What's the beauty of reading the perfect man's model essay (1)? What should a beautiful person look like? How can we become beautiful?
In our simple aesthetic view, what looks gorgeous and sounds wonderful is beautiful, and what tastes delicious is beautiful. A beautiful person is either gorgeous in face and graceful in figure or elegant in temperament. If you want to be beautiful, you must actively pursue and practice towards these goals.
The true meaning of beauty
After reading Mr. Qiu's "Beautiful Man", we found that our understanding of beauty was too superficial and one-sided.
We only see tangible and qualitative beauty. We know that simple plum blossoms are beautiful, well-dressed peach blossoms are beautiful, shy early cherry blossoms, noble lotus flowers, slim acacia trees and aloof daffodils ... who doesn't know that they are beautiful? Seeing the perfect man, I realized the deeper meaning of these flowers. From flowers to people, this book tells us the spirit of beauty, how to discover beauty, how to be a beautiful person and how to achieve the cause of beauty.
Internal and external training is the great beauty.
Specifically, although flowers are different and show different types of beauty, the spirit of beauty is the same. Anyone here? Everyone is different, so we should find our own personality characteristics like flowers and show them. We should not only pay attention to our own external appearance, after all, external appearance is the first impression, but also cultivate our own inner feelings, so as to truly show an aspect as beautiful as flowers and develop it. That is, it is often said that both internal and external training. This process is the process that the original beautiful seeds take root, sprout, blossom and bear fruit.
Then, I began to think about how to apply this beautiful philosophy to life and work. Since "beauty" is a lifelong career, how to cultivate beauty in life and work? For an individual, the first step is to become a beautiful person, so it is necessary to always strive for self-improvement, be modest and prudent, deal with all problems in life and work with a positive attitude, cultivate yourself in this process, and absorb the high-quality nutrients of a good cause to nourish yourself. The second step is to discover the beauty around us, and also to explore and praise the beauty of friends and colleagues around us with a more open mind. Finally, join our beautiful group and jointly promote our beautiful culture, so as to further promote the beautiful cause.
"Handsome Man" said that hairdressing was originally based on the spirit of beauty. Everyone is born with beauty and ugliness. Everyone should grow up, and beauty should develop, and be close to a better ideal. Finally, you are a beautiful person.
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Therefore, "Handsome Man" is not only an aesthetic work, but also a practical book that leads us to a more beautiful realm.
Comments on handsome men (2) What is beauty? Since ancient times, there have been many poems and articles describing the beauty of human beings, which are nothing more than two kinds. One is to pour out for the outside, "If she just smiles back, there will be hundreds of spells cast, and the sixth palace powder will fade into nothing", and the other is to sing praises for the inside, "Give the lotus that loves you alone a mud without staining, and shed ripples without demon". However, in "Beautiful Man", the author Mr. Qiu, from the unique perspective of a wise man who really knows life, took 12 different flowers as the carrier and explained to us a brand-new definition of beauty-inner beauty: life is beautiful, which has nothing to do with "soul", "inner" and "temperament".
It turns out that everything is beautiful.
Yes, just like at the beginning of life, nature is good, and people are born with the essence of beauty, but with the passage of time, this essence may be obscured by the habit of joining the WTO. What we need to do is to dust off the dust, realize the essence of beauty, believe that we have the best from the beginning, and take this as a starting point, believe in the spirit of beauty, and believe that we can use it.
This is a very inspiring self-knowledge. Whether in life or at work, we will encounter all kinds of obstacles and setbacks in life. If we get lost in it, we will fall into self-doubt. But if we recognize the essence of beauty, we will firmly believe in ourselves and gain invincible strength and height without being influenced by other people's judgments. This is also a very positive cognition of others. In interpersonal communication, especially at work, if we can truly appreciate the original beauty of others, we can find and effectively use their strengths, harmonize interpersonal relationships, improve work efficiency and enhance self-ability.
It turns out that beauty is just a seed, and the seed needs watering and cultivation to grow.
Of course, understanding the original beauty is only the first step. The original beauty is just a seed, which needs watering to grow. This paper uses a lot of pen and ink to guide us how to grow from abstract primitive beauty to concrete beauty in reality, and how to approach abstract ideal standards from concrete beauty. The author compares reality to nutrition. He told us that if we want to be what kind of person, we should seek nutrients suitable for the growth of beautiful seeds, then repair ourselves, let beauty be the source of life water, and grow by ourselves. Just like the beauty of our midvein, several bosses have been amplifying everyone's dreams. Only when the dream is big enough, will we find and absorb the corresponding nutrients, and will we grow sturdily faster and bloom with shocking beauty.
