There is a certain relationship between people in society, and it is inevitable to contact and contact each other, that is, to communicate and communicate in various ways. Therefore, interpersonal communication is an important way for human society to exist and an important way for people to know, understand and cooperate with each other.
At present, some mental health problems in our interpersonal relationship are mainly manifested as egoism, paranoia, shyness, loneliness, inferiority, jealousy, social phobia and so on. Studies have shown that people with disharmony in interpersonal relationships will have a serious impact on their personal growth and future achievements. In a sense, the level of interpersonal coordination ability represents a person's psychological maturity and also determines one of the factors of a person's mental health level.
Everyone faces different interpersonal situations, different interpersonal problems and various interpersonal obstacles. We are about to enter the society and will face more and more complicated interpersonal relationships. How to use correct communication methods and reasonable communication skills in the dense social interpersonal network is very important.
The word "courtesy" in etiquette refers to respect, that is, to respect yourself and others in interpersonal communication. The ancients said that "courtesy and respect for others" is actually a basic requirement for treating people and things. We usually say, "It's not surprising to be polite to many people". You value others, and others may value you. As the name implies, the word "Li" in etiquette is also a form of respecting yourself and others.
China is an ancient civilization with a long history, and is known as "the state of etiquette". It is a fine tradition handed down from generation to generation by the Chinese nation to talk about and understand "ceremony". The long etiquette culture is a rich legacy left by predecessors. With the progress of the times and the increasingly frequent and close interpersonal communication, etiquette is becoming more and more important as a lubricant of communication. In today's well-off society, advocating etiquette is the basic requirement of society for its members, and it is also the spiritual requirement of social members. Paying attention to etiquette plays an important role in promoting social progress and improving the level of civilization.
Paying attention to etiquette and observing etiquette norms can effectively show a person's education, demeanor and charm, better reflect a person's cognitive level and respect for others and society, and make personal knowledge, cultivation and value recognized and respected by society. Appropriate etiquette can not only give the public the trust and desire of affability, respect and cooperation, but also make the process of cooperation with the public full of harmony and success.
As a middle school student, with the growth of age, the change of living environment and the new progress of self-awareness, everyone is very eager to get real friendship, so as to have more emotional exchanges. Nowadays, middle school students are far away from their parents, living a collective life and being equal to others. The dependence on parents in the past no longer exists. Getting friendship through interpersonal communication is the need to adapt to the living environment of middle school. It is the need of people who develop into "independence", and it is also the need for us to successfully embark on society. In fact, whether you can establish good interpersonal relationships with others during school has a very important impact on everyone's growth and study. Longing for friendship and emotional communication is an important psychological feature of middle school students.
Therefore, the basic norms and knowledge of etiquette have helped me to master communication skills, accumulate communication experience, and learn to follow the principles of mutual respect, sincerity and moderation in words and deeds in communication, so that I can quickly approach my communication partners and make them feel that I am familiar with them, understand them and respect them. Therefore, we have established a sincere and profound friendship.
Facts show that in daily life, good interpersonal communication helps to improve our self-confidence and self-esteem, reduce frustration, relieve inner conflicts, depression and troubles, vent anger, depression and pain, and reduce loneliness, loneliness and emptiness. These are very beneficial to our physical and mental health, and will also enable us to avoid the generation of bad emotions to the maximum extent. Even if they do, they can be effectively resolved.
At the same time, I think etiquette itself is a special language. Let's use the basic knowledge and norms of social etiquette to successfully open the door to communication activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships. This is not only the main way to form a good social and psychological atmosphere, but also plays an extremely important role in psychological health care for oneself.
Look at today's society, interpersonal communication and participation etiquette are everywhere, because it is really important for us, and everyone should learn. Interpersonal communication and etiquette run through the whole process of interpersonal communication and serve the connotation of communication; Ignoring etiquette will inevitably affect the depth and durability of communication. Whether the lack of etiquette affects communication is because of small loss. Not only foreign communication, but also we college students should pay attention to etiquette and form habits in our daily life, which will naturally become a kind of cultivation and help improve our taste.