Twenty-five years old, a quarter of my life, seems to be a critical point from youth to maturity.

Work, feelings and life should be redefined. Maybe you just graduated from school and began to see the world in front of you; Maybe you have been in society for several years and have developed a set of formulas for reconciliation with the world.

But anyway, it's time to plan your life at the age of 25.

1

Accumulate a small success

To achieve something, the process of hard work is very important.

Everyone works hard, but they can't exert their strength and get no evaluation. Even if you persist, it seems that you can't get the approval of the people around you, so you hesitate to give up. This is the most common life problem for 25-year-old people who are confused. In fact, as long as we continue to move forward actively, even if the growth rate is not large, it will still grow. So don't rush to deny yourself. Persistence is not easy, patience is necessary.

2

Know how to persist

Persistence is very important. Only by persisting can we widen the gap with others.

However, "repetition" must not be misunderstood as persistence. Just like doing a simple job repeatedly every day, it is easy to be mistaken for persistence, but it is actually an unexpected trap for you.

Suppose you are assigned to a position where you need to repeat your work every day, and the work content is the same every day. So you start thinking: how can you finish the work early? How can we make it more perfect? Being creative like this and completing a job at the same time is "a little makes a big difference." Not only can you finish ahead of time, but you can do better! At the same time, the quality has been improved. This kind of small success can never be achieved by "repetition".

three

Failure sometimes makes us stronger.

At first glance, it is a failed experience, but it can make you think and learn from it, so it is a successful experience. For example, if you accidentally break your foot, you can learn something from it, such as knowing a skilled surgeon or becoming good at dressing bandages.

I think whether a thing succeeds or fails in the end depends on the individual. Although the initiative to solve problems is in the hands of others, the only person who can connect failure with success is himself. This is the so-called "failure aesthetics".

four

Explore in depth what you like.

Cultivate yourself to be a professional,

Find something you like.

It doesn't matter even if it's not directly related to your work and life, even if you don't know whether you really like it or not, because the mood of liking can be cultivated. Maybe you can't clearly perceive that you like it, but please explore it as deeply as possible.

There are so many things in the world waiting for us to learn. So at the age of 25, you might as well think of yourself as a commodity, imagine yourself as an apple in a fruit shop, and think about how to stand out from a big basket of apples and be picked by guests.

It is generally believed that everything will only have the opposite effect. As long as you look at your life and work according to this truth and principle, you won't lose your way in life.