The sun and the wind are arguing about who is stronger. The wind said, "I will prove that I am better than you." Did you see the old man in a coat? I bet I can get him to take off his coat faster than you. " So the sun hid behind the clouds, and the wind began to blow, and it became bigger and bigger, becoming a hurricane. But the faster the wind blows, the tighter the old man is wrapped. Finally, the wind gave up. Then the sun came out from behind the clouds and smiled brightly at the old man. Soon, the old man began to wipe the sweat and then took off his coat. The sun said to the wind, "You see, it is still gentle and friendly, and it is more powerful than anger and violence." After reading the material, please write an article on the topic of "friendliness". You can write your own experiences, experiences, feelings and opinions, or you can write a story. Note: 1, self-determination. 2, the style is optional. 3, not less than 800 words. Pay attention to the following points when writing this topic: 1, and accurately understand the spirit of the topic. In the form of fable, the title material reveals the truth that "gentleness and friendliness are more powerful than anger and violence" by comparing the wind with the sun. It is best to show such a set of contrast in words, that is, not only to explain the importance of "friendliness" to others, but also to compare it with "anger and violence" 2. We can focus on the overall situation and talk about the necessity of friendly coexistence between countries and nations; You can also start from a small place and talk about being kind to people around you and promoting the harmony of interpersonal relationships; You can also change your starting point and write that human beings should be kind to nature and protect the environment. I remember that a few years ago, the Chinese teacher read us an article entitled "A Kind Word is Warm in Three Winter", and there was a fragment in it, which is still fresh in my memory. Hoover, a famous American test pilot, flew back to Los Angeles. In the air more than 90 meters above the ground, just two engines failed at the same time. Thanks to his superb skills, the plane landed miraculously. Hoover immediately checked the jet oil. As he expected, the propeller plane he was flying was full of jet oil. When he summoned the mechanic in charge of maintenance, the other person cried with fear. At this time, Hoover did not fly into a rage as everyone expected. Instead, he stretched out his arm and hugged the maintenance man's shoulder. He said confidently, "To prove that you can do a good job, I want you to help me maintain my plane tomorrow." Since then, Hoover's plane has never broken down, and careless maintenance workers have become conscientious and meticulous. This story is very touching. Although the repairman's fault almost killed him, Hoover, who is kind-hearted, deeply understands the psychology of those who are at fault. When the other party makes a serious mistake, they should be considerate, self-restrained and give unexpected relief to restore their confidence and self-esteem. This is the great power of friendliness. Imagine that if Hoover angrily reprimanded the repairman, or even held him accountable, it would probably completely destroy the repairman. Visible, in the face of the same thing, with two different attitudes to treat, there will be different endings. Friendly, can make big things small, be kind to others and benefit yourself-has Hoover's plane never gone wrong since then? Dealing with anger and even violence often hurts rather than benefits. Whether you can be friendly to others not only reflects a person's moral level, but sometimes even reflects the quality of a nation. It is reported that in Canada, the same traffic accident can be solved smoothly in less than two minutes, and the driver will get off the bus soon. Depending on the actual situation of the accident, the two sides settled it through friendly negotiation, and both sides apologized to each other, so in less than two minutes, they drove away separately. However, in China, it is difficult to settle disputes without spending an hour. There is a simple reason. Once the car crashes, the driver will put down the window. Whether he is wrong or not, he will swear, get angry in the car and get off the bus to accuse the other party. So the vehicles behind could not move forward, and the drivers honked their horns one by one. Until the traffic police came forward to analyze the responsibilities of both sides of the accident, a storm went away, but the parties often had to exchange a few words to vent their anger. In that case, it won't take an hour or two to be strange. A senior researcher once wrote: "In the competition of 2 1 century, we can still overcome the difficulties in production and economy, and we can catch up with them ... but compared with developed countries, even some developing countries, the national quality is not optimistic." In my opinion, not being gentle, not introspective and not being friendly with others is a concrete aspect of our low quality. Life is a mirror. When you walk to the mirror with a friendly face, you will find that the people in the mirror are also smiling at you kindly; When you face it roughly, you will find that the man in the mirror is also waving his fist at you. Life is alive, please have a friendly heart and keep a friendly feeling! Being friendly means being healthier, richer and going further. The five forces of the law of friendliness will improve your interpersonal relationship and lead you to success.

Being friendly can bring you good interpersonal relationship and health. A peaceful mind can make you richer and luckier. At that time, you will enjoy success and family harmony.

Linda Kaplan Taylor and Robin Koval once published a portable book called The Power of Kindness, in which they mentioned: How to use your friendliness to get ahead in business, not just to improve interpersonal relationships. Kindness promotes health, improves your love life and makes you richer. Besides, your colleagues, friends and family will respect you more.

However, the most important thing is that you should always respect yourself.

Improve interpersonal relationships: being friendly is not resigned.

