Here, I just want to briefly talk about my own life goals and how I understand a meaningful life. The life path I expect may be simple, but it does require me to pay a very high price and make a lifetime of efforts.
Constant pursuit and enrichment. Pursuit refers to the pursuit of higher self-quality, and enrichment refers to enriching more knowledge that can belong to oneself. I am sure that people with different knowledge levels show different personal qualities and qualities, which are not produced by pretending or copying. To tell the truth, I'm afraid of being looked down upon by others. I hope my achievements can be envied by others. I don't know if this is self-esteem or me. Don't blame yourself, only blame yourself for not working hard; Want to cry? But I can't cry, I can only keep my tears in my heart. How painful will this feeling be? How bad is it? I think the greatest sorrow in life is this. I want to work hard and struggle, and I can't let this happen. I want to realize my personal value.
What kind of people can be called valuable people? Or what can a person do to say that he is valuable? I think to judge whether a person is valuable is not to see whether he is smart, tall and handsome, and whether he has such advantages, but whether he has made great contributions to society. Only those who have made great contributions to our society can be regarded as valuable people. Of course, more specifically, the greater your contribution to society, the more you will get in return. That is, the more your salary will be. But we must first understand a truth-if we do not consider the absolute salary, but consider the relative relationship between pay and return, in fact, in a normal society, the more a person pays for the society, the more disproportionate the return will be. For example, a low-income person, although earning less, pays for the society. A person with a high salary class, although on the surface, has a high salary, but the value he creates for society may be hundreds or even thousands of times his salary. If you ask who will be out of balance, then I think it should be the latter. Probably everyone wants to be the latter, indeed, I hope so, because this is not just the reason for high salary. Suppose you enter the high-paying class for a period of time, when you don't have to work hard and make a living. For a career? I think this is a relatively empty explanation. For life? You don't have to worry anymore. Do you contribute to society? Although this explanation seems a bit outdated, I think this is the answer. If the day that belongs to me comes in the future, I will explain this answer to myself. When I see that with my efforts, the society's economy is becoming more and more prosperous, the environment is becoming more and more comfortable, and life is getting better and better. Although one person's efforts are so small relative to the whole society, I will certainly feel very happy because I see my own value.
I don't believe in fate. As long as you work hard, no matter what the circumstances, anyone has the opportunity to change their destiny. But I believe that character determines fate. Throughout a person's life, what kind of personality a person has determines what kind of laws he follows in the course of life. Opportunities are equal for everyone, just because of personality differences. Some people seized the opportunity, others gave up. I don't want to judge the right or wrong of those who seize or give up, because it may be because of their different personalities or personal conditions. I just want to make it clear that if an opportunity that I can grasp comes, if I don't have certain personality or conditions, I may be forgiven for not grasping it, but if I have these qualities, but because I don't work hard and make progress, if I give up the opportunity, I won't forgive myself. Now, the society provides me with a good learning opportunity and environment. As long as I am willing to learn, there is nothing I can't learn. I once gave up the opportunity to attend a key high school for a good career. This is my great regret. I am in pain and sorrow for this. Of course, I don't think so now. I'll try my best to make up for it.
Let our family live a happy and beautiful life. The pursuit of a better life is the reason for our original efforts. There is no best, only a better quality of life is our belief in continuing to work hard. If the most important thing for a woman in this life is to find the best man to be her husband, then I think the most important thing for a man in this life is to make his parents, wife and children live the happiest and best life through his own efforts. A happy and beautiful life should include both material and spiritual aspects.