Napoleon Hill called a positive attitude the golden rule in his book The Law of Success. A positive attitude will bring positive results. If you keep a positive attitude, you can control the environment, otherwise the environment will control you. If you want to have a positive attitude, you must learn to think positively. People's vision and thinking are blind spots. When we see the negative side, we can't see the positive side. We should turn it to a positive position like adjusting the knob of the channel. Regular reading and positive psychological suggestion will help you have a positive attitude and help us eradicate fear and inferiority. Keep company with positive people, and you will melt like a piece of coal in a coal stove. If you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black, if you are near Mexico. A teacher once said to me, "What kind of books you read today, what kind of tapes you listen to, what kind of people you make friends with and what kind of environment you live in will determine what your life will be like in five years." The environment you live in today is conducive to your growth and is more precious than wealth. "
Throughout one's life, one should constantly return to zero and make a lifelong learning plan for oneself. Human life is like a vegetable. When it grows, it is very green and vigorous. Once it stops growing, it will gradually rot. We should look at our friends with appreciation and learn from others' advantages. We should be willing to invest in our brains and constantly enrich ourselves. This kind of investment is the most cost-effective investment in the world, and it will get ten times and one hundred times the value return.
We should have a helpful attitude towards those friends we know and those we haven't met yet. God helps those who help others, and God helps those who help themselves. While helping others, we should also be tolerant of everything that happens around us. People are not all perfect. God sent you to help them. When we help others, we should be positive but not impatient, just like a duck swimming in the water, but its feet are paddling desperately at the bottom of the water. We treat our careers the same way. We should be slow and steady and make lasting preparations. My teacher said that people are unsuccessful because they don't persist, don't really believe in what they are doing and don't change their bad habits. People will encounter all kinds of obstacles in the process of realizing their dreams. Mark Twain said that resistance will make us stronger, and we should let it accelerate our development. Goethe said, suffering is the teacher of life, and suffering is the wealth of life. How can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?
The biggest difference between successful people and ordinary people is the different mentality and thinking mode. Facing this changeable century, the only thing you can control is your mentality!