"Friendly" is a necessary moral norm in interpersonal communication, which is intangible rather than tangible. O If people can handle all kinds of things in daily life with the attitude of "being kind to others", I believe we will live more comfortably. O in school work, we are friendly to students and can better enter their spiritual world. O I have read a fable. The sun and the wind are arguing about who is better. The wind said, "I will prove that I am better than you. Do you see the man in a coat over there? I bet I can get him to take off his coat faster than you. O "So the sun hid behind the clouds, and the wind began to blow, and it became a hurricane. But the faster the wind blows, the tighter the old man is wrapped. Finally, the wind gave up. Then the sun came out from behind the clouds and smiled brightly at the old man. Soon, the old man began to wipe the sweat and then took off his coat. The sun said to the wind, "you see, it is still so gentle and friendly." Friendship brings people real desire and peace. Life is like a mirror. What attitude you have towards others will be returned to you. If you are arrogant, others will look at you coldly. If you swear, others may oppose you, but if you are sincere and friendly, others will greet you with a smile. O an unfriendly person, unwilling to accommodate others, will not be accommodated collectively, and his pride will only fall to the point of narcissism. A very friendly and helpful person, the group will be happy to hug him and enjoy the warmth of the group together. O friendliness, as a civic moral standard, its basic contents are friendliness, friendliness, kindness, goodwill and kindness to others. O Everyone lives in this world, and it is inevitable that some unpleasant things will happen when people get along with each other, such as accidentally stepping on their feet, accidentally bumping into each other, accidentally saying something wrong, doing something wrong, hurting others and so on. Both sides need to be friendly: one side sincerely apologizes and the other side forgives, so as to "turn hostility into friendship". Similarly, moral education in schools should be based on "friendliness". O the times are changing, and the students are different now, and their quality is higher. It is necessary to "recall painful experiences", but blindly talking about how they suffered in the past will only make students more disgusted. We must adapt to the development of the situation. Our education should fully respect students' personality development and treat students with tolerance, friendliness, care and appreciation. O We should change our ideas, stop preaching to students all the time, and don't preach to students in a "grasping" way and ignore their extremely rich spiritual world, which will inevitably make moral education get twice the result with half the effort. O However, if friendliness is regarded as an important standard of moral education, we should always praise students, let them experience success, and cultivate students' self-motivation and self-evaluation ability. O Only in this way can we get twice the result with half the effort. O If we always take "people-oriented", "student-oriented" and "friendliness" as the important standards of moral education, and cultivate students' abilities of "self-education, self-management and self-motivation" through colorful activities, only in this way can we better reverse the phenomenon of "after the rain clears up" in moral education. O Nowadays, there are many opportunities for students to get in touch with the society, which are often prone to these phenomena: for example, on the eve of freshmen's admission and graduates' leaving school, the school blows up the wind of treating guests, eating and drinking, and falling in love; Some 13-and 14-year-old students paint eyebrows and wear earrings to pursue eating, drinking and having fun; Some students are tired of studying and leave school to work in small enterprises, hoping to earn a little money. O, such abnormal behaviors are varied, and so on. O If the ways and means of school moral education are wrong, the above phenomenon can not effectively prevent O from being in the process of moral education. Only by maintaining close contact with people and things around students in a friendly way can students feel tangible, amiable, respectable, learnable and most practical. Therefore, at the same time, we should tell the educatee the external norms in a friendly way, so that they can be transformed into his virtues, and then form his moral concepts and finally into his moral behavior. As the saying goes, "Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand". Everyone wants to live in a friendly, friendly and friendly atmosphere and hope that his surroundings are full of goodwill, kindness and kindness. However, there are too many entanglements in life. The same is true for students. We should establish a new relationship between teachers and students. O With the development of society, especially the development of socialist market economy, the idea of equality and freedom is deeply rooted in people's hearts, which greatly impacts the traditional basic education in our country. It is urgent for us to change the old concept of teachers and students and establish a new relationship between teachers and students, that is, to establish good feelings between teachers and students through friendly exchanges on the basis of equality and realize mutual care and promotion between teachers and students. Finally, let students work hard in the direction of "being kind to others". First of all, we should learn to be tolerant. Everyone is walking on the same road, and a little friction is normal. As the saying goes, "teeth and tongue will fight." However, after the conflict, we should be patient, tolerant and considerate, and we should not haggle over every ounce. We should relax the scale and broaden our horizons, so that the conflict can be resolved quickly. This is what people often say, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon". Friendship is a precious feeling between people. No false decoration, no utilitarian color. O So, we should take tolerance and friendliness as lubricants in our life and let them bring us a good mood every day. O second, be good at abandoning grievances. In real life, people will inevitably have misunderstandings and even resentment. O In fact, resentment is an inner wound. People with resentment must live a very tired life, o We should generously abandon all resentment towards others and treat others with a friendly attitude, so that we can not only be kind to others, but also benefit ourselves-let go of the "baggage" of our mood, o In this way, you will have more and more friends, your life path will be wider and wider, and everyone hopes to live in a friendly and happy atmosphere. Everyone wants to be surrounded by kindness, tolerance and warmth ... which requires each of us to get along with others in a friendly manner. * * * We will jointly create a comfortable, warm and harmonious living environment. O being friendly to others not only reflects a person's moral level, but sometimes even reflects the quality of a nation. Please keep a friendly heart! ,