The Significance of Etiquette Model 1: On the Significance of Paying Attention to Instrument Etiquette for Business People
Abstract: In business activities, a person's appearance can not only reflect his cultural accomplishment, but also reflect his aesthetic taste. Etiquette is the soul of shaping personal image. It has become a necessary condition to improve personal quality and corporate image. It is a code of conduct used by people to exchange ideas, feelings and enhance understanding, and it is an indispensable lubricant in modern communication. Therefore, the requirements of appearance and etiquette play an important role in business activities.
Keywords: the connotation and significance of instrument etiquette
In business activities, in order to show mutual respect, it is necessary to restrain people in all aspects of business activities through some codes of conduct, including manners, letters, telephone communication and other skills. From the occasion of business activities, it can be divided into office etiquette, banquet etiquette, welcome etiquette and so on. It is more important for us to learn business etiquette. Business etiquette is a general requirement for people's gfd and manners in business activities, so this paper briefly analyzes the instrument etiquette that business people should pay attention to.
I. Connotation and function of tools
Instrument, that is, a person's instrument, including appearance, manners, posture, manners and so on. In government affairs, business, affairs and social occasions, a person's appearance can not only reflect his cultural accomplishment, but also reflect his aesthetic taste. Dressing appropriately can not only win the trust of others, leave a good impression, but also improve the ability to communicate with others. On the contrary, improper dress and indecent behavior will often lower your status and damage your image. Visible, appearance is an art, not only pay attention to coordination and color, but also pay attention to occasions and identity. At the same time, it is also a manifestation of culture. Etiquette: refers to people's social interaction due to historical traditions, customs, religious beliefs, the trend of the times and other factors, which is not only recognized by people, but also observed by people. It is the sum total of various codes of conduct and norms aimed at establishing harmonious relations and meeting communication requirements. In a word, etiquette is a code of conduct that people should abide by in social communication activities.
In a word, the significance of business people paying attention to instrument etiquette lies in:
First, improve personal quality, Bill? Gates said? Enterprise competition is the competition of employee quality? . Then, for enterprises, it is the competition of corporate image. Education embodies details and details highlight quality.
Second, it is convenient for our personal communication and entertainment. We will meet different people in business communication, so we should pay attention to art in how to communicate with different people, for example, praising people should pay attention to art, otherwise even praising people will make people feel uncomfortable.
Third, it helps to maintain the corporate image. In commercial communication, the individual represents the whole, the personal image represents the corporate image, and what the individual does is the typical living advertisement of this enterprise. Every move, every word and deed, silence is better than sound.
To this end, we should:
(A) pay attention to the coordination of musical instruments
The so-called instrument coordination means that a person's instrument should be consistent with his age, figure, occupation and place, showing a kind of harmony and giving people a sense of beauty. As far as age is concerned, people of different ages have different dress requirements. Young people should wear bright, lively and casual clothes, which embodies the vitality and youthful beauty of young people. Middle-aged and elderly people should pay attention to solemnity, elegance and neatness, reflecting maturity and stability. For people with different body shapes and different skin colors, we should consider fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses and choosing appropriate clothes. Professional differences are also very important for the coordination of musical instruments. For example, the teacher's appearance should be solemn, the students' appearance should be generous and neat, and the doctor should try to appear stable and experienced. Of course, the instruments should also adapt to the environment, and the instruments in the office will certainly not be the same as those when traveling.
(B) Pay attention to color matching
Warm colors (red, orange, yellow, etc. ) gives people a gentle and luxurious feeling, while cool colors (purple, blue, green, etc. ) often makes people feel cool, quiet, peaceful and friendly, while neutral colors (white, black, gray, etc. ) gives people a feeling of peace, stability and reliability, which is the most common color of work clothes. When choosing the color of clothes and accessories, we should consider the coordination of various tones and skin colors and choose the right clothes and accessories.
(3) Pay attention to the occasion
Dress according to different occasions. Festive occasions, solemn occasions and sad occasions should pay attention to different clothes and follow different norms and customs.
