I have been on my honeymoon all my life. How to evaluate Li Jian's love?
Li Jian once described his love with his wife Meng Xiaopei as follows: "The days with you are called time, otherwise it is just a meaningless pendulum. I have been on my honeymoon all my life. "
From youth to youth, from strangeness to fascination, Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei are childhood friends in the story.
When we first met, he 10 years old and she was 5 years old. Li Jian's father liked this beautiful girl very much and praised her as "like a little Russian girl".
Only 10-year-old Li Jian stood by and watched Meng Xiaobei being held by her neighbor's aunt for a while. Small hands, short legs, round eyes, innocent smile. He muttered, Ah, her face Zhen Hong. Later, they met.
Li Jian, a senior high school student, is a famous "three good students". Meng Xiaobei is still eating middle school textbooks. The girl pranced about in a ponytail. When she meets a problem that she can't do, she often goes to her neighbor's house to ask his advice.
When Li Jian was walked by Tsinghua after graduating from high school, she continued to ask him for advice like a little tail. He attended evening self-study, joined clubs, formed bands, and wrote papers crazily-tutoring Meng Xiaobei in math and physics in his spare time.
Until one day, Meng Xiaobei also went to Tsinghua and became his junior. When she appeared, Li Jian was caught off guard. There is a girl who just grew up next door.
Miss Jie, who didn't reach her shoulders in the original impression, became a long-haired girl with a quiet smile.
The advantage of childhood friends is that there is always enough time to wait for one person to keep up with another's footsteps and brew the heart from familiarity.
It's never too late to look at something like 10 thousand years. But Li Jian still didn't chase Meng Xiaobei. He doesn't talk, and she doesn't talk.
It's just that we meet more frequently and ask more questions at once. We talked till we forgot to eat.
When we walk side by side, we can't tell whose heart beats faster.
Later, recalling their stories, Li Jian said, "I think we are attracted to each other, that is, we are close to each other. You walk towards me, and I walk towards you.
Two people are naturally together, and there is no need to chase. "
Their life is exactly the portrayal of Holderlin's sentence: "People live poetically on the earth."
Both Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei like reading, so there is a big study at home. There are bookshelves all around. Li Jian has two sides, and Meng Xiaobei has two sides.
Sometimes when Li Jian is free, he will go to Meng Xiaobei's bookshelf to look for books-but he can't understand them. They all like music. Meng Xiaobei sometimes goes to concerts with Li Jian and comes back very late at night.
But she will still insist on sitting down and finishing her daily study. Li Jian didn't sleep, so she stayed up with her in the study. She studies and he creates.
When Meng Xiaobei woke up, there was no one at home and he was covered with a blanket. When they are not working, they make a pot of coffee together, enjoy reading literature, taste music and talk about the world. When there is wind, the garden will also give off appropriate flowers. The relationship between Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei always reminds people of Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng.
"Being drunk in spring is a deep sleep, and gambling books are so fragrant."
She admired his musical talent, but he was surprised by her knowledge, speech and talent. Meng Xiaobei is not a blind follower. She doesn't need to depend on her husband. She is intellectual, quiet and independent.
Li Jian always respects, appreciates and loves her.
Except pure love; They also have equal communication, respectful personality and harmonious values-
Both lovers and confidants.
This combination of "diamond cut diamond" makes their marriage full of fun forever.