This is a necessary condition for the continuation of mankind.

At the same time, the family formed after marriage is society.

As the basic unit, everyone has corresponding clear rights and obligations, so that the society can develop steadily and orderly.

So a set of social marriage rules was formed.

Everyone must abide by this set of rules of the game.

Of course, there are people.

The right to choose not to get married or have children. If it is a voluntary choice, I will not analyze it.

One of the core elements of marriage is love.

So getting married is not only the need of living together,

(* * * with life refers to.

Is the complementary advantages of family members,

Cooperate with each other,

* * * shall bear corresponding responsibilities and obligations,

* * * Share life

Happiness here refers to the needs of personal and social development. ) is the need of emotional communication and care. society

Taking the family as a constituent unit,

So there is a difference between relatives and others.

In today's social system.

There will naturally be a crisis of confidence,

Others are not so trustworthy.

Private ownership breeds human egoism,

With the popularization of high technology, the distance between people is getting farther and farther, and the society seems to be getting more and more indifferent.

Yes

So relatives become the most trustworthy,

Who can get the most sincere love at the same time,

Especially couples.

Suddenly, this emotional need is getting stronger and stronger. A third party or lover (not husband and wife) just doesn't need * * *

Cohabitation is just a social product of emotional care.

Is this realistic marriage happy after all? It should be said that it makes people happy,

But why can't people always find it

What about the feeling of happiness? what is love ?

In people's common concept, happiness means being loved,

It mainly means that someone loves themselves,

Including one that allows

Love yourself.

The spiritual independence of modern people is getting worse and worse.

Dependence is getting stronger and stronger,

It seems that a person can't live.

In fact, the human spirit should always be independent and free.

The human soul is single,

Constantly feel that people are lonely

Life, beyond life, can only rely on yourself. But modern people can't be lonely, they can only be lonely.

But the desire to get love is so strong that you can't live without it. Life is always waiting, watching and waiting.

When I feel whether my lover really loves me,

Whether it is considerate enough,

Can you go into your heart and close it?

Be careful of yourself,

Know yourself,

Take this as the biggest spiritual sustenance and happiness index.

With bread and it, I want to be.

But you can get married,

This is a happy marriage.

If you have bread, you don't feel this way, but you are married, that's not allowed.

Not getting married is unhappy in people's eyes.

Since the human spirit is independent and free,

Your partner is the person who has lived with you the longest.

in life

Need each other,

Mentally, the lover is still an outsider,

he

(she)

You can never walk into your own soul.

So everyone should learn to get along with themselves. Only in this way can they be truly confident.

Have the courage to follow your own life path,

To truly love life,

Cherish life.

I think this is how people become.

At the root of human beings, a person can only know what love is if he knows how to love himself.