Once, due to the influence of living environment, I gradually developed a clear character of love and hate, and I had my own clear judgment on everything. Right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, black and white, everything is so clear that there is no room for sand in my eyes. I think it is great.
But the accumulation of survival experience, let me gradually understand a lot of truth in life. Everyone who lives in this world has social attributes, and it is impossible to exist independently, which will naturally lead to the relationship between people. Because everyone's living environment is different, their growth experience is different, and their knowledge and accomplishment are different, they will naturally have their own characteristics of dealing with people. Just because everyone is an independent individual, he will always show his distinctive personality everywhere. In interpersonal communication, other people's preferences also affect you all the time. Of course, there will be behaviors that you don't like but need to accept, which requires tolerance.
Tolerance can resolve unnecessary misunderstandings. Because everyone has different behavior habits and different ways to express emotions, sometimes people often encounter some unpleasant things in social communication, even unacceptable words and deeds. At this time, it goes without saying that they are often unhappy. For extreme words and deeds, if you can't bear them, it will cause bad and unimaginable consequences. In fact, the parties don't necessarily want each other to be unhappy, sometimes unintentionally. If you are more tolerant from the speaker's point of view, you will not pursue details, misunderstandings can be eliminated in the bud, and naturally many unnecessary troubles can be avoided. Why not?
Tolerance can make people feel happy. If you always keep other people's misconduct in mind, you will be very angry. Why do you think there are such people in the world? Then, the more you think about it, the angrier you get, and your mood will naturally get worse. Maybe others really let you down, but if you chase after the irreparable facts and think about how to deal with others, you can imagine the pressure in your heart. How can you be happy when you are preoccupied every day? I once watched the TV series "Deep Feelings, Rain and Dew", in which Yiping was very angry with her father's behavior. She could not understand the harm that Lujia had done to her and her mother, and her mother told her that if her heart was full of hatred, it would be difficult to be happy, and she would not be happy. He Shuheng, who loves Yiping deeply, also wants to face a loving Yiping instead of a hateful Yiping. In fact, everyone is like this. If you tolerate and understand other people's faults within a proper range, your mood will naturally improve and your life will be happier.
Tolerance shows an elegant demeanor. When people encounter some small frictions, it is often a critical moment to test a person's recuperation. Some people can face what has happened calmly, things will often be forgotten, and everything will be calm; If you don't do it, it will often add fuel to the fire, and small things will become disasters, and the consequences will be unimaginable. In real life, there are too many such examples. Some people fight and even risk their lives, which are often caused by trivial matters. If both sides can be calm and tolerant when they meet something, then meet each other halfway and nothing will happen. Tolerance shows a person's good rest and also shows a person's elegant demeanor.
Tolerance can make society more harmonious. Social disharmony is often caused by some people not obeying social rules and doing things harmful to others, from big to small. If people can tolerate others when things happen, don't ignore people on big and small issues, and learn to forgive others, then there will be no undue consequences and no disharmony. It is conceivable that society will become harmonious and beautiful. Living in such an atmosphere will make people feel more comfortable. When a virtuous circle is formed, building a harmonious society will also become a reality.
Of course, tolerance is relative, and the tolerance mentioned here should refer to the attitude that should be taken when it is tolerable. If others have seriously violated their legitimate rights and interests, then, with people's increasing legal awareness today, they will take up corresponding legal weapons to safeguard their legitimate rights and interests, instead of blindly tolerating them.
Tolerance is a virtue. When you can be tolerant, please be more tolerant, for others, for yourself and for society. I believe that with more tolerance, society will become better.
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