There are many ways to overcome bad temptations. There are mainly ways to avoid incentives; Decline friends politely and improve self-control; Special purpose, correct bad habits. To overcome the bad temptation, we need to combine our own reality and treat it in the right way.
There are many bad temptations around us. How can we not be fooled, learn to distinguish and consciously resist?
Overcoming bad temptations depends on courage and wisdom.
Ways to help resist bad temptation: ① recognize the harm of bad temptation; ② Cultivate a strong will; 3 concentrate on learning; ④ Ask parents, teachers and classmates to supervise.
The day the best answer was reported, I refused. It is neither a person nor a thing, but a temptation.
When I got home, I had some new friends on the bedside table: chocolate, fudge and potato chips ... When I saw them, I immediately had two ideas. First, I really want to have a big meal to satisfy my hunger; Secondly, the spring outing organized by our school will be held in two days. If we save these delicious foods for lunch that day and eat them with relish after fatigue, wouldn't it be better to kill two birds with one stone?
Originally, these two ideas were both good plans, but they had to appear together. As a result, a good plan became a bad idea, and enjoyment became a contradiction. Do you want to eat now or not? I sat there, looking at crisp and delicious potato chips, sweet and rich chocolate and soft and sweet cotton candy. They all seem to have hands and mouths. They said "Come and eat me" and put their hands in front of me for me to catch.
After a few minutes, I finally couldn't help reaching for a pack of snacks. I grabbed it hard for fear that it might get away. Although I said it was temptation that made me catch the package of snacks, I wouldn't throw it away. Two ideas fought in my mind, playing very dark. After a long time, I threw the food in my hand back into the cupboard. Obviously, the temptation has failed. How can we just forget it?
After a while, it came back for revenge. In order not to think about those snacks, so I began to "write a book" and do my homework. But the temptation made my mind full of those snacks. I had to look back at them, and the enchanted food was coming at me with a smile. I opened my eyes wide and tried to catch them, but I kept saying to myself: I can't eat today, wait until the spring outing ... the temptation is a little urgent. It came to my ear and told me, "If you eat these things, you will have good luck, you will find money on the road ... and your academic performance will soar ..." But I refused and said to the other ear, "I will pay for the money myself." They quarreled again, which made me very uneasy. In the end, I can't stand it anymore.
I stuffed all the food into a big plastic bag, locked it in a drawer and put away the keys. The food began to "slap" the drawer, shouting that it would be stuffy inside. I opened the drawer again, but my hands began to shake. The temptation came again, and it made the smell of those foods float into my nose. My hands are shaking even more. Bang, bang, I opened the drawer and locked it, locking the temptation with the food.
In this way, I succeeded in overcoming the temptation. It seduced me through my sight, hearing, smell and even my thoughts, but it failed. At this time, I realized that the temptation is actually myself. As long as you mind your own business, temptation is tantamount to being imprisoned, which of course does not exist.
Tang Zhongyun commented:
This article is very childlike, an ordinary spring outing and a delicious snack. Because we want to put them together, there is a contest between "I" and "temptation". "Temptation" was cunning and difficult, but it was finally defeated by "rejection". At the end, "In fact, it is you who tempt you" is the finishing touch, which adds another layer of philosophical thinking to the article.
A young man asked the old man, "How can I successfully climb to the top of my dream?"
The old man smiled, picked up a piece of paper from the ground, folded a boat and put it on the river beside him. The boat was quiet and impatient, and sailed forward in the current without saying a word. On the way, butterflies and flowers flirted with it, but it moved on silently.
The old man said: "There are too many money, beauty, status, reputation and temptations in a person's life. Choose the goal of struggle, stop on the way because of thinking about money, sink because of lust for beauty, be impetuous because of longing for fame, and lose sleep because of grabbing status. Therefore, it is difficult to sneak silently toward the established goal like a boat, unmoved by temptation. This is why some people often give up halfway and can't succeed. " The young man suddenly realized, packed his bags and climbed to the top of the mountain against the wind.
