Tolerance is a virtue and a temperament; Forgive others, you are kind. Forgive yourself. You are a knowledgeable person. Learn to be tolerant, and your life will be calm, relaxed and chic. Humanity has also been sublimated.
In this troubled world, if people want to live a chic life, they must learn to be tolerant. Tolerance will make your life easier and more meaningful. With tolerance, you can have what others can't. When tolerance becomes a character, life is also an extreme.
Don't lose face, sit in front of the court and watch the flowers bloom. Whether to stay or not is unintentional, and the clouds roll with the horizon. It is not a blessing to have such a state, but you need to learn to be tolerant. I hope this book can attract more people to appreciate the beauty of tolerance, and then learn to be patient and tolerant. Tolerance is a kind of accomplishment, a quality and a virtue. Tolerance is not cowardice, but generosity. Be tolerant, but also learn to be tolerant.
In history, there was a minister named Lin Xiangru, whose official position climbed all the way because of his meritorious escort, which aroused the jealousy and dissatisfaction of General Lian Po and turned against Lin Xiangru everywhere. But in the face of Lian Po's unreasonable troubles, Lin Xiangru just laughed it off and avoided it, so there was a story of "offering a humble apology". Lian Po was deeply ashamed of Lin Xiangru's generosity. Since then, the two have joined hands to help Zhao. Therefore, learning to be tolerant is good for both people and themselves.
On the other hand, people who are good at jealousy in history complain about others when they encounter a little dissatisfaction. No matter how good their knowledge is, it is difficult for these people to achieve great things. Zhou Yu is an outstanding strategist, with outstanding talent and resourcefulness, who managed the huge Soochow Navy in an orderly way. But when he learned about Zhuge Liang's coup, he knew that he was not as good as Zhuge Liang, but he was not willing to lose. So he spent all day thinking about how to win Zhuge Liang, issued a lament of "He Sheng Liang Chu", and finally died of vomiting blood. Oh, why bother! If Zhou can be as tolerant as Lin Xiangru, I think his ending will never be like this!
In life, we will inevitably have friction with others. When someone accidentally steps on you, you should wave and say it doesn't matter. When someone breaks your things and apologizes to you, you should also smile with tolerance. Life is so short and hurried, why waste every day on these unnecessary frictions? The world is so vast, and what is broader than the world should be the human heart!
Please learn to be tolerant
In this world, everyone has to live and work, and have contact with society and family. In the work of living at home and hating locks, contradictions will inevitably arise, and there will be mistakes and mistakes of one kind or another. At this time, if you don't let me and I won't let you, it will easily lead to family conflicts and colleagues fighting.
Failure to forgive yourself or others' mistakes will increase your psychological pressure and affect your normal life and work in the future. Therefore, we need to learn tolerance. "Tolerance needs to learn from the sea, and it is very knowledgeable", and we know the benefits of tolerance.
The art of wisdom tells us that tolerance is an art, an art of being a man, and the spirit of tolerance is the greatest behavior of all things. Tolerance of others means accepting others psychologically, understanding their lifestyles and respecting their life principles. While accepting the advantages of others, we should also accept the shortcomings, shortcomings and mistakes of others. Only in this way can we really live in peace and the society will be harmonious.
Tolerance is the only criterion of human civilization. "Forgiveness should be combined with lost face, fierceness and leniency should be combined, and leniency and fierceness should be paid equal attention" and "The way to govern the country lies in fierceness and success". The ancients took this as the way to govern the country, which showed the important role of tolerance in society. Tolerance is a kind of self-improvement of ideological quality, as well as a kind of self-cultivation, quality of life and lifestyle improvement.
In real life, there are many things. When you are going to know or solve them with resentment, you might as well try with tolerance. Maybe it can help you achieve your goals, resolve conflicts and turn your enemies into friends. In life, people who can't tolerate others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. But we can't blindly regard concession and accommodation as a kind of tolerance, the best way to get along with others. So, in real life, we give in everywhere, give up our position and living standard. In that way, we will blindly succumb to other people's mistakes, leading to greater mistakes, and at the same time lose our ability to control ourselves. Such tolerance is the most irresponsible performance to others and to oneself, and it is also a psychological crime.
Tolerance is a skill in life. If we are tolerant, our life may be better.
Tolerance, do you still need it?
Tolerance is a drop of crystal dew in the depths of the ancient well; Tolerance is the blue sky reflected in the sea; Tolerance is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
People who have crossed the long river of history and achieved great things in history are tolerant and generous. It is precisely because of their tolerant minds that they have achieved their respective careers and made them famous in the long river of history. Emperor Taizong, he told Wei Zhengkuan.
Rong, therefore dare to speak, he created the prosperous situation of "Zhenguan rule" in the Tang Dynasty; Lin Xiangru was tolerant of Lian Po, and Lian Po offered a humble apology, which created a much-told story of "harmony without difference" and contributed to the prosperity of Zhao. Qi Huangong, he was very tolerant of Guan Zhong, and Guan Zhong was also very grateful and helped him faithfully. He achieved Qi Guoqiang's hegemony for a while. On the contrary, many people are notorious for losing their tolerant minds and have been reviled for generations. Zi Ying, King of Qin, "Laugh at the world." What's more, benevolence and righteousness are different in offense and defense. Shang Zhouwang "set himself on fire when he was cornered", while he ye was violent and willful, and ignored human life, but he was a benevolent man. Xiang Yu, the overlord of the Western Chu Dynasty, "was besieged on all sides and committed suicide on the Wujiang River", but he did nothing and betrayed his relatives and friends.
It is true that in the era of war, the tolerance of guests is really important. Then, in today's era when the world is peaceful and people live and work in peace, can tolerance be abandoned and regarded as useless? Can we cruelly hurt people we don't like? No, absolutely not. The philosopher once said, "The cruelest way to treat an enemy is to turn him into your own friend." Why don't we treat him "cruelly" as the philosopher said? Why do you have to hurt it?
Tolerance can turn hostility into friendship and violence into peace; Tolerance can heal broken hearts and bridge the gap between hearts; Tolerance, he makes the world warmer. Time can take everything away, but I am always grateful. Be kind to everything with a tolerant heart, and you will find that life will become more exciting.