Everyone has their own difficulties in life. We often complain that others don't care about themselves and don't understand their own difficulties. Always complaining that my mother is too stingy with herself to race with cows like other students; Always complaining that the teacher is too unkind and doesn't understand his mind at all; Always complain that classmates don't care about themselves, and you can't send his care in time when you are frustrated. However, have you ever thought that others also have their difficulties, and have you ever understood his difficulties?
We should think about it when we reach out to our mother for money. It is not easy for her to arrange family life. Every penny is hard-won, and every penny has its uses. As the saying goes, "I don't know how expensive rice is if I don't take charge." Mom also has her difficulties. When the teacher's "harsh" requirements are unacceptable to us, we should think about it. It's not easy for teachers. In such a big class, he is responsible for every student, and strictness is also good for us. When our request for help from a classmate is rejected, we should think it over. He doesn't necessarily want to care about me. He must have his own difficulties in doing so, and we should also think about whether his request is really reasonable. If we can always reflect, we will become peaceful and tolerant.
We can go further, even if others do something wrong, we should have a tolerant attitude, be more considerate of his difficulties and think more about his good intentions, so as to give people a warm feeling. Because things have happened, complaining about others is not only unhelpful, but may also hurt others' feelings. At this point, Qin Mugong, the famous overlord of China in the Spring and Autumn Period, set an example for us. In the battle, three generals, he Bai, were defeated and returned. Instead of blaming them, he blamed himself and said, "I made a mistake ... and I don't want to cover up my greatness with a brush." It was these three men who won a great victory in Qin Jin's diplomatic war and avenged his sword.
Understanding the difficulties of others actually puts forward a very important philosophy of life. The ancients have long recognized this point. Confucius, the greatest philosopher in China, put forward the word "forgive" when his disciples put forward the principle of lifelong learning, and explained that "forgive" means "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". Liu Bei earnestly taught Liu Chan in the Commandment: "Be responsible for yourself and forgive others with your own heart." These are the most instructive experiences in life, and each of us should pursue them all our lives.
Take a taxi
On a small island in Spain, it is not easy for people on the island to take a taxi. If you have to take a taxi, you often have to wait for an hour. If you travel, you have to wait by the roadside early, and of course you have to rely on luck.
A vagrant who went abroad to study and work is on this small island. He has finished his studies and will return to China soon. He and his family came out early to wait. When he stopped a passing taxi, he found someone in it. The car drove away, but it didn't go far. An old man got off the bus two meters ahead.
The driver turned back and picked up the whole family. When he got on the bus, he said, "We are lucky that he got off before us." The driver said, "It's not your luck, but the old man gave you the car." Hearing this, he was surprised. The driver said, "The old man is going far away, but seeing you standing on the side of the road early, you must be in a hurry to go to the airport. He said his business was not urgent. Just wait here for the next bus and let me take you. I just look back. "
He was very moved after hearing this and asked the driver to turn around and say hello to the old man to express his gratitude.