If you don't believe in your will, you'll never be a general.

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and son went to war. The father became a general and the son was just a pawn. Another horn sounded, the drums roared, and my father solemnly raised an quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son, "This is the treasure arrow at home. It is extremely powerful when you carry it with you, but you must never take it out. " This is an extremely delicate quiver, made of thick cowhide, inlaid with faint shiny copper edges, and look at the arrow's exposed tail. You can tell at a glance that it is made of fine peacock feathers. The son was beaming and greedily speculated about the appearance of the arrow, as if the sound of the arrow whizzed past his ear, and the enemy commander fell off his horse and died. Sure enough, the son with the treasure arrow is heroic and invincible. When the trumpet sounded, the son could no longer resist the heroic spirit of victory and completely abandoned his father's words. A strong desire drove him to shout and pull out his treasure arrow, trying to find out. Suddenly he was shocked. A broken arrow, there is a broken arrow in the quiver. I have been fighting with a broken arrow! My son broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had lost its pillar in an instant and collapsed.

The result is self-evident, and my son died tragically in the disorderly army.

Sweeping away the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your own will, you will never be a general."

How stupid it is to pin victory or defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is for a person to give the core and handle of life to others! For example, pin your hopes on children; Put happiness on her husband; Insure the crew with life insurance ...

Hint: You are an arrow. You want it to be tough, you want it to be sharp, you want it to go through a hundred paces and hit a hundred shots, you sharpen it, and only you can save it.

2. The value of life

Don't let yesterday's depression cover up tomorrow's dreams!

At a seminar, a famous speaker held a $20 bill in his hand and didn't make an opening speech. Facing the 200 people in the meeting room, he asked, "Who wants this $20?" Put one hand up. He went on to say, "I want to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing." As he spoke, he crumpled up the money and asked, "Who wants more?" There are people holding hands. He added, "Well, what if I do this?" He threw the money on the ground, stepped on it and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the dirty and wrinkled bill. "Who wants it now?" Someone still raised their hands. "My friends, you had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it, because it hasn't depreciated, and it's still worth 20 dollars. On the road of life, we will be decided or met by ourselves countless times.

Adversity knocked down, bullied, and even crushed. We feel as if we are worthless. But no matter what happens, or what will happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his view, dirty or clean, dressed neatly or untidy, you are still priceless. "

Tips: The value of life lies not in what we do, nor in who we make friends with, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this!

It's beautiful to hold your head up and chest out.

Although it is a black cow, the milk is white.

Jenny is a little girl who always lowers her head. She always feels that she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store and bought a green bow. The shopkeeper always praised her for wearing a bow. Jenny doesn't believe it, but

I am very happy, but I can't help being cocky and eager to show it to everyone. I don't care if I go out and bump into people. Jenny walked into the classroom and met her teacher head-on. "Jenny, it's nice to look up!" "The teacher lovingly patted.

Pat her on the shoulder and say. That day, she was praised by many people. She thought it must be a bow, but when she looked in front of the mirror, there was no bow on her head. She must have lost it when she came out of the jewelry store. Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people lose a lot of happiness because they care too much about appearance.

Tips: Whether you are poor or rich, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone likes.

4. Draw a leaf for life

As long as you believe, there will always be miracles. Although the hope is slim, it will last forever.

American writer Ou; Henry told a story in his novel The Last Leaf: In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree outside the window from his room and fell down one by one in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him and his health went from bad to worse. She said, "When all the leaves are gone, I will die." When an old painter learned about it, he drew a leaf with green veins with a colored pen and hung it on a branch.

The last leaf never fell. Because of the green color in life, the patient miraculously survived.

Tip: Life can be without many things, but only without hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!

5.flying spiders

Faith is a never-ending force. When you believe that you can succeed, you will succeed.

One day, I found a black spider making a big net between two eaves in the backyard. Can spiders fly? Otherwise, from this cornice to that cornice, there are more than ten feet wide in the middle. How is the first line pulled?

Later, I found that the spider took many detours-starting from a cornice, knotting, walking along the wall, climbing forward step by step, being careful, raising its tail to prevent the spider silk from touching the sand or other objects on the ground and walking through the clearing.

Climb up the opposite cornice again, the height is almost the same, then tighten the wire, and so on.

Tip: Spiders can't fly, but they can make webs in mid-air. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent and tenacious insect, and its net is exquisite and regular, with Zhang Kaicheng gossip shape, as if with the help of God. such

Achievements remind people of those who are taciturn and some hidden wise men. Then, I remembered that a spider can't fly, but it still weaves a web in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people.