The author has a thorough understanding of beauty. He is not afraid of joining the WTO. He talks about the simplest things, using the most common flowers to change our view of the world, eliminate our hostility, and let us learn to think and find the true meaning of life. Whenever we forget the beautiful life we are looking for, I believe that as long as we look back on Mr. Qiu's words, there will be an introduction to finding the way.
Conclusion:
The ancients said, "pear flower falls melts the moon, and the catkin pond fades with the wind." Life is like a spring, blowing gently and slowly, which is beautiful.
Comments on "Beautiful People" (3) For a long time, in my understanding, people in both China and the United States are like Maggie Cheung-the beauty of charm and Yao Ming-the beauty of sports. On TV, we see people who do public welfare, which is the beauty of the soul.
I have been lucky enough to read the book "Handsome Man" written by General Manager Qiu since I joined the company for several months, which has given me a deeper understanding of the meaning of beauty and a new understanding of beauty, rather than staying on the surface.
The way of presenting beauty:
As stated in the outline, the handsome man expounded the original state, growth mode, presentation and practice of beauty in the form of Flowers in December.
An example in the book is impressive. There is a story in Buddhist scriptures: At that time, there was a fairy-like girl in Vimalakīrti's residence. Every time I see someone say something, she exposes herself and scatters smallpox on all the bodhisattvas and great disciples. The flower fell on the bodhisattva, but it didn't touch the body, and it fell on the big disciple and couldn't touch it. Even if the disciples use their magical powers, it is difficult to remove the flowers from their bodies. Those flowers stuck to the disciple are because the disciple's heart is still separated.
This is a passage in the chapter "Lotus in June", and the core point is separation. Only by removing separation can we achieve zero spirit and pure beauty. In today's increasingly impetuous society, unless you can show your connotation in fleeting opportunities, there is not much time to evaluate a person's inner nature.
It was beautiful:
Contact with a person, whether it is the first feeling or what, will look at it first! Then keep it in mind so that we can have further contact. This look is very important, so the importance of face value is self-evident. However, I think what is more important is ability, or inner. We can't change the face value, but we can change our ability and improve our internal support. This process of inner cultivation is also a process of getting rid of separation, that is, beauty is a kind of fate, which is ultimately shallow and deep, monotonous and rich, monotonous and multifaceted. As long as these steps are completed, they will naturally be perfect.
At the same time, this also echoes a view put forward by Mr. Qiu throughout the book: originally beautiful. Beauty is a constantly changing process, and it will not be a fixed form or form. Life is a process of cultivation. We are often obsessed with the outside world and confused by the complicated social situation, but we don't know the true nature and can't understand the decisive role of mood in people. Some people struggle with external things and can never keep a good mood.
Conclusion:
For newcomers, it is a hard road to cultivate from irritability to calmness without being influenced by foreign things. Because this is a step-by-step process, we must constantly sum up and re-recognize after experiencing countless setbacks, and find a suitable way to improve ourselves, in order to cultivate the most beautiful ourselves.
Comments on "Handsome Man" (4) After reading "Handsome Man", I found that it is very different from previous books with the theme of "beauty". The books about "beauty" I read before are very specific, such as beauty, hairdressing, spiritual growth, moral cultivation and so on, but I have never met such a book as "Beautiful Man".
"Beauty" is the most sought after and desired adjective in the world. Men love beauty, and women want to be the most beautiful. This is the beauty on the surface and the beauty on the outside. How many people will realize their "introspection" and tap their original "truest" side and still regard it as beauty?
Ask yourself, it is certain that more than 90% people have never done this.
So "Handsome Man" teaches us to look back on the past, examine ourselves and cultivate ourselves. As the book says: pearls are temples built by pain around grains of sand. Beauty needs to be cultivated and transformed. Just because you put on makeup and change clothes doesn't mean you are beautiful. How to grow yourself and cultivate your unique beauty from the inside out is the highest realm of beauty that life should pursue.
