Speaking quietly is an attitude, a kind of wisdom and a kind of respect for people. It is not strange to be polite to many people, but to win the hearts of friends. Some people like to flaunt themselves as outspoken people. The implication is to show off their sunny mentality and open their hearts to the world, thinking that this is their own strength and advantage, as if to carry it forward.
I don't know that everything in the world has a degree. Once or twice, others will understand all kinds of troubles and unhappiness caused by your outspoken. If every time you speak frankly, it will bring disgust and harm to others, it is not a virtue, but a bad habit.
People who are outspoken don't understand other people's feelings, don't understand other people's feelings, only care about their own feelings, only their own likes and dislikes. Because of their own vulnerability, triggered their own sensitivity, with casual impulse to safeguard others, vent their own results, is often not worth the candle, to pay attention to one thing.
People who don't say what they say often bring harm to others, but they also suffer greatly. Even if it is unintentional, there is no harm! If you can't reflect and wake up in time, the consequences will make you taste what is bleak.
Don't regard ignorance as personality, and don't regard bad habits as advantages. Honesty is the heart of a gentleman, and being honest with others has always been the foundation of being a man.
If you are quick, you won't. Speaking politely and rhymes will make people understand and feel comfortable. Achieve the goal and respect people; It is both philosophical and well known.
Be responsible for yourself, don't make irresponsible remarks, say whatever you want, which is very harmful.
When you are young, it is understandable to be outspoken. Looking back when I grow up, I will find that I have hurt others with some childish words and hurt my friends with some ignorant words. Although most of them were unintentional, I still have some regrets.
In the journey of life, everyone has their own life and choices, and the friends who have walked together are just like-minded, hand in hand.
Encourage each other, help each other and support each other during the journey; When there are shortcomings, sublimate and improve, learn from each other's strengths, be kind to others, and save lives, instead of letting you complain, criticize and accuse endlessly.
Because we love each other and hold hands, we should respect each other, understand each other and take good care of this precious feeling.
Don't use emotional persistence to deny emotional fragility, and don't hurt their fragility because of persistence, because one or two words will damage friendship and make feelings indifferent. Caring only about your feelings and saying nothing will often endanger friendship, love and human feelings.
Because they are friends, they complain for no reason. If you don't want to, you can rightfully blame your friend: "I'm in a bad mood, can't you forgive me!" " "On the other hand, is it right for your friends to understand your bad mood after suffering?
Forgive, this is a friend's idea, not from your mouth; Whose mouth tastes different. Do you know that the speaker is eloquent, but the listener is saddened?
Speaking frankly has never been an advantage. Too many irresponsible criticisms and complaints are inexplicable disgust to unfamiliar people, unacceptable embarrassment to friends and heartbreaking injuries to lovers.
Even if you tell the truth, it will be harsh and painful because of the different occasions and times, not to mention the self-righteous truth.
Not telling all lies or telling the truth is a kind of cultivation and courtesy.
What we need is an honest heart, courtesy and sincerity to make friends, not a quick mouth. Look before you speak, look before you speak.
Frankly speaking, it is not a reason to avoid responsibility, and it will bring some regrets to yourself.
Speaking is a science and an art, especially when criticizing others, it is more important to keep three points in your mouth and think twice before you act, so that what you say will have weight and effect.
As the saying goes, it is better to die than to die, and it is better to die than to die!
Grade two: Yan Haiyi