Being friendly and improving interpersonal relationships does not mean obedience and flattery. Your friendliness can still be based on self-confidence and self-esteem. It can help you get promoted in your position, become richer materially, improve interpersonal relationships, win enviable marriages, and make more like-minded and honest friends.

Taylor and Koval's The Power of Kindness describes how to apply friendliness to the business world. The five forces of the law of friendliness apply not only to family, social occasions and churches, but also to traffic jams.

Five forces of the law of friendship

The power of a good impression. When you sincerely thank your assistant, treat the messenger kindly and show respect to a stranger, you are emitting positive and infectious energy. The more healthy qi you exude, the more positive feedback you get. This is a sign that your interpersonal relationship has improved. This is like the book The Secret or Law of Attraction: Birds of a feather flock together. The author of The Power of Kindness compares this positive impression to the seeds you planted in advance. One day, those seeds will soon grow into healthy plants!

Anything could happen. Have you ever given a taxi to a stranger, or left a door for a faltering old man? If so, then you are becoming friendly. This kind of friendliness will be rewarded if this stranger is the president of the company you want to enter, or this old man is the boss of your company. Helping others can improve your interpersonal relationship and make you more confident in yourself (in essence, that is also a reward! )。

People change. The messenger was probably just training. He may be a policeman, a lawyer's secretary, or a teaching assistant with promotion opportunities. Being kind to others may earn gains similar to bank accounts or stocks. When you treat others with respect and kindness, you are not only improving your interpersonal relationship, but also investing in your future. Just like other investments, it may take a long time to make a profit-of course, there are short-term returns.

Negative impressions are contagious. When you treat waiters rudely or despise shop assistants, people often notice and remember them deeply; When you blame your colleagues or subordinates, you are also spreading negative influence and tarnishing your reputation. If you are not friendly enough, your customers, colleagues and subordinates will be reluctant to cooperate with you, but if you know the power of friendliness and show enough friendliness, they will gladly accept the opportunity to cooperate with you and try their best to help you! Therefore, the improvement of interpersonal relationship also includes respecting others.

To say the least, even if you can't see the obvious effect of friendliness, at least you will respect and appreciate yourself more. Your self-confidence and self-esteem will be enhanced, making you the most loved and trusted person in the office and at parties. Your reputation will make you the most respected person. In addition, your interpersonal relationship is improving.

Your friendliness can make you richer, luckier and healthier-you will love and enjoy life more!

Spiritual kindling: friendly Liu Jiahao has a kind of brilliance that hangs over the spiritual home of the Chinese nation; There is a flame that jumps over the fire of hope; There is a kind of fervor, which promotes the constant deduction of immortal legends. That's friendliness. So, what is friendliness? Gorky wrote a passage in his childhood: "When the night comes, a powerful and refreshing thing is injected into his mind like a loving mother's caress, and peace is gently stroked like a warm and furry hand, erasing everything that should be forgotten in his memory and all the dust that erodes people during the day." I said, this is friendliness. Therefore, looking at ancient and modern times, this brilliance, flame and fiery momentum has gradually weakened. Today, when people ignore friendliness, is it extravagant for us to gently touch friendliness with warm hands? Wang Dianxun, the bus driver, bravely struggled with the gangster, but others didn't help him. Holding the attitude of "nothing to do with yourself, hanging high", he was injured by gangsters. A young man gave his seat to an old man who was over half a hundred years old on the bus. While we give praise, some people scoff at it, calling it hypocrisy and thinking it is a show. As a result, friendliness is gradually leaving us, and maybe it will disappear one day. We can only look for him in history. At this moment, some people may ask: how to make friendliness hold its head high in the biting wind and rain, like flowers in full bloom in midsummer? Shelved for protection? Afraid of getting into trouble, stay at a respectful distance from sb? Obviously, we can't. This reminds me of the birds in the forest. They know that singing loudly will attract the attention of hunters, but they are not afraid. They sing passionately as always and will not give up singing even if they sacrifice their precious lives. What about us humans? Analysis of the Story of The Farmer and the Snake Hugo, a famous French writer, once said, "Kindness is the sunshine of the spiritual world." Yes, we can't lose the courage to fight ugliness because of repeated injuries, because we need to protect our spiritual fire: friendliness. [Comment] I feel that you have a good development trend in argumentative writing: you pay great attention to the tempering of language while making a rigorous exposition. There are two requirements for argumentative language. The first is strict and accurate; The second is to have feelings. The first point can be noticed by most people when writing argumentative papers, and the second point is difficult for many people to do. I think you can notice the second point, which is very valuable. In the future argumentative writing, we can strive to develop ourselves in this respect, which is one of the important means to write distinctive articles. However, here I would like to remind all the students who are working hard in this direction that any article is won by reason or emotion, and the modification of language ultimately serves this reason and emotion. Therefore, when we are trying to make our articles rich in literary talent, we should always think that language serves to express our thoughts and try to avoid the writing thinking of giving up the basics. Thanks for adoption