6. Shadow is a paper dragon.

In life, there are often countless blows from the outside world, but the final decision is in your hands.

Grandpa made me a long dragon out of paper. The gap in the dragon's abdominal cavity can only accommodate a few locusts, and all of them die in it, and no one is spared! Grandfather said, "locusts are too impatient." In addition to struggling, they didn't

I thought about biting the dragon with my mouth, but I didn't know that I could climb out from the other end by going straight. So, although it has an iron pliers-like mouth shell and serrated thighs, it doesn't help. "At that time, my grandfather put a few greens of the same size.

Put insects in the faucet, then turn off the faucet, and a miracle appears: in just a few minutes, the green bugs climbed out of Bali one by one.

Tip: Destiny is always hidden in our minds. Many people can't get out of the shadows of different stages of life, not because their natural personal conditions are much worse than others, but because they have no thoughts.

I want to bite the shadow paper dragon, but I have no patience to find a direction slowly and walk forward step by step until a new hole appears in front of me.

7. Success is not as difficult as you think.

We dare not do it not because it is difficult, but because we dare not do it.

1965, a Korean student went to Cambridge University to study psychology. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners and some.

Academic authorities in some fields and people who have created economic myths are humorous and easy to lift weights. They all regard their success as natural and logical. After a long time, he found that at home, he was a

Some successful people cheat. Those people generally exaggerate the hardships of starting a business in order to let those who are starting a business retreat, that is to say, they are scaring those who have not succeeded with their own successful experience.

As a student of psychology department, he thinks it is necessary to study the mentality of successful people in Korea. 1970, he took success as his graduation thesis and submitted it to the founder of modern economic psychology.

Yes, the first person; Professor Braden. Professor Braden was greatly surprised after reading it. He thinks this is a new discovery. Although this phenomenon is common in the East and even the whole world, no one has boldly proposed it before.

And study it. Surprised, he wrote to his Cambridge alumnus park chung-hee, who was sitting at the top of Korean politics. He said in the letter: "I can't say how much this book has helped you, but I'm sure it will shock you more than any of your laws." Later, this book really took off with the Korean economy. This book has inspired many people, because it tells people from a new angle that success is not necessarily related to "stretching bones, starving the body, starving the skin", "burning the midnight oil at five o'clock" and "hanging the beam on the head and stabbing the stocks on the awl". As long as you are interested in a cause, stick to it for a long time.

You will succeed, because God has given you enough time and wisdom to accomplish one thing successfully. Later, the young man also achieved success. He became the president of Pan Ye Automobile Company.

Tips: Many things in the world can be done as long as you want, and the difficulties you should overcome can also be overcome. You don't need any iron will, let alone any skill or strategy. As long as a person is simple and

Living with great interest, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangement for the world is natural.

8. always hold this ticket

Life is really interesting: if you only accept the best, you will often get the best.

There is a person who travels a lot and often can't buy the right ticket. But no matter the distance, no matter how crowded the bus is, he can always find a seat.

His method is actually very simple, that is, patiently looking for one car after another. This method doesn't sound brilliant, but it does work. Every time he is going to walk from the first car to the last car, but he doesn't have to walk to the end every time. He will find an empty seat. He said that this is because not many passengers are so persistent in finding seats. There are often some seats in the carriage where he sits, but now

The aisles and joints of his carriage are extremely crowded. He said that most passengers are easily confused by the superficial phenomenon of one or two cars being crowded and will not think about it. In dozens of stations, there are many opportunities to provide seats in the flow of people from more than a dozen doors of the train. Even if I thought about it, I didn't have the patience to find it Most people are easily satisfied with a small foothold in front of them, and some people think it is not cost-effective to squeeze one or two seats with their bags on their backs. They are also worried that if they can't find a seat, they won't even have a place to stand back. Just like some people who are content with the status quo and afraid of failure, they can only stay at the starting point without success. Most of these passengers who are unwilling to take the initiative to find seats can only stand in the initial position when they get on the bus until they get off.

Tips: Self-confidence, persistence, foresight, and diligence in practice will make you hold a ticket for the journey of life forever.

9. The stone in my heart

What hinders us from discovering and creating is only our psychological obstacles and stubborn stones in our minds.