In business situations, the success of dress also directly affects the quality of business work. Clothing is not a fig leaf without life. It is not only a combination of fabrics, colors and stitches, but also a social tool, which transmits information to other members of society, as if to announce to others: What personality am I? Am I capable? Do I value my work? Do I fit in? In the old days, women's motivation to pay attention to clothes was simple, and their purpose was nothing more than to get compliments from others or to increase their attractiveness to the opposite sex. In the era of equality between men and women, women everywhere want to compete with men on an equal footing, and simply pursuing the sexual attraction of appearance can no longer satisfy these professional women. Female contestants must have more moral charm, aesthetic charm, knowledge charm and code of conduct charm in dress, so that clothing can play a good role in coordinating interpersonal relationships, improving work efficiency and increasing job promotion opportunities.
Second, the connotation and function of etiquette
People have different interpretations of etiquette: some people say it is a kind of moral cultivation; Some people say it is a kind of etiquette, a kind of formal beauty; Some people say that etiquette is a custom. Rites come from vulgarity, and vulgarity turns into ritual. The operability of business etiquette is what to do and what not to do.
The function of business etiquette: in a word, strengthen the quality internally and shape the image externally.
The first function is to improve the personal quality of our business people. In the final analysis, market competition is human factors.
Qualitative competition, for business people, the quality of business people is the personal accomplishment and personal performance of business people. Education is reflected in details, and details show quality. The so-called personal quality is the basic performance of treating people in business communication, such as smoking. Generally educated people don't smoke in front of outsiders. Educated people don't talk loudly in public; Jewelry wearing in business communication.
The second function helps to establish good interpersonal communication. Bad manners and rules in communication sometimes screw things up. (such as answering the phone). Make an appointment to see a doctor and make an appointment on time.
The third function is to maintain the image. Personal, corporate and national image. Business etiquette is to maintain the corporate image. Disaster reduction effect, economic concept. Less problems, less impact on interpersonal relationships. Sometimes when you don't know what to do, there is a guarantee-follow closely or imitate. Eating western food generally depends on the hostess's movements. When the hostess sits down, you can also sit down. When the hostess picks up the knife and fork, you move it again. The hostess put the napkin on the table, which meant that the party was over. So it doesn't matter if you don't know. Learn from others. If you don't know how to do it, just do it. If you think wrong, you will be wrong. Everyone will be wrong together. Knowing this will make you comfortable and natural.
Etiquette runs through interpersonal communication and serves the connotation of communication; Ignoring etiquette will inevitably affect the depth and durability of communication. Whether the lack of etiquette affects communication is because of small loss. We should not only communicate with foreign countries, but also pay attention to etiquette and form habits in our daily life. Naturally, it will become a kind of cultivation, which will help to improve our taste.
Learning business etiquette allows us to know how to improve our position in the eyes of others, and how to make our career successful and life happy through our perfect professional image. Understand and learn business etiquette norms to establish a good corporate image, shape the professional quality of employees, use effective communication skills to deal with interpersonal relationships in business activities, improve service image and improve service ability. Master basic business etiquette and correct business etiquette skills. The professional image determines the career, and the professional image determines the fate of life. With the frequent daily communication, people pay more and more attention to the communication details in business activities, official activities and social activities. Perhaps a tiny detail determines a person's first impression. Establish a correct professional awareness, create a perfect professional image, and enhance the company's business image on the basis of enhancing personal professional image.
The Meaning of Etiquette: On Etiquette in Life
Today's society puts forward higher standards and more specific requirements for the personal quality of college students. In order to better understand the etiquette in China and improve my own quality, I took the course of Modern Etiquette. I have been studying college etiquette for several weeks. Before that, I studied interpersonal communication courses. On the whole, there are similarities. Although there are only 12 classes in college students' etiquette class, I have learned a little etiquette in my life, which has benefited a lot, and I have also learned something that was not available in previous elective courses.
