Argument: If a person has excellent grades, high reaction speed and calculation level, then we will generally say that he has high IQ and strong learning ability. However, high IQ does not mean that he can adapt to the society well and be liked and loved by everyone. Another point is that he needs to have a certain emotional intelligence, so that he can truly stand on the society.

The influence of emotional intelligence on people is mainly manifested in the strengthening and improvement of interest, perseverance and will, and it will also have a certain impact on social life, interpersonal relationship, health status and even marital status. Is a person who can be widely accepted and welcomed by everyone in dealing with people.

Conclusion: IQ and EQ are both opposite and unified. IQ and EQ are the embodiment of people's two abilities. In modern society, the relationship between matter and spirit is increasingly complex and diversified, and people's emotional life is more vulnerable to destruction.

And emotional intelligence is very important to the coordinator. The relationship between people and things plays an important role. The development of society and the progress of science and technology need people's cooperation and collective wisdom. In this case, EQ is more important.

The importance of emotional intelligence

People are faced with fast-paced life, high-load work and complicated interpersonal relationships. Without high emotional intelligence, it is difficult to succeed. Emotional quotient (EQ) will affect the exertion of IQ. People with high emotional intelligence like to associate with him and always get the support and support of many people. At the same time, interpersonal relationship is also an important resource in life, and good interpersonal relationship can often get more chances of success.

Under the pressure of exam-oriented education, parents always spend a lot of time, energy and money on their children's education investment; As a result, the expected results are often not achieved, which leads to children's weariness of learning, poor independence in learning and willfulness and selfishness. In recent years, the incidents of students leaving home and committing suicide because of academic pressure and communication problems with their parents have frequently flooded people's eyes.

Psychologists say that it is more important for children to learn to be human than to learn to learn. However, many parents only pay attention to the cultivation of children's intelligence and neglect the cultivation of emotional intelligence, resulting in more and more children with low emotional intelligence.