Want to be a wise parent, I think everyone has this experience, and also has the right to publish a paper or share their own experiences, which everyone has personally experienced and is very touching. To be a wise parent, I think we should first distinguish between parents and children. Parents can't make all decisions for their children. Children have children's thoughts and lives. We just give them a guiding example and make a suggestion. After all, children still have to go their own way. It is a very good habit to cultivate children's autonomy and independence from an early age, let them exercise their various abilities and let them grow up quickly. As wise parents, they should give their children some space.