Everyone should learn to appreciate, knowing that "the deepest need of human nature is to long for the appreciation of others" (William Jeames). And with the increase of experience, this "desire" will become deeper and fiercer. A trusting smile, a positive moment, an inspiring look and an encouraging word can dispel the accumulated inferiority complex for others. Can find lost precious self-esteem for others; Can correct the lost direction of value pursuit for others; Can awaken the potential and potential that has been forgotten for a long time for others; Seeds that can induce creative impulses in others' hearts.
Appreciation lies in the adjustment of mentality. Appreciate growing up in free and harmonious air and growing up in kind eyes. Appreciate and abandon the psychological fetters of "grandfather" and "judge", listen to the simple and pure words in the depths of the soul with a peaceful and broad mind and a generous attitude, and capture the fleeting creative light.
Appreciation lies in the transformation of angles. Everything has its own merits; Far and near, each has its own posture. People in things, its front may not be so beautiful, but its side may be a beautiful silhouette; Or its appearance is still immature, ugly, clumsy and stubborn shell, but its interior contains a mature, beautiful, innovative and smart core. Why don't we look at it from another angle and think about it from another corner?
Appreciation lies in the choice of standards. Beauty and ugliness, good and bad, good and bad, success and failure, right and wrong all exist in comparison. It is understandable to pursue sublimity and perfection, but it is doubtful to demand sublimity and perfection. Use God's standards to measure mortals, and use perfect standards to judge others. If you appreciate them, you will lose your home. As long as we choose a suitable reference correctly, even look down on others, things worth appreciating will come to us: shining morality, wonderful wisdom and beautiful human feelings. ...
Appreciation is not a one-way charity, but an active collision between wisdom and wisdom; Appreciation is not a cheap compliment with ulterior motives, but a fair recognition of a relative value. Learn to appreciate, the mind of the appreciator will be broader and the soul will be more lofty; With appreciation, the world will gain inexhaustible motivation to pursue truth, goodness and beauty. Rodin, a famous sculptor, said: "It is not the lack of beauty in life, but the lack of eyes to find beauty." Learning to appreciate is actually a positive attitude towards life and a condiment of life. You will find the beauty of life in appreciation and let people feel the meaning of life. Michelangelo, a famous Italian sculptor and painter, once completed a masterpiece "The Portrait of David". However, it is said that the marble used to carve the statue of David has been criticized by many sculptors. Some people think that this marble is not chiseled well, while others think that its lines are not beautiful enough, and it is absolutely impossible to carve good works of art with it. In short, it is criticized as an ordinary stone that is not appreciated by people. However, when Michelangelo met this marble that everyone thought was useless with a unique eye, it became the "statue of David" that attracted worldwide attention. Some ordinary people, things and things around you may hide extraordinary wisdom. Let's become Michelangelo of others, and let some ordinary things become completely different because of me. /kloc-in the autumn of 0/852, while hunting in Paskoye, Turgenev accidentally picked up a crumpled Modern People magazine in the pine forest. He turned a few pages and was attracted by a novel called Childhood. The author is a fledgling nobody, but Turgenev appreciates it very much and likes it. He inquired about the author's residence everywhere, and finally learned that the author lost his mother at the age of two and his father at the age of seven, and was raised by his aunt. Turgenev gave great sympathy and concern. My aunt soon wrote to tell her nephew, "Your first novel caused a great sensation in Valeryan, and Turgenev, a famous writer who wrote The Hunter's Notes, praised you to everyone. He said: "If this young man can continue to write, his future will be infinite!" " "After receiving the letter from menstruation, the author was ecstatic. He wrote graffiti to dispel the inner loneliness caused by the depression of life, and he did not have the delusion of being a writer. Thanks to Turgenev's appreciation, he suddenly lit the fire in his heart and recovered his self-confidence and the value of life. So he wrote it down in one breath and eventually became a world-renowned artist and thinker. Is he war and peace and Anna? 6? Leo, the author of 1 Karenina and Resurrection? 6? 1 Tolstoy. Tolstoy succeeded because of appreciation; Because of appreciation, that shameful stone became a sculpture. This material reflects the problem of appreciation. Appreciation is a kind of understanding and trust, including affirmation and appreciation, and it is also an encouragement and guidance, which can make people repent, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and grow and progress healthily. In fact, everyone in society is eager to be appreciated by others. Similarly, everyone should learn to appreciate others. The ancients said, "A swift horse is common, but Bole is not." What they say is to learn to appreciate. Only by appreciating, a "swift horse" can show its value: Liu Bang appreciates Sean, and Sean advises him, so there is "Jia Weihai Xi returns to his hometown"; Liu Bei appreciated Zhuge Liang, and Zhuge Liang also devoted himself to Liu Bei until he died, thus making immortal achievements; Li Shimin let bygones be bygones, appreciated Wei Zhi, and Wei Zhi helped him achieve great things, so there was a "rule of chastity" in history; Monarchs who have made achievements in past dynasties are all people who can appreciate and use others to achieve great things.
Of course, you and I are not high-powered people, so we should appreciate ordinary people. Life is a long road, learn to appreciate it, and then your world will have many beautiful scenery.
