Almost everyone expects smooth sailing. Many people say: even if there is no crowing and dancing, there is no letting a hundred flowers blossom, it is better to have no wind and rain and no setbacks on the way forward. In fact, this is impossible. However, I don't want to start this topic here. I want to talk about my views on setbacks.

I realize more and more deeply that setbacks are also a fortune in life. Life without setbacks, in a sense, is eclipsed.

When we say that "setbacks are the wealth of life", the most important point is that setbacks will make us smart, strong, mature and perfect. Of course, this requires us to suffer setbacks first.

However, in real life, people who have been bitten by dogs are bitten by dogs again! How to understand this? After analysis, I think the key lies in people's attitude towards setbacks. Similarly, in order to avoid being bitten by dogs, some people take the method of shouting and running away when they see dogs, which backfires and encourages the arrogance of dogs. It is inevitable to be bitten by dogs again; When someone saw the dog coming, they bent down and pretended to pick up a brick from the ground. The dog ran away with its tail between its legs at once. Even people who have never been bitten by a dog can still use the latter method to deal with dogs. Because smart people can not only understand some truth from their own setbacks, but also be good at summing up experiences and lessons from others' failures. From this perspective, isn't frustration a rare spiritual wealth?

It is true that we can learn from other people's experiences and lessons. But I always feel that the road of life is too flat and the whole life becomes dull. Then I thought, many of us parents, teachers, elders and leaders now, can we let go a little more and let our children go their own way and make achievements by their own efforts?

There are also students who failed in the college entrance examination. Can they also gain something from setbacks, cheer up and start a new round of fighting? You have suffered more setbacks and hardships than others, so once you succeed, you will certainly have more joy than others. After experiencing setbacks and hardships, you will work harder, cherish more and have more prospects!

The more you are afraid of dog bites, the more often you are bitten by dogs. Don't always be passive, learn to take the initiative. As long as we can stand setbacks, setbacks will make us smarter. Isn't it the setbacks that human beings have experienced that support human society and modern civilization?

Frustration is indeed a fortune in life!