More and more people feel that they don't need love, and that "I can do everything myself, which is quite good" actually tends to escape from reality.

Born to be human, you must need love. Loneliness and alienation are inescapable fates, and love is the only salvation. Loneliness produces fear, and the greatest need of human beings is to overcome loneliness. Existence itself is lonely. No functional relationship or physical combination can compete with it. In the state of "isolation", we may enter a seemingly stable state, but we will become more and more empty because we can't find contact with the world.

Love is an effective opportunity for self-awareness and personality growth. Love lets us know ourselves. Many characteristics of individuals do not appear in daily life, but can only be released in intimate relationships, so that we can objectively understand and see ourselves. At the same time, it is also an opportunity for personality growth. Fromm once said that love is a way to know the secrets of life. We found ourselves in love and found ourselves.

Love can stimulate our potential and quality, and actively create meaning. We constantly learn new things from each other, and our inspiration and potential are stimulated by each other's efforts and sharing. Mature love is a combination while maintaining one's dignity and personality.

In the process of love, overcome dependence and self-proclaimed omnipotent delusion, have confidence in yourself and have courage in future life. We slowly walked out of the abyss of loneliness, found the meaning of life in love, and experienced the happiness of caring and being cared for in giving and caring, which we could not experience when we were alone.

Finally, I hope we can be alone, but don't lose the ability to love and don't refuse to accept the love of others. When we meet a special person in our life and become that special existence in other people's lives, we will understand the meaning that each other brings to each other and to each other's lives.