Appreciating nature will open our hearts. After studying and working, I put down my poetry books, return to nature, and listen attentively to the notes of nature: walking alone, crossing a small bridge, feeling the birds and flowers, looking up at the blue sky and white clouds, watching the smoke curling up ... a stone, a flower, a grass and a tree are so beautiful. At this time, you will truly realize that life is not short of beauty, but in the eyes that find beauty.
Appreciate others, in order to keep forging ahead and create brilliance. "The river does not return, the waves are exhausted, and the eternal romantic figures", Su Shi's unrestrained and free and easy, unstoppable; "There is no way to eliminate this situation, and then I frowned and took it to heart." Li Qingzhao's tenderness, tenderness and delicacy; "Didn't you see how the water of the Yellow River moved out of the sky and into the ocean, never to return?" Li Bai's romance was unrestrained; "They run with you, crying, tugging at your sleeve, and their plaintive voice goes up in the clouds", Du Fu's depression and frustration, worrying about the country and the people ... When we listen to the voice from heaven, we are moved by tears in our hearts and motivated to move on.
Learn to appreciate, and more importantly, appreciate yourself. "Since god gave talent, let it be hired! , spin a thousand silver, all come back! " We should appreciate ourselves, think about our own advantages, see our own glory, throw away the haze under heavy pressure, make ourselves happy, and draw more nutrition from happiness, so as to constantly surpass ourselves and improve ourselves. People who are not good at appreciating themselves will not appreciate others. If they don't even appreciate themselves, but want to appreciate others with smiling faces, they can only give him one sentence: not necessarily sincere!
In reality, we always despise scholars. In fact, a person who learns to appreciate is a very happy person. Confucius said, "There must be a teacher for a threesome. Choose the good and follow it." When we learn from the strengths of others, make up for our own shortcomings, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and be a low-key person, we will certainly make continuous progress. Life will be like a summer flower in bud. When brilliant flowers bloom one after another, then we will become the scenery of others and our life will be enriched.
Learn to appreciate, your eyes will be full of flowers and grass; Learn to appreciate, and your heart will be filled with joy, love and tolerance; Learn to appreciate, then your life must be a wise life, a beautiful life and a happy life! At the end of 4 19, there was a bad boy in Missouri in the western United States. He secretly threw stones at the neighbor's window, and put the dead rabbit in a bucket and barbecued it in the school stove, which made it stink. At the age of 9, my father married his stepmother and told her to pay attention to the children. Stepmother approached the child curiously. When she got to know the child, she said, "You are wrong. He is not bad and clever, but his cleverness has not been brought into play. " The stepmother envied the child very much. Under her guidance, the child's intelligence found a place to play, and later became a famous contemporary American entrepreneur and thinker. This man is Dale? 6? 1 Carnegie. Lin Qingxuan, a writer from Taiwan Province Province, went to a mutton restaurant for dinner. The boss said to him, "Do you still remember me?" Lin Qingxuan said, "I can't remember." The boss brought an old newspaper 20 years ago with an article by Lin Qingxuan on it. At that time, he was a reporter for a newspaper. This is a report about thieves. The thief was skilled, committed thousands of crimes, succeeded every time, and was finally planted in the hands of an anti-pickpocket. The article sighed: "A thief with such meticulous thoughts and clever techniques can do anything!" The boss told him, "I am a thief, and your words led me to the right path." Even thieves have something to appreciate, and even thieves can walk on the right path under the guidance of appreciation. Who around us can't appreciate and be guided? Learn to appreciate others! Appreciate your colleagues, and you and your colleagues will cooperate more closely; Appreciate your subordinates, they will work harder; Appreciate your lover, your love will be sweeter; Appreciate your child, maybe he will become the next Carnegie ... 5. Wang Jie once said, "Only by comparing your own shortcomings with others' strengths can you feel your own shortcomings and make progress. If a person overestimates himself and thinks that he is better than others, then he will never make progress. " Therefore, we should learn to appreciate others. Learning to appreciate and praise others is by no means to "grow others' ambition and destroy others' prestige", but to know your own strengths and shortcomings and correct them. An author once made a survey: people who often appreciate others, praise and praise others are often positive, popular and respected, don't get sick often, and live longer than the average person; Those who often criticize and complain have no friends, are lonely, are physically and mentally fragile, and live shorter than the average person. Different people have different views on different things. Two prisoners lay on the prison door and looked out. One saw the mud in front of the door, and the other saw the blue sky and white clouds. Therefore, we should consider other people's different views and learn something useful for ourselves. Of the two people in the story, I think the former should learn from the latter and learn from the optimism of the latter. I heard such a story: a young poor boy was scolding God for being unfair to him and leaving him nothing. God said, "well, young man, I'll give you 1 million." Please sell me your hand. " The young man refused. God said, "Then sell me your eyes,1100,000!" "Young people will not. God smiled and said, "Look, your hands are worth 1 million, and your eyes are worth 1 million. Do you still feel poor? " ? You are already a millionaire. "Indeed, each of us is very rich, so we should also learn to appreciate ourselves. We should realize that both learning to appreciate others and learning to appreciate ourselves are necessary and what we should do. If you don't appreciate others, you may never make friends, or you may miss success because of your persistence and stubbornness. So, let's learn to appreciate others and learn to appreciate ourselves. I believe our world will be more wonderful because of this.