Poor self-control, sometimes can't control myself. I also want to be a self-controlled person. However, how to be a self-controlled person?
Whenever you want to do something, you should carefully consider the consequences of it.
Life is full of desires, which always make people "do something", while reason tells people not to "do something", so desire and reason constitute an eternal contradiction in the depths of the soul. To quell this conflict, we must control our desires and grasp moderation.
Reason is the premise and foundation of self-control. To be rational, we must make a correct analysis of ourselves and the surrounding environment, draw a clear line between right and wrong, and find out what we can and cannot get; What can and can't be done, always keep a clear head.
Always think more about the benefits of others and less about the disadvantages of others; Compare other people's strengths, not their weaknesses. Only in this way can we treat people in two ways and correctly handle interpersonal contradictions.
Of course, patience is also essential. Think twice before you act in case of fire. The ancients said, "A little tolerance leads to great mischief." . There is such a metaphor for people's thoughts. The widest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the mind wider than the sky. In real life, when you have conflicts with others, you should learn to be patient. As the saying goes, take a step back and broaden the horizon. This is a man with self-control in my eyes.
I also want to learn from them, absorb their experience and be a self-controlled person.