Jin Yong and Liang Yusheng, the masters of the new martial arts novels, are known as "a moment of beauty". However, the two men were not convinced of each other and played several "pen and ink lawsuits." In 1960s, Liang Yusheng once surpassed Jin Yong in status and influence, and his works were adapted into movies and TV series, which were slightly better than Jin Yong in both quantity and quality.
While the "fans" on both sides were arguing fiercely about who was the "first person in the Jianghu", Liang Yusheng himself gave up the name. He said confidently, "I am the first person in the world who knows that Jin Yong writes martial arts better than Liang Yusheng."
Later, Liang Yusheng and Jin Yong attended a seminar on martial arts novels. During the dinner, some people called Liang Yusheng a master of new martial arts novels, but he once again mentioned Jin Yong: "I can only be regarded as a pioneer at most, and it is Mr. Jin Yong who has really made great contributions to martial arts novels. Someone compared him to Dumas in France, and he deserved it. "
Jin Yong even said he didn't deserve it. From then on, the two made up and became friends. Liang Yusheng's friendship of "giving up" in the name of "getting" enlightens us that only giving up can get "getting" when interacting with others, and at the same time, we will get the friendship and return from others.
The curies regard fame and fortune as clouds.
Curie and his wife are both world-famous scientists, and Madame Curie is the only female scientist who won the Nobel Prize twice in the world, but they live frugally and do not seek fame and fortune. All kinds of medals and medals are symbols of honor. Maybe many people dream of treasure, but the Curies regard it as waste. 1902, Mr. Curie received a notice from the Faculty of Science of French University, saying that he would apply to the Ministry.
He was awarded the Medal of Honor in recognition of his contribution to science. Please don't refuse to accept. After discussing with his wife, Curie wrote back: "Please give my thanks to Mr. Minister. Please tell me I'm not interested in medals. I just need a lab. "
A friend of Madame Curie was invited to her home. When she entered the room, she saw Madame Curie's little daughter playing with a gold medal just awarded to Madame Curie by the Royal Society. She was surprised and said, "It's not easy to win this gold medal because of its high honor. How can children play? "
Madame Curie said: "It is to let children know that honor is just a toy from an early age. You can only play, and you can't value it too much. If you keep it forever, you will have no future. " The curies attached importance to their careers and ignored fame and fortune.
3. Guan resigned and lived in seclusion.
Guan is a first-year student in a military academy and once held an important position in the army. After a long campaign and the ups and downs of his career, he gradually saw through his career in the first half of his life. /kloc-in the autumn of 0/949, he resigned as commander-in-chief of the army, withdrew from the Kuomintang army, refused to accept the order to fly to Taiwan Province Province, and lived in seclusion in Hong Kong for an excuse.
From then on, he did not participate in any political meetings and social activities, did not meet any reporters, cut off all ties with the old party, government and army, and enjoyed reading and writing all day. In the meantime, your son, Jiang Jingguo, invited him to work in provincial Taiwan for many times and promised him a high-ranking official, but he politely declined. From the age of 44 to his death at the age of 85, he lived in seclusion.
Qian Zhongshu was indifferent to fame and fortune all his life.
Qian Zhongshu, a contemporary scholar, is indifferent to fame and fortune and willing to be lonely all his life. He refused to be interviewed by all news media. The reporter of CCTV's "Son of the East" tried every means to break through Qian Zhongshu's defense line, and finally announced to the national audience with regret: Mr. Qian Zhongshu is determined not to accept the interview, and we can only respect his opinions.
In 1980s, the famous Princeton University in America invited Qian Zhongshu to give lectures. He only needs to give lectures for 40 minutes every week, and only gives lectures 12 times, and the reward is160,000 dollars. Accommodation is all inclusive, and you can take your wife with you. The treatment was so generous that Qian Zhongshu refused.
After the publication of his famous novel Fortress Besieged, it not only caused a sensation at home, but also had great repercussions abroad. Many people in journalism and literature want to know him, but when they see his elegant demeanour, they are all declined by him. A foreign lady called and said that she had read Fortress Besieged and wanted to see him very much. Qian Zhongshu refused repeatedly, but she still insisted on seeing him.
Qian Zhongshu said humorously to her, "If you feel good after eating an egg, why do you have to know the hen that laid it?" 199 1 Annual Report 1 1 On the eve of Qian Zhongshu's 80th birthday, relatives, friends, scholars, celebrities, government agencies and organizations kept calling. China Academy of Social Sciences wanted to hold a birthday party and academic seminar for him, but Qian Zhongshu insisted.
5. Princess Wencheng entered Tibet
On one side is a magnificent palace where relatives and friends get together, and on the other side is a lonely low felt house. However, in the face of her father's earnest expectation and the people's desire for stability in the Tang Dynasty, Princess Wencheng resolutely gave up her rich life. She left her beloved land, her relatives who lived together day and night, and walked to the depths of the plateau with the ringing of the car. At the moment when she turned around, the seeds of national justice sprouted, blossomed and bloomed in her heart.