zedong, who knocked down three mountains to create a new China, and Edison, who finally invented the electric light after many hardships and dangers ... In order to succeed, they all made efforts, overcame difficulties and setbacks unimaginable to ordinary people, and even experienced a life-and-death contest.
These successful examples tell us that life setbacks are not terrible, but how we treat them. It's like the road is under your feet, just watching how you go. If we find the right way to deal with setbacks, we will get inspiration from them and make our life go smoothly.
First of all, when encountering setbacks, we should calmly analyze, find out the reasons of setbacks from the aspects of objectivity, subjectivity, goals, environment and conditions, and take effective remedial measures. We should treat setbacks dialectically. We should know that setbacks are inevitable for anyone, maintain a confident and optimistic attitude towards setbacks, and realize that it is setbacks and lessons that make us smart and mature, and it is failures and setbacks that ultimately create success.
Secondly, we should have a normal mind and treat setbacks calmly. When encountering setbacks, don't sigh, complain about others, lament that fate is unfair to you, and don't give up on yourself. We should realize that setbacks can not only bring hardships and tempering to our growth, but also help our future growth.
As a student, we are bound to encounter some setbacks in life and study, but if we want to hone ourselves in the rough, we should face them correctly and overcome them. Only in this way can we get rid of the predicament and let setbacks become our "grindstone" for success.
Students, let's cheer up and treat setbacks with a correct and scientific attitude!