There are high and low realms in life, and the person with the highest realm is like a mirror, constantly observing himself and constantly introspection.

All living beings are struggling to move forward in the torrent of years. These three "aspirations" are like bright stars in the night sky, illuminating the road and guiding our direction.

The way to give up: losing is also gaining.

Read such a fable:

There is a wooden wheel with a corner cut off, which is sad and depressed because of its own lack. It is determined to find a suitable piece of wood and make itself complete again.

So it began a long journey.

The broken wooden wheel walked slowly, and it was sunny all the way. It talks to bugs in the grass, and has seen all kinds of beautiful flowers and many sawdust, but none of them is suitable.

Finally one day, the wooden wheel found a piece of wood with a very suitable size and shape, and it repaired itself as well as before.

The ecstatic wooden wheel suddenly found that the world in front of me had changed. I ran so fast that I couldn't see the beautiful smiling faces of flowers or hear the kind chirping of insects.

The wooden wheel stopped to think, left the sawdust on the side of the road and left by itself.

Lost a corner, but enjoyed the beauty of the world; Get the perfection you want, but walk in a hurry and miss the happy mood.

In real life, everyone wants to have more and never lose it.

A politician wants to be a mayor when he becomes a county magistrate. Businessmen get millions and dream millions; The gambler won once and wants to win again.

We must understand that the most important thing in life is "reluctant".

Sometimes, losing is getting, and getting is losing.

Although giving and receiving are antonyms, they are two sides of the same thing, accompanying and complementing each other.

It is often when there are defects in life that we can deeply understand the truth of life. At this time, "loss" has actually fulfilled "gain".

If you attach too much importance to material interests and reputation, hold too tightly and don't open your heart, you will often be bound by these troubles.

In life, we always choose between taking and giving up, always eager to take and have, and often ignore giving up and giving up.

Only by giving up endless desires and obstacles to progress can we open our hearts, face ourselves calmly and not be tied behind when dealing with the world.

Only by knowing the true meaning of giving up and the wonderful truth of "losing in the east corner, harvesting mulberry trees" can we live a natural and unrestrained life.

Once upon a time, there was a very wayward little boy.

He has a bad temper and rude words, so he is hated and has no friends He is often troubled by this.

His father told him: when you lose your temper, you will not be able to control yourself. Nail a nail in the tree in front of the door.

The little boy did as his father told him.

After a long time, he found that suppressing his anger brought him many unexpected benefits. Gradually, he learned to control his bad emotions and get along better with the people around him.

At first, there were many nails nailed to the tree, but later there were fewer and fewer nails, because he learned to restrain himself.

At this time, dad told him: After you successfully restrain yourself and solve the contradiction with others, pull a nail from the tree.

The little boy remembered what his father said and did it.

The nail on the tree was slowly pulled out, and the little boy completely mastered the correct way to face the people and things around him and became a popular child.

As long as we live in society, we have to deal with all kinds of people, which inevitably leads to the possibility of contradictions and conflicts with others.

Some people can live in peace with the people they associate with, while others quarrel with people around them because of trivial matters. The difference between the two lies in whether you know how to exercise restraint.

Everyone wants to be happy every day, but since it is life, there will always be some small waves, small waves.

For example, at work, when we are scolded by our boss, we feel uncomfortable. The salary is lower than that of colleagues and feels unfair; Colleagues don't get along well with each other and feel excluded; I feel too wronged to work overtime endlessly every day.

In the adult world, there are too many reasons to be unhappy. If you keep complaining and don't know how to control negative emotions, you will not only fail to solve the problem, but also make you more unhappy and even go to extremes.

As the saying goes: forbearing a moment's anger can solve future worries.

Only by regulating the rhythm of others, forgiving others and maintaining a peaceful and tolerant attitude can everything go smoothly.

There is such a story:

The barber has a razor, which is not only beautiful, but also easy to use.

For a while, the barber was on a business trip and there were no customers in the shop. The carefree and boring barber suddenly wants to go out and see the world and show himself in front of everyone.

As soon as the razor stepped out of the threshold, the sun shone in and shone brilliantly on its blade.

This light makes it very proud and thinks it's really something.

Razor doesn't want to go back to the barber shop. How can that shabby little barber shop deserve such a sharp blade!

So the razor found a leisurely place to hide, and the barber could no longer see it.

Months passed and the rainy season came. The razor that had been hidden for a long time decided to get some air, but unexpectedly, it had rusted.

The regretful razor cried bitterly: Why am I so conceited? ! The kind barber takes care of me and protects me. He is proud of my work! But now, everything is gone, and my blade has a disgusting rust spot.

A razor reflects the lack of self-knowledge and fate.

In society, cleverness is a kind of stupidity. We often complain that our work is not "high", we disdain to do trivial things, and we are in the wrong position.

As we all know, society is a big group, not centered on one person. If you can't understand the situation clearly and put yourself in a correct position, it is difficult for a person to survive even if his IQ is higher than others.

Some people say that self-knowledge is rarer, better and more exotic than talent.

With self-knowledge, we can clearly understand our mistakes, see ourselves clearly, straighten our position and do what we can.

It is like a treasure, shining in the dark, guiding different lives in the right direction.

"On Salt and Iron" says: Wise people change at any time, and knowledgeable people change with time.

There are no smart people and no stupid people in the world, but some people make different choices in different situations.

With self-knowledge, we can make an expedient measure between depth and depth.

There are thousands of roads in life, and which one to choose varies from person to person.

"Becoming famous and getting married" is a beautiful scenery, but not everyone can achieve it; For most people, a dull and happy life is often more meaningful than success.

The value of self-knowledge lies in being able to guide people to choose their own life path.

Life is a long journey, knowing how to choose is the wisdom of life, moderate behavior is the criterion of being a man, and keeping a correct position is the soberness of life.

There are three things in life. Only by knowing "the way to give up, the ceremony of restraint and self-knowledge" can we take the road of life well and live every day well.

About the author: Qin, a columnist of Fu Shu, a student of Fu Shu Material Camp, a person with a small book, a second-born working mother, a warm middle-aged girl, heals you and me with words and feeds back children with knowledge. This article starts with your best girlfriend, Fu Shu, who released a new book "Have a Good Life" on 20 18.