Someone asked a famous artist if the young people who studied painting with him would become a great painter in the future. He replied, "No, never! He has no distress of survival and receives tens of thousands of dollars from home every year. " Artists deeply know that people's skills are tempered through hard work, but in the honey pot of wealth, this spirit is difficult to play. Looking back at history, we can know that most successful people in all walks of life were poor children in their early years. Most successful people are trained from sleepy and poor schools. Most big businessmen, professors, inventors, scientists, industrialists and politicians struggle to improve their status. Success is the result of overcoming difficulties, and great men are born from struggling with difficulties. It is impossible to exercise one's ability without hard struggle. A young man who grows up in luxury often depends on others instead of making a living by his own efforts. A young man who has been pampered since childhood has few great skills. Compared with others, rich children are like a seedling in a greenhouse and a tough pine tree in a forest hit by a storm. Only those trees that have been baptized by wind and rain can see a bluer sky. There is a famous saying in Japanese educational circles: "Except sunshine and air are the gifts of nature, everything else must be obtained through labor." Many Japanese students go out to work to earn money in their spare time. Work-study program is very common among college students, even children from wealthy families are no exception. They earn their tuition by serving dishes and washing dishes in restaurants, selling goods in shops, taking care of the elderly in nursing homes and being tutors. When children are very young, their parents instill in them an idea: "Don't give others trouble". When the whole family goes out to travel, no matter how young the children are, they will always carry a small backpack on their backs. Others asked why, and parents said, "Take your own things." Learn to endure hardships, so that you will not be confused and helpless in the face of difficulties and adversity. Learning to bear hardships can make you more patient and calm on the road of struggle. However, once upon a time, we have already put aside the spirit of suffering. Some people are used to relying on others, waiting for others to build bridges and roads, and then holding others' hands and crossing slowly. As we all know, if you have not been whipped by the cold current, you will not feel the warmth of the sun; If you have not experienced the dry heat of the desert, you will not feel the freshness of the oasis. Bitterness can torture people and exercise them! Eat the word "bitter", your vitality will be stronger, and your life will be more brilliant.