Occasionally, I read in the blog post that parents always forget to do their homework or perfunctory things because their children are too naughty and playful, and they can't help hitting their children when they are angry. After the fight, the children are sad and the parents are even more sad. But children are children and always make the same mistakes, so parents get angry and hit their children. As a result, a vicious circle, education does not work, parents are tired, and children suffer.

Admittedly, education should be rewarded and punished, but I don't approve of hitting children. I think as long as the education method is proper, children can still be very good (the good thing here is to maintain their own personality, not blindly obey, without their own opinions), very sensible and know what they should do. I think it is very important for parents to "lead by example and convince others by reasoning". We can point out our mistakes to our children in a gentle way, bend down and talk to them as equals, like friends. I think as long as we treat our children sincerely, they will feel very warm and will become "good" involuntarily, and then cooperate with their parents' education.

My daughter was never beaten once when she was nine years old, because she was very sensible. She can basically do what her parents and teachers ask her to do, and she does it well. Then why hit her? However, the premise is that what we ask our child must be what she can do, suitable for her age, and not difficult for her to do. I sometimes deliberately let my daughter "quarrel" with me, so that she can learn to argue and express her thoughts and opinions. She can't just obey the orders of adults. Education without individuality is also a failure education. Every child has his own characteristics, some are smart but playful; Some are slow but diligent; Some are smart and diligent, which is of course the best; Others are neither clever nor diligent, which requires us to spend some time. In short, it is the best policy to adopt different educational methods for different children and teach them in accordance with their aptitude. "Beating" is definitely not a good idea, and it will definitely not play a good role. It will only make children more rebellious and more antagonistic to parents and teachers. "Scolding children" is even more stupid and is the most unqualified parent.

Never say to your child, "You are so stupid, you are an idiot." Even if he is really stupid, he can't say that.

Perhaps many people know "Zhou Zhou, a musical genius". He is not a normal person, he is a real idiot, but he is lucky that he has a great father. Father never treats him like a fool, but encourages and praises him like a normal person, even if he only does one small thing right. It was his father who discovered his musical talent and finally trained him as a music conductor. Zhou Zhou can support himself by his own labor, realizing the value of life that a mentally disordered child can't realize. This true story is instructive to all of us.

I remember a saying: the most successful education is that children can understand your meaning with one look and one action, which plays an educational role; The second thing is to shout loudly and the child will take action; The worst education is to make a child listen by force, but he is not convinced? I don't know.

Being able to appease a naughty student like a wild pony and let him take the right path is the most powerful expert in education; It is the best education to let him (her) wear clothes on his mouth and in his heart. But to do this, we need to be parents and teachers, and constantly improve and perfect ourselves. Because our words and deeds directly affect their actions, we are their role models. We are all crooked ways, how can we expect him or her to take the right path?