Once upon a time, there was a big stone in a family's garden, about 40 cm wide and 10 cm high. People who go to the vegetable garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or scratching. The son asked, "Dad, why don't you dig up that disgusting stone?" Dad replied, "You mean that stone? It has been here since your grandfather's time. So big, I don't know when to dig. If there is nothing to do except dig stones, it is better to walk carefully and exercise your reaction ability. " After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, my son married a daughter-in-law and became a father. One day, my daughter-in-law said angrily, "Dad, the bigger the stones in the vegetable garden, the more I look at them, the more I feel." I'll ask someone to move it another day. "

Dad replied, "Forget it! That big stone is heavy. If I could move, I moved when I was a child. How can I leave it here? " Daughter-in-law's heart is very bad I don't know how many times that big stone made her fall. One morning, the daughter-in-law took a hoe and a bucket of water and poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone. 10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law used a hoe to loosen the soil around the big stone. Daughter-in-law has been psychologically prepared and may have to dig for a day. No one expected that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes. Look at the size. This stone is not as big as expected, and it was deceived by its huge appearance.

Tips: You can't climb the mountain with the idea of going down. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mentality.

10, pursuing ecstasy

Don't think of yourself as a mouse, or you will be eaten by a cat.

1858, a rich family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. However, soon, the child contracted an unexplained paralysis and lost the ability to walk. Once, the girl and her family traveled by boat. The captain's wife told the child that the captain had a bird of paradise. She was fascinated by the bird's description and wanted to see it for herself. So the nanny left the child on the deck and went to the captain herself. The child couldn't bear to wait, so he asked the waiter on board to take her to see the bird of paradise at once. The waiter didn't know that her legs couldn't walk, just took her to see the beautiful birds. The miracle happened.

After that, because of excessive desire, the child selflessly took the waiter's hand and walked slowly. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. When a girl grows up, she devotes herself to literary creation and eventually becomes the first woman to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, namely Thelma Lagroff.

Tip: Forgetting yourself is the shortcut to success. Only in this environment can people transcend their own constraints and release the greatest energy.

Youth Inspirations-Another Treasure (Prose)

Qiao Ye

I once read a novel, Green Ink, about a loving father who wrote an anonymous courtship letter to his daughter in the name of his classmates in order to make her have the courage to face life. Moved, it suddenly occurred to me that people are really fragile and always seem to need other people's words and feelings to affirm that they love themselves. If one day no one in the world cares about you, loves you, listens to you and encourages you-there will be such a moment in life, what will you do?

I deeply remember the bitter anecdote of an old musician. During the Cultural Revolution, he was sent to the countryside to mow the grass for livestock for seven years. When he was rehabilitated, people were surprised to find that he was not haggard and senile. He smiled and said, "How can you be old? I shoot grass 4/4 every day. " For this reason, I fell in love with this unknown musician and his works. He knows how to save himself and love himself.

I also deeply remember another musician, Gu Shengying, an outstanding female pianist. I felt sorry for her more than once. She committed suicide at the beginning of the Cultural Revolution. I know it's not that she doesn't love herself, but that she loves too much-to the point of doting. Music makes her ethereal, beautiful and beautiful, but when the beautiful things are trampled on, she destroys herself.

Why don't you learn to love yourself?

Learning to love ourselves is not to let us tolerate and indulge ourselves, but to learn to be diligent and self-disciplined. There are always many times in this life when no one urges us, guides us, warns us or reminds us. Even our dearest parents and sincere friends will not stay with us forever. The care and care we have may be lost at any time. At this time, we must learn to trim ourselves and find water to fertilize ourselves, so that we will not sink into a withered grass with the wind, but grow into a tall and lush plant.

Learn to love yourself. It is not for us to abuse ourselves and demand ourselves, but for us to learn to send ourselves a flower, draw ourselves a coastline and give ourselves a bright smile when we have to walk alone in the dark rainy night without starlight or moonlight and independently support the hardships of life that no one shares with us. Then, with a good premonition and auspicious wishes, I lived and walked through one morning after another with tenacity.

Some people may say that this is a kind of self-deception, but if this short-term deception can achieve long-term real happiness, what is wrong with self-deception?

Learning to love yourself is not a shame, but an honor. Because this is not out of ignorance and narrowness, but out of advocating and cherishing life. This can make our life richer and healthier, and also make our soul stronger. It allows us to build bricks and tiles by ourselves when there is no room to live, build our own palace and become the masters of our spiritual home.

Learn to love yourself, and you will truly know how to love the world.