For us inexperienced college students, we don't know much about basic etiquette common sense. But these are closely related to our life, and mastering social etiquette knowledge is a necessary paving stone for our success. In the context of increasingly fierce employment competition, I think it is necessary to popularize and standardize college students' etiquette for us who are about to embark on the society. Paying attention to etiquette and observing etiquette norms can effectively show a person's education, demeanor and charm, better reflect a person's cognitive level and respect for others and society, and make personal knowledge, cultivation and value recognized and respected by society. Moderate and proper etiquette can not only give the public
Modern etiquette involves all aspects of life. Through the teacher's explanation, I deeply realized the importance of etiquette in life. Communication between people, how to dress appropriately and generously, how to address each other, how to stand with each other, how to say hello, and so on, as well as politeness rules in daily communication. When I think of my former self, I don't understand many basic etiquette, so I will encounter some embarrassment from time to time in communication, such as improper dress, rude behavior, inability to speak, and ignorance of how to communicate with others. For example: when others make comments and suddenly want to say something, just interrupt others directly and say it first; Will not take the initiative to communicate with others, others take the initiative to communicate with me, at a loss; Don't pay attention to collocation, just wear it casually, whether it's a good collocation or not, just wear it directly. Although these things are small, they often dampen our confidence and affect our image in the eyes of others.
After going to college, I may know more people, have a wider circle of communication, and unconsciously know a lot of things that should be paid attention to in daily life. You can always see your own shadow from time to time from the behavior of people around you. We shouldn't comment on the good and bad of others, but we can use it to spur ourselves and remind ourselves of what we did wrong and what we did wrong. So sometimes we think that learning etiquette is not necessarily learning textbooks. Only in real life, we can learn a lot of etiquette in dealing with people.
This semester, I studied modern etiquette and learned a lot of practical etiquette in life that I didn't know. These will help you in all aspects and improve your quality. Let's briefly talk about some experiences from all aspects of knowledge.
Etiquette and etiquette
Dress neatly and appropriately; Clothing should be appropriate, in line with identity, distinguish between time, place and occasion, and abide by the rules. Even if you don't attend important occasions, you should dress appropriately in general life, and don't dress in a mess. Clothing instrument represents a person's image. In interpersonal communication, proper dress not only represents one's own image quality, but also shows respect for others. Now I'll tell you an example, and I hope the rest of the students will take it as a warning. For example, a classmate around me doesn't pay attention to clothes at all. He likes to wear stockings, but he doesn't wear reasonable clothes. Under the stockings, he also added a sports sock and sneakers, which are all curly when walking. Because of her bad image, she has a shallow interpersonal relationship and few friends around her. So I hope others will take warning, improve their own quality and respect others.
(2) Life etiquette
In daily life, we should have good will and sound personality, be proactive and optimistic about life, have self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement, be brave in meeting challenges, be not afraid of difficulties and setbacks, and have the ability to adapt to various living environments. Can communicate effectively with others, unite and cooperate, take the initiative to participate in social activities, have the courage to take responsibility, have the consciousness and ability to care for and respect others, pursue noble lifestyles and hobbies, create a harmonious atmosphere, and establish, maintain and improve interpersonal relationships. Through etiquette education, contemporary college students can realize that they should actively adapt to the society, consciously participate in social activities, transform and change the social environment, promote social development and progress, and at the same time transform, develop and realize themselves.
As a graduating college student and a girl, I want to know more about etiquette. For example: how to make your temperament more elegant and your image more outstanding; How to make yourself look confident in front of classmates, teachers, superiors and subordinates, and customers; How to make yourself attend meetings and social activities appropriately and freely? Through the accumulation of ordinary life experience and the study of modern etiquette, I know a lot of life etiquette, such as family etiquette, school etiquette, travel etiquette, public etiquette and so on. Know how to communicate with people, how to better improve their self-cultivation in all aspects of society, and understand that etiquette is a routine and a conventional form that must be observed in interpersonal communication. Therefore, in dealing with people, I often remind myself to turn etiquette conventions into a customary practice. On different occasions, pay attention to words and deeds, keep a moderate smile, actively communicate with others, pay attention to address others politely, dress appropriately, and make others feel comfortable and respected.
