Chinese prayer and prayer are just the opposite of those in the west. They rarely repent or feel grateful, but ask for something, such as seeking peace, wealth, promotion and wealth ... The endless demand conflicts with the unsatisfied reality, and their beliefs will fall into blindness and lose their way. The imbalance of culture has a great influence on the whole belief system, and then it gives up on itself or has extreme behavior and an unbalanced moral platform. Feudal Neo-Confucianism requires women to obey the three virtues, be loyal all their lives, and be a virtuous woman, which is contrary to human nature and humanity, but it has been popular for thousands of years. In fact, in feudal times, men were superior to women, men could have three wives and four concubines, and women had to be loyal to their wives. Inequality is obvious. Obviously, they are not free and democratic. This superficial "male utopia" is of course the dream of men in feudal society. Even in modern society, many men are eager to relive their old dreams. With the loss of faith, its moral platform is also unbalanced, and mutual trust and respect can only become empty talk.
Beauvoir, a contemporary feminist, said: "Women are not born, but formed." Influenced by the traditional feudal Neo-Confucianism, China women's sense of independence is vague, and their dependence on men remains undiminished. Life is not always smooth sailing. War brings death, disease and desolation to people everywhere. Scarlett ran home full of hope and hardship, only to find that the home she used to be spoiled and relied on was beyond recognition. Her mother's death and her father's mental disorder promoted her rapid growth. When Scarlett swears to the sunset, whether stealing or robbing, she will not let herself and her family starve again. I see. She's scared. Afraid of the taste of hunger Being fearless because of fear. Do what you have to do, and life has to go on. The weak woman has a strong heart, and she knows what she must do. When Mei Lan praised Scarlett for bravely killing the Yankees with admiring eyes, she was really proud of these two weak women with strong opinions. Do what you have to do, don't be afraid of violence, don't hesitate, don't panic, be calm in the face of sudden changes and disasters, even if you lie. The heroine among women, originally Mei Lan and Scarlett admired each other, are both independent and brave people. Meilan seems to be better at handling things than Scarlett and can recognize a person's heart better. What a shrewd businessman, his first thought is profit. Grow more cotton, thanks to Scarlett's quick response. A little woman who is crazy about love, although she doesn't know herself as well as others. It's ridiculous to watch Scarlett haggle in front of Rhett in clothes made of curtains. What a clever little woman. To tell the truth, I don't appreciate Rhett and Scarlett very much. Although they have good intentions, they are too smart. This feeling is even more obvious when Rhett says in a contemptuous tone that Scarlett is not worthy of 300 yuan. Although it is a classic, this character is a bit too philistine. Does Rhett love Scarlett? When Scarlett needed the 300 yuan most, it wasn't for her own life and her family's life, but what he said was that you didn't deserve it. This time, you made a trip for nothing, and you were seeing other women. Is it love to stand by when you need help most? I don't know, maybe there are differences between eastern and western cultures. But I absolutely don't appreciate this kind of love. Even though Rhett vowed to give Scarlett a sense of security at the back of the film, I thought it was so far-fetched and even ridiculous. But Mei Lan and Wesley are more in line with my appreciation point of view. Mei Lan is so calm in the face of danger and does things appropriately, which deserves my admiration and study. Scarlett really went a little too far. It's not authentic to treat my sister's sweetheart as a husband. I am afraid of poverty, but there is no need to lose my principles and conscience. Although Rhett and Scarlett are both very moral in the face of national personal crisis, in any case, they all feel that they are not authentic enough and are somewhat smart and selfish. Without Wesley and Meilan's atmosphere and stability. Meilan's respect, kindness and love for everyone have strengthened my confidence. Treat others with sincerity and love; Do your best to deal with things, do your best. Rhett and Scarlett may have experienced wars and casualties, and may have different views on some people and things, but they are both too selfish to care about the feelings of outsiders and only consider their own interests. Yes, it is insecure! Now I understand the cause of my inner anxiety. Nightmares, as well as inner dissatisfaction, trying to break through their inner shackles are all unsafe factors. I used to think that having is everything, but with the passage of time and the accumulation of trivial things in life, I realized that people's desire for food and clothing is also so important, especially for women, the sense of security around their loved ones allows them to put everything down. Bad words hurt people! A hurtful joke actually came true. Scarlett rolled down the stairs. Will there still be feelings? This kind of love would rather not. Why do people torture themselves and others like this? The angel left like this, Mei Lan left, and was taken away by God. Took away kindness and love. Leave a trace of melancholy to the people around you. Scarlett finally realized that the person she loved was Rhett. When she ran home full of guilt and confessed to Rhett, we heard a spoony woman's confession in her heart. However, Rhett ignored it and left again If that time he took Scarlett and Meilan out of danger and left for the dream in his heart, there is really no reason to leave this time. Say you love Scarlett. How do you love her? Is physical possession love? He stood by when he needed his help most, and was cynical when he needed his comfort most. This is love? I don't agree. People who are too smart and care too much about their feelings are not worthy of respect. To say the least, if Rhett hadn't left after Scarlett's confession, or if they met and reunited after many years, would they be happy? I think it will be sweeter than before, but the friction will continue. Both of them are people who care too much about their feelings and are very cautious. Usually, teasing will still hurt people's hearts and lungs, but in the end, I hope that lovers will get married.