Tiger mother and wolf father have successfully promoted the educational concept of "beating is pain, scolding is love" in different cultural environments. The educational concepts of the two are similar, and their "selling points" are exactly the same: Wolf Dad is confident because his three children have been admitted to Peking University; Tiger mother, the reason why she was able to publish a book and appear on the cover of Time magazine in the United States is also because her children went to Yale University. If the child has not achieved such "success", will he still insist on stick education so "rightfully"?
Tiger mother and wolf father rely on their children to achieve "success" recognized by ordinary people. In fact, entering Peking University or Harvard, Yale, Cambridge and Oxford does not mean that children are excellent and healthy. It doesn't mean that they are successful models, and it doesn't mean that they will have a beautiful and happy life. What is the success of education? Does being admitted to a prestigious school mean success? There are also children from famous schools who commit suicide, are forced to drop out of school, are confused and confused, and some people have accomplished nothing after graduation. It can be said that no matter what prestigious school you enter, it is only a stage of your life. The education of tiger mother and wolf father can let children enter this stage, but what kind of influence will it have on their future? What kind of children will those who imitate them teach under the stick?
Many people are eager for the education of "tiger mother and wolf father", which shows that the worship of "success" in society has penetrated into the field of education. Parents ignore their children's mental health and happiness, and the only thing they can recognize is "success", that is, being admitted to a prestigious school. Children who are physically and mentally healthy are not good children in their parents' minds. Children wearing the aura of famous schools on their heads are what they want and valuable. This is the fundamental reason why the education of "tiger mother and wolf father" has been recognized.