Surprise, surprise, surprise.
First of all, I am surprised at the speed of Xiao Zhao.
Get married quickly, divorce quickly. The day before yesterday, I sang K points for the song "Know No". It is possible to discuss with my friends that the prodigal son will return, such as meeting him in Zhao. I was hit in the face by reality so soon.
Secondly, I was surprised by Xiao Zhao's courage.
The information released by Xiao Zhao is very simple. There is no emotion, no tearing, no smoke, just simple, clear and clear gathering less and parting more. So sober, Xiao Zhao is really Xiao Zhao.
Thirdly, I was surprised by Xiao Zhao's cruelty.
She has never disappeared from the screen since she got married and had children. She knows exactly what she wants, as she said in Know, "Don't rely too much on one person, the most reliable thing is ourselves."
Perhaps because of these three levels of surprise, I have a little more affection for Xiao Zhao. She always drives her life soberly, without complaining, explaining or following blindly.
This is Zhao's unique skill.
Zhao comes from rural Langfang, Hebei Province. His father is a policeman and his mother is a department store employee.
She has average grades since she was a child, but she loves acting. Her biggest dream is to become an actress or singer.
Like many girls with "star dreams", she did not give up her studies and chose to continue studying.
Later, she reported to Langfang Electronic Information Engineering School to learn flight attendants. If she wants to be a stewardess, she needs to continue studying.
Due to the shortage of funds at home, she gave up the opportunity for further study and started a career as a "migrant worker" for her brother to go to school.
Just entering the society, her first job was to distribute leaflets, and later she worked as a waiter and salesman.
The salary is ok, and the life is ok, not how good or how bad.
Perhaps, her life may go on like this, change a good job, meet a good lover, get married, have children, raise children, like most people.
But in 2006, she ushered in a turning point in her life.
Zhao, 19 years old, saw an advertisement: three directors, Xiaogang Feng, Chen Kaige and Zhang Jizhong, wanted a woman. Without much thought, I signed up.
A week after the advertisement was released, more than 4,000 people signed up, including many famous people, such as Nortel, Chinese Opera and Shanghai Opera.
And she has no professional background, good academic qualifications, no talent, no preparation, and no knowledge of comparison.
But her intuition told her that it was right to take part in the competition, visit big cities and meet the great director.
Perhaps it is this mentality of "focusing on participation" that makes Zhao enter the competition stage.
She can't sing, play skits or speak Mandarin.
It is such an ordinary girl who seems to know nothing, but she crashed into the final all the way.
Unexpectedly, this ordinary girl won the highest number of support votes in the whole network and became the champion of Xiaogang Feng Group.
Xiaogang Feng said at the time: "Zhao's speech is quite awkward, with a strong hometown accent, which is quite fun."
Life is long, but the key is those steps.
Faced with opportunities, some people are timid and dare not try; Some people are brave. Don't miss the opportunity.
Thus, these steps have become a watershed in life.
At the southern foot of Qinling Mountains, there are lush trees.
To the north of Qinling Mountains, the grass grows and the warblers fly.
See what kind of scenery, climb to the top of the mountain. Because people at the foot of the mountain have no more choices.
This is exactly what Xiao Zhao thought.
Zhao signed with Huayi in 2006.
But her "star road" is not smooth.
Although she entered Huayi, the director decided that in her image, she could only play the roles of maid, daughter, sister and granddaughter.
I want to play the leading role. I'm sorry, this round face can't hold up the play.
It doesn't matter. If you are a non-professional student, lay a good foundation first.
When she first arrived in Hengdian, she wrote in Weibo: "When I came to a strange Hengdian, I didn't know any friends. Do things that have never been done before, say lines that have never been said before, wear beads on your head, be afraid and at a loss. "
In the following five years, she appeared in more than a dozen TV plays, most of which were really maids, daughters, sisters and other roles.
It can be said that Xiao Zhao's early acting career seems to have no talent at all. Although he has appeared in more than a dozen TV plays, he has never been remembered by people.
Until 20 1 1, she played sunny in princess huanzhu, and the director even scolded her in front of more than a dozen people in the crew: "can you act in the end?" You always pout. Are you a pig? "
But Xiao Zhao won't give up.
She is not talented enough. She works hard. What she is good at is hard work.
Type lines over and over again.
Listen to your own recording and find out what you did badly.
After such polishing, she not only changed her Hebei accent, but also improved the expressive force of her script.
The role of Sunny introduced her to a small number of people.
Ann once said that Xiao Zhao was very serious about acting and often asked her for acting skills. From then on, she knew that this girl would be very popular in the future.
Although the star selection flashed, it was unremarkable. After running for several years, I saw a glimmer of light.
But as Xiao Zhao said, rural life has created a strong character. In the past few years, I have exercised my perseverance.
"Do you know," he said, "the way of life is to go when you come. No one can help you all your life. Learn to calculate by yourself. "
This is exactly Xiao Zhao's plan.
This year, Xiao Zhao starred in The Legend of Luzhen.
Lu Zhen's play was shot on 20 1 1. There was no such role in the market at that time.
At that time, court dramas and family dramas were very popular, such as "Walking on Thin Ice" in Palace, "The Temptation of Going Home" in Queen of the Palace and so on.
"Legend of Lu Zhen" tells the story that Lu Zhen entered the palace from a big lady of a family of officials and businessmen, from a maid-in-waiting to a senior maid-in-waiting, became a female prime minister, assisted the court, and finally made Beiqi the first powerful country in China.
With the Legend of Luzhen, Zhao won the prize.
She said that in this role, she saw more of her state at that time: "No one was optimistic about her, but she was reborn with years of persistence."
For example, the round face can only play the maid, sister and granddaughter, but not the hostess.
