He promised to do something, owed money to others, was kindly repaid, offended others to make amends, and even let him see it in person; Even on my face, in my sleep, in my dream, there seems to be a shadow around me. Why? Thinking about him, the responsibility is relieved. Not only people, family, society, but even whatever I have benefited from him, I will be responsible for it. No matter what I should do or what I can do, I will be responsible for it. Where I tried to do something, I made a contract with others, which added a layer of responsibility. This responsibility, conscience will always supervise, and will fulfill its due responsibility until the first painful day in the evening. When you finish your duty, you will die painfully and enter the grave. However, pain can be solved more philosophically than ordinary poverty, illness, old age and death. I said, life is painful; If there is pain, it will be very specific.
Looking through, what is the happiest thing? Responsibility is a pleasure in life. As the old saying goes, "liberation"; As the saying goes, "the stone falls." Words can really describe how happy people are when they arrive. The greater the responsibility, the longer the life. When it comes to responsibility, you will broaden your horizons and feel at ease, and that kind of happiness will multiply. Generally speaking, what happens in the world and the happiness gained from suffering are the real happiness, the suffering of life and the happiness of doing one's duty. Bitter and happy cycle, which is interesting between vitality. I didn't do my duty, but I was scolded by my conscience and felt very uncomfortable. Once you turn over, you are responsible and happy everywhere; Always do your duty and you will be happy forever. The right to happiness is in your own hands. Confucius said that "nothing can be achieved without complacency" is precisely this role.
However, for Mencius, does it mean that "a gentleman has lifelong worries"? The more heroes there are, the greater the responsibility he bears; He often carries the responsibility on his body and shoulders heavy burdens, starting from the season of letting go. Ceng Zi also said: "There is still a long way to go ... not far from death?" Benevolent people have lofty ideals, care about the country and the people, and the Buddha has compassion for people, even though he has suffered all his life. He did his duty there day after day and suffered there day after day. He was really happy. Is he happy or bitter?
Some people say, "Since this hardship is born of resignation, will it last forever if I shirk my responsibility?" That was not the case. The responsibility is to eliminate talents and expel talents. If life can always be like a child of two or three years old, it will be bitter. When you grow up, the responsibility lies with you. How can you hide? But there is a difference in size. You make a great responsibility, you will be happy; Do a little responsibility, and you will get a little happiness. If you want to hide, you are throwing yourself into the ocean of pain and lifting it up forever.