When it comes to fashion, people often associate it with some emerging concepts such as popular online songs and post-80s writers. When it comes to classics, people often think of the past popularity of White-haired Girl and Dream of Red Mansions. So, how far do you have to go from fashion to classics? Are the two contradictory?
In Victorian England, afternoon tea was a social fashion. At that time, aristocratic gentlemen and ladies liked to drink a small cup of tea and eat some desserts at three or four o'clock in the afternoon, and afternoon tea became a common fashion among the British people. You can find traces of afternoon tea from cafes in the London Underground to beer shops in rural Manchester. Nowadays, afternoon tea with a history of 100 years has already become a fashion for urban white-collar workers. The classics of the past are still popular.
The Hollywood blockbuster Titanic is also an example from fashion to classic. 1995 Titanic is the most expensive film in American film history. Immediately after its release, it swept the world. Its posters can be seen everywhere in the street, and costumes with portraits of heroes and heroines are more common. Now that ten years have passed, the scene of the hero and heroine standing on the boat and flying like birds has already become a classic in the history of movies. Fashion can still be a classic after the test of time.
Therefore, fashion and classics are not contradictory. Moreover, fashion and classics are inextricably linked. From fashion to classics, it may take hundreds of years or decades. However, regardless of the length, fashion must stand the test of time. Only those fashions that can still be talked about by people after years of change can accumulate into classics and shine brilliantly.
In this case, how should we view the fashion in reality?
When something becomes fashionable, it must have its advantages. For example, online songs are popular with the public because they are easy to understand and catchy. However, this does not mean that online songs are good. On the contrary, most music critics think that they lack profound connotation and are poorly made, which will surely become a thing of the past. Therefore, when we treat fashion, we can neither kill it with a single blow, nor completely negate it, let alone absorb it completely, but should make use of it selectively.
Song Ci and street literature, which were popular in the Song Dynasty thousands of years ago, have now become the treasures of China culture and the classics in literature. Swan Lake by Russian composer Tchaikovsky has now become a classic of ballet ... everything from fashion to classics always gives us beautiful enjoyment. We expect more fashions to be classic.
Chapter 2: Attitude determines height.
It is often said that a person's attitude is good or bad, which can be seen from his manners and manners, and whether this person's moral character is noble or not can be concluded from his attitude, which indicates the success of his future career.
A student should have a correct learning attitude and a clear learning purpose. In study, we should do our homework for ourselves, not for the teacher; We must abide by campus rules and regulations, listen to teachers' guidance and instructions, and not "challenge" teachers with our own personality. Sometimes we really should ask ourselves, have we met all the requirements put forward by the teacher? Have you previewed every article? Really ... the quality of learning attitude is manifested in a series of activities related to learning, such as actively participating in public welfare activities carried out in the city, actively participating in school sports meetings, writing an article and publishing it in the Young Pioneers newspaper, and so on. A healthy and progressive learning attitude is the fundamental guarantee for good grades.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. You must set a goal for your life and keep working hard. Don't just be satisfied with the status quo, but make continuous progress and face difficulties bravely. After climbing a high mountain, you can't stop. You should attack another high mountain. As a student, you can't get tired of playing with things and indulge in computers and TV all day, so you will accomplish nothing in the future. The ancients said well, "Young people don't work hard, but old people are sad."
People can't live without society, and students can't live without the collective. They should be sincere, earnest, gentle and kind to others. As students, we should unite and help each other in the class, do not sow discord, take the initiative to do things for the class, start from ourselves, dare to take responsibility and make contributions to the collective. This is a good quality that people in our new era must have and a fundamental requirement for us.
If a person is rude, arrogant and hypocritical, no one wants to make friends with him, let alone work with him; On the contrary, if a person is gentle, humble and polite, then everyone will make friends with him, which is undoubtedly the beginning of success. As the old saying goes, "one hero and three gangs". As long as you get help and encouragement from your friends, you will walk towards your goal.
As the saying goes, "Attitude determines height". As long as everyone starts from his own dribs and drabs and reviews and reflects on his behavior at any time, then he is not far from the end of success.
Chapter III: Hope and Despair
Hope is a bird without feathers, perching in the nest of the soul. Hope is a bubble on the water, reflecting colorful colors. Hope is a paper crane in childhood, and hope is a poem in a dream.
If there is no hope in the world, will despair be gone? Because despair comes from hope. Just a little afraid of this idea, because with hope, our life is colorful, although these hopes may sometimes bring despair.
However, the hope of despair is too hurtful. Why do some people always want to or have ended all earthly hopes or despair in their own way? This is because there is too much pressure and helplessness in life, because there was hope, but it finally brought despair. Because of despair, they chose a hopeless way to end it all. This hope has brought too much harm to people.