It is mentioned in the book that everyone has his own characteristics, but he is not a perfect individual, so we should let ourselves grow constantly, realize our own characteristics and repair our deficiencies and imbalances. Following the point 1, based on the difference between beauty and native beauty, we already know that the pursuit of beauty is not only superficial, but also requires introspection and cultivation. Before introspection and cultivation, we also need to have a kind of ability, that is, cognitive beauty. The ability to know what is beautiful also needs to be cultivated, which is equivalent to what we call "vision" in our daily life. Everyone has his own criteria for judging beauty, and some people don't understand each other. Why do other people feel beautiful and ugly? This is caused by different perceptions of beauty. Therefore, this requires self-growth, self-cultivation, improving one's cognition and judgment standard of beauty, and then realizing self-sublimation.
How to repair the original beauty?
Self-cultivation is beautiful. One cent of capital, three points of decoration and six points of rendering can be beautiful.
The first is introspection, calm down, get rid of redundancy, live in peace with yourself quietly, listen to your inner voice, and learn to love yourself. Finding your own advantages, reflecting on your own shortcomings, facing yourself squarely and being willing to change are the beginning of cultivation. The book mentioned: "When we understand the root of Vipassana, find the deficiency of the original beauty, and the concept begins to change, we will think of the technique, so the concept is greater than the technique." Here, we are also taught that, first of all, we should examine ourselves, find shortcomings, and if we want to change, we will have the motivation to move forward and look for the technology to change.
The second step is to open your mind. Only by raising one's own thoughts to a certain level can one get rid of vulgarity and improve aesthetics. The skills of thinking are mutually utilized. When a person's idea is promoted, the next step is to improve the technology. I have never mastered the relationship between thought and technology before. After reading this manual, I understand that beauty is guided by ideas, so I must improve both.
In the process of cultivation, we should always have compassion. People are lovely because they are more noble because of their compassion. Self-esteem is the heart of nature, and self-esteem is the human heart. This is the so-called emotional intelligence. Think from others' perspective, understand and agree with others' practices, and treat others in this way without demanding high-intensity goals, mutual support, mutual understanding and tolerance.
The significance of learning beauty lies in that the cultivation of beauty is the way to perfect the soul. Beauty is the beauty of internal and external cultivation. It is undeniable that external beauty can give people a first impression, and external beauty can attract most people's attention, but what really makes people remember is the beauty from the heart. Therefore, while paying attention to the external beauty, we should also cultivate our inner self and improve our ideas.
Comments on handsome men (5) What is beauty? The author interprets a poem by Mr. Ji Bolun about pearls: pearls are temples built around sand by pain. Here tells us that in the process of growing up, in fact, everything in the world will go through all kinds of tempering, but after tempering, it will become mature and more perfect, and so will a person's life.
What is inner beauty?
Beauty needs to be cultivated according to everyone's quality, and quality can be obtained by learning from Tao Tian. Each of us is endowed with a virtue every day. This virtue is different and imperfect in nature, but these are our independent and unique qualities.
The process of growth is actually to repair these shortcomings. So, how can we fix it?
1, read more, no matter what kind of books, you can always benefit from reading more.
2, sense of responsibility, in the work, we need to keep a responsible heart at all times.
3, kindness, which is also an increasingly precious personal quality, many people are often eager for quick success, especially in the current social environment.
4. Cultivate a heart that is good at observing and thinking, think dialectically in everything and think from the perspective of others. When you see something, put yourself in the shoes. What would you do? After a long time, you will look at the problem from a very different angle.
Steps to cultivate beauty
The first step is to love yourself. A person who really knows how to love himself may have to go through a long and difficult growth process, find himself, know himself, accept himself, change himself, and finally love himself. In our daily life, we need constant introspection and continuous learning to better understand ourselves. Only through learning can we constantly enrich our personality and strengthen our will.
Step 2, turn on the external mobile phone. The cultivation process of beauty is the process of learning philosophical speculation, that is, looking at the root of beauty to repair, seeking nutrients from the outside and repairing yourself. Learning is the best nutrition. In the process of growing up, every experience provides an excellent learning opportunity for yourself. Practice is the highest realm of learning, and "things" embody practice. As an employee, work is actually "doing things". Everything you do is an opportunity to learn. If you can make full use of these opportunities, you will certainly gain more knowledge and skills in the process of solving everything by yourself.
We should cultivate the original beauty with compassion. Without basic compassion, we will gradually become indifferent. People without compassion don't know how to cherish themselves, let alone care and help others. Self-protection is the heavenly heart, and his heart is like himself. He uses sympathy for others to support and comfort each other, sympathize with others and sympathize with others.
We can't cultivate primitive beauty conveniently. No matter what you do, you must face it seriously and focus on it, which requires a craftsman spirit. To cultivate the original beauty, we must learn to work hard and learn to be stupid, so that we can study things.