(3) Speaking etiquette should first pay attention to personal image, the first impression is very important, and words and deeds should be calm and decent. Respect privacy in the conversation, and don't involve income and expenditure, age, marriage, health, home address, personal experience, beliefs and political views. The behavior and expression in the whole conversation can show personal cultivation and basic views on treating the interviewee.
Pay attention to manners in conversation, and be friendly and relaxed. When you speak for yourself, you should pay attention to modesty, respect and politeness. When the other person is talking, you should concentrate on listening. Whether speaking or listening, don't be absent-minded, perfunctory or exaggerated. Pay special attention to your eyes and gestures. Don't look around, don't dare to look at the person you are talking to with your eyes, and don't run around and point fingers at each other. In addition, pay attention to the tone. When talking with people, the tone of your voice should not be casual, treat people equally, be courteous and courteous, and try to use modest words, honorifics and polite expressions as much as possible. Don't be condescending, overbearing and pretentious in conversation, and don't appear accommodating in tone. Just please each other, accommodate each other and echo each other. In addition, looking for cheerful and relaxed content in the conversation and asking the other party for advice on topics of interest can take the opportunity to express respect for the other party.
The use of address forms in conversation, in more formal occasions, should choose such address forms: honorific address forms, honorary address forms, formal address forms and general address forms. Honorific words are used in almost any situation, mainly including? Sir? ,? Miss? ,? Ma' am Lady? . It should be emphasized that when addressing women, it is best to use "? Miss? Or? Ladies are proportional. In many cases, honorifics can be used in combination with first name, last name or industry address respectively. Honorary address, in interpersonal communication, if the communication object has a degree, academic title, professional and technical title, rank and title that is highly valued by the society. Like what? Doctor? ,? Professor? ,? Doctor? , ? Judge? And so on, can be used as a title. Official title. In official activities, it is generally possible to directly match each other's positions. For example, you can scream? Minister? 、? President? 、? Chief. , and so on. General address, only surname, but also Mr. and other honorifics.
(4) How to be in an invincible position in the job interview is the most concerned topic for every graduate. In the interview, college graduates should pay attention to the following points if they want to find a job successfully:
The way of the interview. When designing one's own image in an interview, examiners often judge the identity, status, knowledge, personality and so on of job seekers through their external images. When attending an interview, clothes should be generous and decent. If you go to an office, institution or large company for an interview, you'd better wear a suit or suit. It is better for a boy to wear a white shirt than a suit. Try to choose a bright tie, black shoes are better, with dark socks. Avoid sports shoes and white socks. During the interview, girls should pay attention to dressing neatly and wear the clothes of working girls. A suit is the most suitable dress. Skirts should not be too short. Wear high heels. Clothing should follow the principle of three colors, that is, the whole body should not exceed three colors, and the color matching should be quiet or the same color. Appearance and etiquette of the interview. Comb your hair neatly during the interview. It is advisable for boys to keep their hair short, and pay attention to keeping it clean. Girls can wear light makeup, a little powder, not heavy makeup.
Politeness and manners in an interview. Tall and elegant, calm and natural face, smiling; Avoid poking your neck, leaning against your shoulders, hunching back, stretching your abdomen, bending your legs or shaking when standing. Sitting posture, sit up from the left side of the seat and sit down gently and steadily; When you sit down, be light and steady. Before sitting down, a lady should tidy up the hem of her clothes, look up with her eyes, her lips slightly closed and her chin slightly closed. Men's feet can be opened in parallel. After sitting down, the chair is 2/3 full and lean back gently. When talking to others sideways, try to turn your upper body to the other side.
Modern etiquette involves a lot, and I just discussed several important aspects above. The society is so big that we have to learn a lot of etiquette knowledge. Modern etiquette courses play an important role in quality education of college students. Carrying out quality education for college students in an all-round way is the call of the times, the need of building a well-off society in an all-round way and accelerating socialist modernization, and a strategic measure to improve China's comprehensive national strength and national quality and cultivate cross-century talents. Therefore, it is of far-reaching significance to carry out comprehensive quality education for college students, which is related to the future destiny of our Chinese nation. Therefore, it is necessary for college students to learn and master college etiquette, which is meaningful for their future life or work and become high-quality scientific and technological talents.