The dream suddenly turned gray. In my dream, I struggled but couldn't escape the ending of hope or despair. I can't sleep when I wake up. If there is really no hope, maybe there is really no despair. However, without hope, is it not despair? No, looking back, where did despair come from? It comes from hope, so if there is no hope, there may be no despair.
What will a hopeless world look like? Gray, lifeless. This is conceivable. Pursuit and enterprising have always accompanied the whole process of our lives, all because of hope. Hope is the color of the world.
To be sure, without hope, there will be no sunshine in the world, but with hope, it is not necessarily just despair. Behind hope is not all despair. Above all, we should face all this with a hopeful attitude. Even if we are frustrated and desperate for a while, don't give up easily, because the world is a sunny place, even if there is a temporary night, don't escape to a gloomy corner, so that you can't see hope.
There is a dead end ahead, and hope is just around the corner. If it really doesn't work, just turn a corner and everything will be sunny and full of hope, as long as everyone firmly believes. There is no reason not to believe and should not give up hope.
Always hovering between hope and despair, this may be the mentality that most people often have. Just like mushrooms like to be close to humidity, hope also prefers to be accompanied by despair, so despair patronizes you. Don't be afraid, don't worry, or treat it as your neighbor, knowing that the neighbor at night is the day, and the neighbor next to despair is hope!
Chapter four: Grasp the discretion.
Grasping discretion is an art.
The beauty of Danqing lies in that the flowers are astringent, the sun hides the light, the moon hides the shame, and the ink is colorful and gradually dyed.
Between the boundaries is great beauty.
People are bodies with souls. The measure is between the institutions.
Zhu Gekongming, burn Wang Bo, gossip, seven stars, six out of Qishan, seven attacks on Meng Huo, Jiang Wei, Zhang Guan, Jing Shu in the west, Sun Wu in the south, and Cao Cao in the north, doing my best without losing my courtesy. The ancestors wept bitterly, and the emperor entrusted the orphans. If children are poor in Zen, you can take their place. Zhuge Sese, I'll be the liver and brain! The discretion of people and ministers lies in this sentence "wipe the liver and wipe the brain".
I envy Saint Exupery's decision, but I don't love cool thin, who also died in Haizi. One is as beautiful as autumn leaves, and the other is as beautiful as a red skirt. Haizi said, I want to put out the light of pig iron, the light of love and the light of sunshine, and look for the lonely side. I'm afraid of the dark. I'd rather hang a curtain on the black window. Haizi's death declared his life lying out of bounds.
So cool thin's cold life disappeared out of bounds.
The scale of life is more than Haizi's spring flowers?
Salvador dali remained silent about his love with the same-sex poet Lorca all his life. Dali once painted a picture for lorca, and his body became an indescribable thing wandering around. This picture is called dust. I don't think we can judge Dali immersed in dust love with secular eyes. He lived out of bounds, he reversed the black and white in the world, and he finally burned himself with the same fiery torch.
Life beyond the limit is sad and touching. Dali's death, died in the extreme heat. Van Gogh was also burned to death. He committed suicide in the golden wheat field.
It is sad that life is out of proportion.
In the scene of the four seasons, the bell rings in the forest, the clear spring is covered by the sea of clouds, and the flute rings in the deep mountains, which is still the quiet beauty of "cicadas make the forest quiet and the Palace Mountain more secluded". The beauty of caution is half hidden, and still half of her face is hidden from us behind her guitar.
I think of Lu Xun and his unique narrative style, which is a subtle interpretation of proper limit.
In Kong Yiji, the master wrote: "He took out four pence from his tattered pocket and put it in my hand ..." Followed by a stroke of genius: "Look at his hand full of mud, so he walked with this hand." One word is enough. Such accurate words can only be found in Lu Xun's works, which is the most precious and beneficial thing left by the master.
Whether Zhuge Liang's interpretation of loyalty, Haizi's and Dali's surpassing proper limit's life, or Lu Xun's excellent grasp of proper limit, all reflect the importance of proper limit. The sense of proportion is the bell outside Gusu, the wine raised by the fallen fairy, and the ink splashed by the Badashan people. It is calm and profound, quiet and soft, and contains tenderness. Grasp the discretion, and grasp the subtlety in the gap between rigidity and softness.
Chapter 5: Challenge the Limit
"Flying beyond dreams, you and I need to face it sincerely ..." Whenever this song rings in my ear, there will always be infinite reverie in my heart. The dream of human pregnancy is striding forward. To challenge the limit is actually to show the greatest potential of human beings. Dare to challenge the limit, that is, to describe our dreams in a colorful way in reality. Challenge the limit, and our life value will be reflected in an unobstructed view.
