When studying, we always complain that there are too few holidays, too much homework and too difficult test questions; When writing a graduation thesis, there will always be people complaining that the tutor asked so many questions and he didn't instruct them several times. After winning the prize, he has to write the name of the tutor. After graduation, we always complain about the biggest workload, so little salary and so low welfare; Even when we are in love, we always complain that other people's boyfriends and girlfriends are so good, and the one around us will only make us angry. ...
Everyone has the right to complain, because complaining can sometimes relieve stress and mood, but if a person is used to complaining, it will make your life full of gloom. After all, the world is never absolutely fair. Everyone is born different. You have no right to force others to think the same way as you do, and you have no obligation to accept everyone's ideas. In the journey of life, we are never lonely. In the changing years, we will always encounter something we don't want to do. Some people overcome difficulties, while others shrink from them. In the end, some people succeeded, while others accomplished nothing.
People who avoid difficulties are used to putting off unpleasant things they encounter indefinitely. They always like to gossip. It is definitely not that they are not good enough, but that the world has been challenging him. They never take the time to sum up themselves, but blame the outside world for their failures. In other words, even if you know your own problems, you don't face them, but you face all the realities by escaping.
No one will be lucky forever. In the face of difficulties and confusion, instead of complaining, it is better to ask yourself seriously, is it diamonds or diamonds at present? Then you will understand that difficulties are more valuable to you than anything else, which makes you a diamond!
There lived a crow in a beautiful mountain village. It is very popular with the residents here, but recently, people suddenly want to drive it away.
The crow is very sad and attached to the hometown where it was born and raised. The crow hopes that this is only a temporary confusion among the residents. It wants to give them some time to realize their mistakes, so they still sing their favorite songs on the branches every morning, but the residents not only didn't break their word, but even called it names with stones.
It was disappointed with everything here and had to leave here with tears and fly to the south.
When passing through a forest, the crow was tired and stopped on a branch to rest. The pigeon resting on the branch saw the crow sweating profusely and asked him, "Where did you see you sweating so much?"
The crow said sadly, "I want to leave here and go to the south!" " "
The dove didn't understand and asked, "It's so beautiful here, and the air is so fresh. Why did you leave here? "
The crow sighed and said indignantly, "I don't want to go either." Who wants to leave this place where I was born and raised? But ... "The crow's eyes suddenly shed a few tears and his voice choked. "But the residents here don't know why they hate me. They scold me when they see me, and even hit me with stones! "
The dove smiled and said, "The residents here are very kind. How could they hurt you? " Did you do anything to make them angry? "
The crow shook his head without thinking and said innocently, "how could I do those things?" I sing to them seriously every day, hoping to bring them a happy feeling! " "
After that, the crow couldn't help singing. The pigeon listened to its ugly song and almost didn't fall off the branch. He interrupted quickly and said kindly, "I think you'd better not waste your energy." If you don't change your voice, you won't be popular anywhere! "
The crow suddenly understood something and blushed. In fact, when you feel that you have been treated unfairly, don't just complain about others complaining about your fate. We should examine ourselves and find out the root of the problem. No complaint can change the status quo. You can only change the status quo by your hands, not by complaining and passive escape.
When a person habitually thinks that he is a victim, he will define himself as a victim whenever he encounters difficulties and make excuses at any time. Even an unintentional sentence from others will make him have infinite reverie. For those who are used to complaining in life, people will not pity him, but will only stay away from him, and difficulties will accompany him all his life. There was a young farmer who planted many fruit trees at home. At the request of others, he gave his fruit to the residents of another village.
It was a summer day, the red sun was scorching the earth, the farmer's clothes were soaked, and he seemed to be burning all over. The village is on the other side of the river. The farmer paddled the boat quickly, hoping to finish the task quickly and get home before dark.
Just as the farmer was struggling to paddle, he suddenly found a boat downstream, coming towards him quickly, almost hitting it, but the boat didn't mean to avoid it, and it seemed to be intended to overturn the farmer's boat.
"Get out of the way, are you blind? Are you going to hit me? " The farmer shouted angrily at the boat upstream, "Do you want to die?"
No matter how the farmer shouted, it had no effect at all. Helpless farmers had to scramble to make the water boil, but it was too late. The boat has hit his boat hard. The farmer's fruit was knocked over in the river, his right hand was skinned, and bright red blood dripped into the muddy river. The farmer was very angry and snapped at him, "Are you blind? You are still mentally ill. You just hit my boat in such a wide river, and you want to die! "
But when the farmer found that there was no one on the other boat, how could an empty boat drifting along the river break free? The farmer suddenly felt very guilty. It was himself who could really rewrite the story, but he was buried in his own hands. Looking at two baskets of pears scattered in a boat, he was ashamed. Instead of complaining and talking nonsense, why not change it with your own strength?
Truly successful people, they never complain, they understand that all kinds of difficulties in life are the only way for them to succeed. Complaining can't solve any problems, it can only make you weak. Instead of complaining, it is better to use the time of complaining to find a solution to the problem.
No one can succeed easily, complaining is the killer. If you complain more about life, success will only get farther and farther away from you.