Being kind to others is being kind to yourself.
People who are least likely to be kind are often those who need kindness the most.
It is harmless to be kind to others; Is to be kind to others; It is the beauty of adults.
In this world, you have to deal with others. Dealing with people is actually how you treat others and how others treat themselves. Everyone does it every day, but the situation is different. Some people do it consciously, some people are blind, some people do it better, and some people do it not very well or even poorly. Friendly coexistence between people brings friendship, success, progress and happiness to individuals, families and society; People can't be kind to each other, which leads to various personal tragedies, family tragedies and social tragedies. These experiences and lessons have given people today a * * * knowledge, that is, people often say that people should be kind to others. With this knowledge, today's parents pay more attention to the education of dealing with others in family education than in traditional society, and "being kind to others" has increasingly become an important content in the process of children's growth.
Why be nice to others?
Starting from the reality of life-
When dealing with others, a person is either good to others or bad to others. There is no other choice. Comparing the two, it is a better choice to be kind to others, whether for yourself, others or society. In fact, unless something special happens, people rarely abuse or even hurt a person for no reason. Therefore, on the one hand, people tend to be kind to others consciously or unconsciously under the impetus of daily life practice; On the other hand, the progress of society and civilization urges people to make the choice of being kind to others. Under the background of knowledge economy, informationization and globalization, such a choice is more important and urgent. Today, the breadth, depth, frequency and intensity of interpersonal communication are very different from traditional agricultural society and industrial society. How to treat others often determines not only the fate of a person, the rise and fall of a family, the success or failure of a career, the rise and fall of a unit, but also the strength of a country and a nation, which is based on the general trend of life and the world.
From the utilitarian point of view, being kind to others can better promote understanding and cooperation between people and achieve all kinds of things; It can better promote people to work together to create a good living environment and continuously improve the quality of life of all people; It can better promote the all-round development of the whole society and all members of society, so as to maximize the motivation and minimize the resistance in the "two all-round development".
From a human point of view-
Being kind to others is one of the essence and the original meaning of human beings, which contains three meanings.
First of all, being kind to others is being kind to yourself. The existence of anyone is based on the existence of others. Only by being kind to others can a person exist and become an adult. In other words, a person who is kind to others is a real person with human dignity and sacredness, and enjoys human qualifications and rights in social life. Therefore, being kind to others is actually being kind to yourself and constantly creating and striving for human dignity, qualifications, sacredness and rights for yourself; It is constantly proving to the society and the world that it has human dignity, qualifications, sacredness and rights.
Secondly, man is not only a material existence, but also a spiritual existence. People have eternal social pursuit and spiritual pursuit, hoping to make social spirit, human spirit, human life and people themselves more and more perfect. On the other hand, there are many difficulties and obstacles in the process of pursuing continuous progress and perfection. People often say that "life is 81 difficult", which is what it means. It is not easy for people to live all their lives, no matter who they are. Being kind to each other is one of the most reliable guarantees for us to deal with this "81 difficulty". Therefore, for people, being kind to others is not only the motive force to stimulate their social pursuit and spiritual pursuit, but also the basic means to solve various difficulties in this pursuit.
Third, being kind to others is the main source of people's happiness. The reason is that people mentioned above are social beings, spiritual beings, and people's social and spiritual pursuits.