In normal social communication, honesty and trustworthiness are the basis of establishing friendship. Abiding by the moral norms of honesty and trustworthiness can not only reduce crimes and stop crimes, but also have positive significance for building a harmonious society. As a middle school student, we should start from bit by bit and cultivate our good quality of honesty and trustworthiness. Confucius, a great educator and thinker in ancient China, repeatedly advocated "People can't stand without faith".
If a person has no credit, he can't communicate with others normally, and he will lose his foothold in society. A person who doesn't keep his word may not be accepted by society for a day. Therefore, credit is a necessary condition for a person. Only by sticking to the promise to others can one develop mutual friendship and produce deep feelings, and can one get the care and help of others.
On the other hand, if a person takes what he says as a joke, he will lose the trust of others, stay out of interpersonal relationships, and let himself fall into a cold social atmosphere and suffer terrible loneliness. The foundation of honesty is trust. Being honest with others means trusting each other and letting them trust themselves at the same time. We must believe that people are always kind. When being kind to others, we should trust each other, match words with deeds and give.
The establishment of a person's image often depends on honesty. If a person is honest and trustworthy, then his personality is tall. The friendship between Fan and Zhang Shao recorded in the Book of Later Han Dynasty reflects the sincerity and trust between friends, leaving a story of Syria-Syria friendship. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, when they were studying in imperial academy, they forged a deep friendship. When they parted, Paradigm took Zhang Shao's hand and said, "Two years. His mother said, "Silly boy, Paradigm's home is more than a thousand miles from here. How can there be? "Zhang Shao said paradigm is honest, sincere and trustworthy, and will not come. The appointed date has arrived, and the paradigm has certainly arrived. The old mother wiped her tears with excitement and sighed, "There are such trustworthy friends in the world! "In the tradition of the Chinese nation, honesty has always been the virtue of noble personality.
On the contrary, if a person does not stress honesty, he will be cast aside by the world. During the Three Kingdoms period, Lu Bu didn't speak good faith, recognized Ding Yuan Dong Zhuo as his father, and then rebelled and killed them. At that time, it was called "three surnames slave". Although he has world-famous ability and great appearance, his personality image is a poor dwarf in people's minds. Guan Yu, who is good at martial arts, is loyal.
Obviously, honesty and trustworthiness can shape a person's tall image. If a person is hypocritical, opportunistic and treacherous, he will lose faith in others and destroy the normal relationship between people. Only in social communication can he objectively reflect the situation, fairly judge right and wrong, have a sense of justice, be principled, seek truth from facts, tell the truth, keep his word and keep his promise, and not only tear up the contract unilaterally. Punctuality, punctuality, generosity and unkindness. Oppose following the trend, flattery, buck-passing, sow dissension, slander, insult, deception, duplicity and unkindness, and you will gain the admiration, trust and praise of others.
Students, only when people are completely sincere can they usher in eternal happiness. Good temperament will follow and shine. Shakespeare said, "A pair of good legs will fall off. A bunch of black beards will turn white; All hair will become bald; A beautiful face will wither; A pair of round eyes will fall first-but a sincere heart is the sun and the moon-or the sun, not the moon; Because the sun is brilliant, it has never turned from profit to loss, but it has always been like this. " Dear students, from now on, we should cultivate hard and let the flowers of honesty and trustworthiness bloom in our lives forever.
Fan Wener:
Have middle school students lost their traditions?
Compared with the excitement of Valentine's Day, the graceful Tanabata is even more deserted. The Spring Festival, which spanned thousands of years, did not bring joy to people. Festivals are just a small microcosm, in fact, it is a loss of tradition. The pursuit of novelty and glitz is an unprecedented and beautiful era, and it is also facing the collapse of tradition.
I can't refute it any more. I, a middle school student and a post-90s generation, hate rigidity and simplicity even more. Those traditions are like beautiful antiques in my eyes, only suitable for display in museums, not at home. I turned my head and asked my father, "Have middle school students lost their traditions?" Dad gave me a look. "Why do you ask such a profound question?" Then I went on reading the newspaper. I turned back to my room and heard a voice behind me. "Tradition is not easy to lose."
Really, won't it? There are mugwort leaves hanging in front of the desk, and I beg to put them, thinking that they can prevent mosquitoes; On Qingming Day, I will remind my parents to visit the grave, although I also want to take the opportunity to go for an outing. Rebellious at heart, unwilling to listen to parents, but always duplicity, give in after quarreling.