Reject temptation and let perseverance dance lightly.
If life is a ship, then perseverance is a high sail, so that the ship can sail slowly from the shallow bay to the sea and successfully reach the other side.
If life is an eagle, then perseverance is vigorous wings, which will bring the eagle into a higher and broader space.
If life is a building, then perseverance is the foundation under its feet. Without foundation, the tallest building can only be a castle in the air.
On the long road of life, there will inevitably be bumps and temptations, and if you are not careful, you will fall into the abyss, so you should restrain yourself, refuse the temptation and persevere.
Under the willow tree, the sound of "Kuang" while the iron is hot is still striking, and Ji Kang, who is indomitable, despises the dignitaries. When his friend recommended him to be an official, he resolutely wrote "Dear John's Chrysanthemum Garden". At present, your son came to visit, and he turned a blind eye to it. Seeing that he annoyed your son, he asked, "What did you hear?" What did you see and where did you go? "Ji Kang's short life is full of noble character and firm will, and he will never let his life be affected by any temptation. Ji Kang wrote the true meaning of life with an ordinary beginning and a leopard-tail ending.
In the face of the enemy's soft words and torture, Wen Tianxiang always gritted his teeth and showed no sign of giving in. In his life, there was no title of high official, only loyalty to the country. "No one has died in life since ancient times, and it is his oath to take care of history." Rejecting temptation, sticking to oneself and serving the country are his life creed. Wen Tianxiang, a national hero, used his life to show perseverance, perfection and sublimity.
On the Yi wall, Su Wu looked at the mountains and trees in the distance. Nineteen years, not a day goes by without missing the motherland, not a day without watching. He faced Khan, was neither humble nor humble, and never gave in. Loyalty made him persist for 19 years, and perseverance made him refuse all kinds of temptations and maintain his integrity! Su Wu, the great messenger, explained the value of perseverance at the cost of his life!
Yes, without perseverance, why did Zhuangzi ignore the pole and prefer to "drag his tail on the road"? Without perseverance, why did Liu Xiang win the championship with the score of12s 19 and get the title of "Red Lightning"? Without perseverance, how can Yao Ming break out of China and show himself in the NBA?
All kinds of temptations on the road of life, such as the surging tide, may always drag us into the abyss? How can we resist the tide of temptation? My friend, as long as you have perseverance, you will succeed. Perseverance is an important guarantee for a person's success.
Perseverance is like a colorful ribbon, we should always carry it and let it fly over life!
We need to learn too much in life. We are like a long-term drought land, eager for rain, just like hungry children eager for milk, eager to absorb all the dazzling things in the world. Sometimes, can't you tell tulips from poppies? Friend, don't you think we need to learn a special skill in this wonderful and sometimes helpless reality? That is-learn to refuse! When you are a student, you will often see some people who don't study hard at ordinary times, but they get better grades in the exam through opportunism than you study hard; Have you ever thought about learning from someone who says you can "help you" when you can't solve a problem after thinking hard in the exam? ! At this time, you need to learn to refuse! As a character nicknamed "colon" in cross talk, you have the right to sign something. Many people want you, and some people will quietly hand you an "envelope". At this time, you need to learn to refuse! When you and your friends go to karaoke bars to sing, you need to learn to refuse under the dim light, in the hilarious drama where cups and dishes are staggered, and at the invitation of the charming voice of the hostess! Modern people's fashionable greetings have changed from "long time no see, have you eaten?" It evolved into "Long time no see, is my wife still her?" When; When the "conversion" in mahjong has been given a specific meaning about marriage in reality, at this time, you need to learn to refuse! When you are immersed in the internet, infatuated with chat rooms, infatuated with "brothers and sisters" on the internet, and ignoring friends and relatives around you, you need to learn to refuse! Friends, friends, we need to learn too much in life, but have you learned to refuse?