I remember Wordsworth said that loneliness has the magic of self-improvement.

Our philosophers in China say so: A gentleman is harmonious but different.

I think what they mean by loneliness is a kind of spiritual loneliness, which has reached a unique feature of its own, rather than a shameful and ulterior act. "Love your husband like jade" mentioned all kinds of successful people in the question.

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Generally, we only see the bright side of successful people. In fact, they also have a lot of psychological pain and need a sacred space to think about their own problems.

Even in thousands of miles, it is difficult to have that feeling of close connection, which is loneliness in the soul.

Each of us needs our own private share? Used for self-reflection and self-improvement

So in fact, spiritual loneliness refers to loneliness in content, not loneliness in form. For example, in a crowd, everyone is happy, but you don't feel this way in your heart. Because your feelings or interests are not here, not your happiness, you can't be close.

My personal feeling is that geniuses are lonely, and only they can taste the real loneliness. Like that, the real loneliness is something that ordinary people can't experience all their lives.

From the perspective of IQ, IQ can be divided into seven parts, and introspective IQ is one of them. If nothing else, loneliness can at least make you reach a state of concentration. Many people say that genius is a state, and they agree.

If you want to achieve something, I'm afraid you need learn to be lonely. Just don't make formal mistakes and close the door.

Don't worry about being swallowed up by loneliness, at least at that level, there will be real heroes who appreciate each other.

I believe everyone will appreciate each other.

By the way, listen to music when you are lonely. Personally, I prefer a pure piano music. It is said that Einstein likes playing the violin in vain.

In addition, much ado about nothing, there is always so much interference, so loneliness is not only a taste, a realm, a kind of self-improvement, but also a kind of self-interest and self-protection.

Love You Like Jade mentions "Is loneliness beneficial or harmful?"

Personally, I feel that no matter what I do, I have to pay the price. Loneliness may be one of the costs of success.

No one wants to be lonely all his life, but at the same time, when facing greater difficulties, he has to choose temporary loneliness, which is called the lesser of two evils.

For example, there is a popular saying among scholars: sit on the bench for ten years.

Personally, it doesn't make sense, because my hobby is not learning, and I'm too lazy to do it.

So don't be lonely for the sake of loneliness.

People should face life positively.

Only those who dare to face loneliness and come out of it are truly strong.

Yes: Really?

Never give up what you are looking for. Persistence, luck or misfortune.

However, if you are half-hearted, you will accomplish nothing.

Run forward, life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get.