For example, the appearance does not conform to the public aesthetic, and the rules in the circle cannot be won.
She didn't choose plastic surgery, but strengthened her inner thoughts, worked hard silently, kept paying, didn't ask about the harvest, just sought hard.
Her heart is very firm. An actor wants to be popular for a long time, not by a face, but by deductive strength.
"Anti-vulnerability" means "keep it simple and refuse complexity".
Tao Te Ching says, "Great achievements are short, great wisdom is stupid".
Xiao Zhao, at a young age, has this insight and determination in the big dye vat of the entertainment circle. I admire her for trading time for space.
After that, Zhao's plays began to occupy the screen.
He has appeared in plays such as Late Arriving, China, Biography of Chu Qiao and Do You Know.
Spending Money Hub is the first TV series with a broadcast volume of 20 billion in China, and it is this drama that makes her enter the public's field of vision and become the flower of the post-80 s generation.
As Xiao Zhao said, "I want to have a colorful life, and I want to work hard to make myself better."
Even if she is in Hengdian for 365 days and 360 days a year, she doesn't feel hard, because after going through Qian Fan, she finally does what she likes, and she is in her own time and space.
Don't worry when your career is at a low ebb. Good luck is good at disguising and hiding in your efforts.
Which successful attacker, unlike Xiao Zhao, survived the long winter and wrote a poem describing suffering? Still struggling, for a better vision? They will turn around and go deeper into life.
Some time ago, a doctoral thesis thanked the whole network for its popularity: "I walked a long way and suffered a lot before sending this doctoral thesis to you ..."
"Anti-Brittle" said, "If you don't feel hungry, delicacies taste like chewing wax; If you don't pay, the result is meaningless; If you have not experienced pain, you will not know how to be happy; If you have not experienced hardships, your faith will not be strong. "
Everyone who is not born with a golden spoon has to go through hardships and travel across mountains and rivers to have a chance to live the life he wants.
This is a trip to Xiao Zhao.
The entertainment circle is a place that needs to be observed under a magnifying glass and microscope. Although Zhao has made achievements in his career, he is still criticized by everyone.
Some people say that Xiao Zhao doesn't have table manners when he is picking rice on the plate and picking it around.
Some people say that Xiao Zhao, who is honest and frank and doesn't pay much attention to occasions, is called Zhao Yidao.
Some people say that Xiao Zhao is too rustic and its clothes are tacky, so it is difficult to get into Daya Gallery.
Her background did give her a calm, strong and unyielding personality, but it also became her obstacle.
Many years ago, there was a popular saying on the Internet: "I worked hard for ten years before I could sit with you for coffee."
However, people who can sit together and drink coffee are not only evenly matched in money and status, but also evenly matched in cognition and aesthetics.
This world is very strict, not only requires you to be commensurate with the inside, but also requires you to be glamorous.
I was born in the countryside myself, so I understand Xiao Zhao's hard work all the way.
When she puts on the crown, sets foot on the crystal shoes, walks on the red carpet and enters a bigger and broader world, she has to caress what she is used to before she can reach the other shore.
In the face of slang, Xiao Zhao chose silence, did not compare with others, and only ended up with himself.
Because she has always been an introvert, in the darkest moment, all the words recorded on the blog are bright.
It turns out that my heart is sunny, and it will bloom in spring.
She was not only named as the most commercially valuable actress of the year, but also selected as a celebrity of Forbes China, won the endorsement of top brands and appeared on the cover of Fashion Weekly.
She manages herself into the best works, and good works can speak for themselves.
This is Xiao Zhao's philosophy.
On 20 18, Xiao Zhao officially announced her marriage to William Feng.
I thought at that time, the prodigal son turned around, after all, it was brine that ordered tofu.
William Feng revealed in Aya's program that he admired Zhao because she was always sober.
Yes, Xiao Zhao was sober until William Feng said he didn't know that Xiao Zhao was with him because he wanted to fall in love? Want to get married? Want to have a baby? Or do you really want to be with him?
Although as an up-and-coming female artist, she has a good career and a bright future, it is also handsome to get married if she wants to get married and have children if she wants to.
However, Xiao Zhao didn't start a married life.
Before giving birth to a child, she arranged work without reducing the exposure; After giving birth to the baby, she immediately returned to work in the variety show to keep the heat.
During the shutdown, she also chose a partner for herself-her strategic partner He Song.
As she said, "I don't want the female characters in TV dramas that you see to be obsessed with small feelings and love, always fighting for men and being attached to men."
This series of operations are all practicing their own maxims.
Perhaps this is also her confidence.
Get married if you want. Tai Chi has no procrastination.
If you want a divorce, divorce, and don't cry.
Suddenly and quickly officially announced marriage, but also suddenly and quickly officially announced divorce, spontaneous, free and easy, not slow.
As she said in "Do you know", "In this world, no one is who's backer. It's best not to count on others. The more you expect, the more disappointed you will be. The greater the disappointment, the more you will hate for a lifetime, and the hatred will begin. This day will be sad. "
Perhaps this is what distinguishes Ming Lan from Juran and Moran.
After the divorce, she bid farewell to a relationship that may not be beautiful, and returned to Xiao Zhao, a colorful Xiao Zhao, with a tired face.
She gave a speech in "Starry Speech": "If men have heroic dreams, why can't women?" ? I hope they can have richer ideas and actively pursue their own beliefs. "
As she always said, that's what she did.
This is exactly what Xiao Zhao believed.
I have to say that Zhao Zhen is a cruel man.
She is very hard on herself, and she has cut through thorns all the way.
She works hard and stays in Hengdian all year round.
She is cruel to life, dare to say yes or no.
She has never been a person who lives by intuition.
And those who live by intuition, 99% can't get the life they want.
Finally, to Xiao Zhao and to freedom.
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