In Qiu Dong's book "A Beautiful Man", twelve kinds of flowers are used to explain the puzzles we encounter in practice and practice. In order to discover our quality, our quality and our external echo, and finally cultivate a beauty of knowledge that can travel through time and space.
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How much persistence, how much pain. To get rid of pain, we must get rid of all persistence. When I am angry, I should see why my heart is angry. Don't cling to one thing or a habit. I must make everything completely free.
Beauty needs the rise of our aesthetic concept. The character of twelve kinds of flowers in "Beautiful Man" is a reference for our cultivation. When our quality goes up, we can reach the realm of morality.
Model essay after reading Beauty (6) "The cherry blossoms bloom at first, and after the plum blossoms fade, they bloom, are shallow and even red." After reading "Handsome Man", I was a little touched and liked the description of this article very much. The first cherry blossom is shy beauty, pure beauty, pure dust-free, pure enthusiasm and pure sadness, all of which are beautiful. When people carry this emotional color, they maintain natural enthusiasm and sadness, and they are moved by experience. "What I know makes me worry, and what I don't know makes me want." You need someone who knows it to taste it.
The earliest cherry blossoms in spring are elegant, simple, clean and pure, like a sweet feeling, which makes people feel as happy as spring breeze. Mr. Qiu said that they are used to describe the yearning for love and symbolize love. The description of cherry blossoms is: "It is not as cold as plum blossoms, nor as strong as peony. It seems to have a faint color, as if it faded from the snow, and it is like an angel red coral, pink and shy. "
This passage reminds me that when it snows in winter, one day I greet the silvery white of winter with the cold wind to feel and appreciate the beauty of winter. I wrote a passage: "With the cold, its beauty is not loud, not as beautiful as spring, summer and autumn." It is quiet, cold and pure, and only those who understand it can understand it. "Although it describes different natural beauty, it feels so close to what I think. People often say: "Books are our best confidants. "It must be so.
Everyone will be shy when they really see the world for the first time. Shyness is due to strangeness, fear and inevitability. Strangers enter the crowd and meet people who are different from themselves. They are embarrassed and at a loss. They are bitter because of life, but they have no cover and no protection. They can only be naked in front of people. This is a shy beauty, immature beauty and pure beauty.
The first cherry blossom is such a beauty, presented in the earliest encounter with spring. Orientals like this kind of beauty very much. Men look for shyness from girls, while women look for silence from men. However, the flowering period of the first cherry blossom is short-lived, short-lived and decisive. If the wind and dust dirty it, it will lose its value. Therefore, the Japanese use cherry blossoms to symbolize the loyal character of samurai, and also use cherry blossoms to pin the pure love between men and women.
Orientals pursue a clean and decisive beauty. The first cherry blossom is a beautiful seed, and the beautiful seed is very simple. However, simplicity has different textures, and each texture presents a different image. Simple clarity, simple stupidity, simple enthusiasm, simple sadness, when people naturally show their emotions, it is easy to touch others. Touching is the hardest thing to do. And simple people don't deliberately move people. All deliberate touches will be in vain. If you keep natural enthusiasm and sadness, you will have an invisible temperament, that is, profundity.
As we grow older, we seem to become "complicated" day by day. Many people began to recall how beautiful simplicity was when they were young, and how much they wanted to return to that carefree and even silly era. However, time never goes back. What we can do is to keep our hearts as simple as possible. You are simple and the world is simple to you. You are complicated, and the world is complicated for you.
I don't know when it started. Simplicity has not only simple meaning, but also many extended meanings. Simplicity is no longer just an appreciation of a person, but is mixed with some derogatory meanings. Is this a biased understanding of simplicity?
Reading the first cherry blossom, I felt the pure beauty. That initial shyness has been planted in our hearts. How can we make the world forget it? With this shyness and a virtuous heart, you will find that no matter how society changes, there will always be beauty in your heart. That's the first sweetness!
After living, many people begin to return to simplicity and like simplicity. No matter how much you understand simplicity later, if you think about life with simplicity, it is a state of mind pursuit. It is not naive or ignorant, but a state of life after getting rid of the noise and washing away the lead. Buddha said, "Great progress can be made with one heart."
Each of us comes from simplicity, and we are constantly looking for this simplicity in the process of mature life. The more mature we are, the more we yearn for simplicity. There is a powerful force in our hearts to participate in the review of life, the beauty of the first cherry blossom and the simplicity of the seeds.