In the long journey of human development, dreams are always calling us. Columbus and Magellan set sail and set sail, opening up new routes in history. The train changed from rumbling to speeding; Five gods and six gods went to heaven, and many years of flying dreams came true; Wireless communication makes two hearts far apart; Man landed on the moon and kept climbing to the universe ... everything came true like a dream. Challenge the limit, and the wheel of human progress rolls forward.
"King Wen was arrested, played Zhouyi, and Zhong You wrote Chunqiu. Qu Yuan was exiled and Li Sao was given. Zuo Qiu was blind and couldn't speak Mandarin ... Sima Qian, who suffered from castration, wrote a book with indignation, and Historical Records was published; Cao Xueqin, who can endure hunger and cold, wrote A Dream of Red Mansions, "Every word is like blood, and ten years of hard work is extraordinary"; Xu Beihong, in the face of the provocation and insult of international students, proved that China people are not easy to provoke with the first day of junior high school; Shi Tiesheng, who had broken his legs, looked back sadly. In order to repay his maternal love and longing for life, he resolutely picked up a pen and wrote down his unyielding life. Helen Keller, a blind person, made her writing career with both hands and a heart. Her spirit has inspired thousands of disabled people in Qian Qian all over the world and become a valuable asset for mankind. Challenge the limit, Beethoven, pavel korchagin, Zhang Haidi, Zhou Zhou ... A series of people who dare to hold the throat of fate flashed in our minds. These people honed in adversity really understand the truth, goodness, beauty, falsehood and ugliness in the world, and understand what a real life is. The experience in adversity is more helpful for them to create many achievements that cannot be created in prosperity.
Mankind is never satisfied, and the pace of challenges covers all fields: Guinness World Records has been refreshed, Antarctic continent has been planted with the flags of scientific research teams from all over the world, the English Channel has been swam by hand for many times, and Ke Shouliang has been leaped over the Yellow River by car ... Challenges, successes and failures coexist, and * * * coexists with dangers, so why do people love it so much?
Challenge the limit is the embodiment that people love and cherish life. People live all their lives, and plants grow in autumn. It is better to bloom your life heroically than to live in mediocrity. Meteors across the sky, fleeting, but leave beauty in the world; Although the setting sun is short, bright red is the most dazzling brilliance of the day. Challenge the limit, confirm your own value and strength, and show the vitality of life. As a student, we are faced with the challenge of knowledge and the rapid development of science and technology. Only by being down-to-earth, accumulating bit by bit, studying quietly, asking questions diligently, taking the college entrance examination as the current limit, taking the college entrance examination as another point in life, constantly climbing and surpassing, will our life be particularly dazzling!
There is no limit to life, and there is no limit to challenges. "Fly higher and more exciting" will be our unchangeable oath!
Chapter 6: Persist in creating success.
Ordinary and great are two different achievements. Everyone has spent his whole life just to make a great achievement, and the result is often that when he looks back on his life, he finds that it is only because he doesn't know that persistence can succeed.
Ma Yun, president of Alibaba, said: "The great thing is to do the same thing in an ordinary, repetitive, monotonous and boring way countless times. We should have the same speed as rabbits and the same endurance as turtles. " It is precisely because of his endurance that Ma Yun summed up his experience after repeated failures, accumulated the lessons of each entrepreneurial failure, persevered, and finally founded Alibaba and fulfilled his dream. Perhaps the establishment and success of Alibaba is a great cause of persistence in accumulation and success.
Success and greatness are the highest achievements in life. What is achievement? Achievement is a career achievement, an affirmation of hard work, which can't be bought or exchanged. If you achieve something, congratulations, you have more endurance and accumulation than others. Be careful not to let your grades tie your hands and feet and become a stumbling block on your way forward. Do you still remember Kodak, the company that was all-powerful for nearly a hundred years and once occupied 80% of the market, the company with a market value of more than 80 billion US dollars and a market value of only 23 US dollars before bankruptcy? Why did Kodak go bankrupt within a century? When others are developing and producing digital cameras, it is still proud of its successful filming experience, staying in the accumulation of the past, not exploring, not insisting on research and development, and accumulating research and development experience. If he doesn't go bankrupt, who will? Be carried away by success, just like mantis catching cicada, yellowbird behind, and finally be swallowed up by the market.
If you can't think of Kodak's success, you must make persistence the basis of success. Only persistence and accumulation can help us move forward and succeed. Microsoft, which occupies the world's computer running program, has made Bill Gates famous all over the world. At that time, he and his friend Paul Allen focused on business opportunities. They worked hard and kept researching and developing. Unfortunately, something unexpected happened. At the most critical moment, paul allen suddenly fell ill and left Bill Gates. Bill Gates didn't stop moving forward because of this. He braved the waves alone, persisted in failure, learned lessons from failure, kept moving forward, founded Microsoft, released the "Windows" system, and introduced computers into a new era. However, he did not stop moving forward, absorbed valuable suggestions from users, constantly reformed, researched and developed, and released a more advanced system, which was convenient for people all over the world to use. We have to sigh the courage and perseverance of Bill Gates. He is not bound by success, but constantly improves himself and his industry. He verified the perfect combination of persistence and success with facts, and created today's Microsoft and today's Bill Gates. Without success, failure is inevitable, but without persistence, there may be no chance of failure. What about success?
We need to persist in laying the foundation for success, and we need success to encourage persistence. On the road of life, with persistence as the foundation, success as the strength, and continuous innovation, we will certainly achieve extraordinary career and shape extraordinary life!
Chapter 7: Learn to give up.
Life is like water, and life is inevitably ups and downs. Once people have experienced many hardships, they will choose to give up. Give up and start over.
Suffering lives in life, just as air is to animals and plants and water is to fish. In the face of these hardships and setbacks, maybe we will persist and persevere, or maybe we will give up.
When we give up, it doesn't mean that we give up life, nature and ourselves. We learn to give up. Maybe it's a good way to relax. Maybe it's a relief.
Su Dongpo experienced many difficulties and frustrations in his life, and his career was ups and downs. Yuanfeng's "Wutai Poetry Case" in five years was demoted to Huangzhou. This torture almost killed him. Therefore. He has a life attitude of "saving for a rainy day".
"The cold spring breeze woke me up slightly." It was precisely because of this cold spring breeze that I washed away my regrets through the spring rain. Looking back on the ups and downs of my many years' career, these cool Mao Mao rains are nothing more than that. Then I thought to myself, "Go home, no rain or shine."
Su Shi abandoned officialdom officials, not because he was incompetent, but because he was tired of many years of official career and had a thorough understanding of life. His abandonment made his life more quiet and leisurely.
"You can't have your cake and eat it." We should learn to choose and give up.
I once read a story that my colleague's friend could have been an important role, but he missed the role because of a rumor that he started a competition. After years of suffering, he became a white-collar worker.
Because of his anger, such a talented friend chose to give up, but he was not a successful person.
In our life, there are all kinds of sufferings around us, and there are many problems before us. Sometimes we choose to persevere; Sometimes we give up, but giving up may make us more relaxed.
People often choose one thing in life, but when they find something better, they will give up the former. When we are interested in two things at the same time, we should know how to choose and learn to give up. In this way, our life will be more colorful.
Giving up may be helpless or painful. But every time you give up, you must have a clear conscience. Only by learning to give up can we make progress on the other side of success and show our true self in constant giving up and choosing.
Chapter 8: Don't let love go far.
In today's society, people are becoming more and more indifferent, and the disappearing human touch is a kind of torture to our hearts.
For the sake of grades, students are immersed in the sea of questions all day and turn a blind eye to everything around them; Parents rush about for a living, and the time to communicate with their children is even less; Office workers never go home to visit their parents for their career and monthly salary. Home is the center of the circle, no matter how far the radius is, please go home often and don't forget the way home.
In the fast-paced social life, people rush about for their own interests, becoming more and more indifferent and selfish to each other, and the human touch is getting weaker and weaker. As the saying goes, "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor", but now the tense neighborhood relationship has become an insurmountable gap between people. The enthusiasm and simplicity between neighbors in the past are rare now, and we may not even know the names of our neighbors. Neighborhoods often quarrel over trivial matters such as sewer dredging fees, sewage charges and property fees. Neighborhood relations cease to exist whenever one's own interests are involved.
"Should the old man be helped when he falls down" is a hot topic on the Internet today. Some netizens think it should be helped. After all, respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. There are also some people who are afraid of being wronged by the elderly and think that they should not be helped. I just want to say to these people, "Where is your sense of responsibility and inner conscience?" Think about it from another angle. Suppose you fall to the ground. When you need help most, you see people passing by and walk away without looking back. How do you feel inside? Will you lament the coldness of today's world and the indifference of human feelings? In fact, helping others is helping yourself. If you are less selfish and more tolerant and generous, you will find that the world is actually beautiful.
No matter how bumpy the road ahead is, life will go on. We can't predict the future, but we can change the present. "A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts the cold in June" is more understandable and less quarrelsome; Be more tolerant and less selfish; More recognition, less questioning. We should always believe that sincerity between people is the best emotion in the world. In human society, human feelings are everywhere, which makes people taste love and care. Building a good and harmonious interpersonal society needs human touch; Mutual tolerance and understanding need human touch; Helping each other needs human touch. If the heart has no place to live, it wanders everywhere.
Human contact has created a world full of love. Let's take care of each other, keep the inner world quiet, don't let love go far, let the human touch stay forever.
Natural selection, survival of the fittest
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