Violent party: Generally speaking, they don't think they are at fault, and they have contempt for the bullied object. Generally speaking: I look down on you and can punish you at any time, but you can't resist. School bullying, because of the collective fear among peers and the principle of preserving our sanity, also makes the perpetrators more unscrupulous.

Victims: Most parents have emotional neglect, and their children feel inferior and inferior to others, and they feel very powerless. Parents cannot be their own support and backing.

Take stock of the factors that lead to bullying.

1, emotional neglect

Emotional neglect is an intangible injury, which means that children can only be avoided and denied by their parents when they are young, and their emotional needs are not accepted. This will lead to children's negative self-concept, thinking that they are unlovable, not good enough, helpless and have a strong sense of inferiority.

2. Thin liquid

Children's psychological state will affect their physical development, and the difference in height and weight will be an important factor for children to be bullied. Especially adolescent children, are experiencing the secondary development of the body, the strength of boys has advanced by leaps and bounds, and the exuberant hormones have nowhere to vent. Coupled with the aggressive genes inherited in male bones, the incidence of adolescent school bullying is increased. 3. Abuse by parents

When children are often scolded by their parents at home, it will not only dampen their self-esteem and self-confidence over time, but also make them accustomed to obeying people who are "stronger" than themselves. To put it bluntly, children are used to being bullied!

Cultivate children's awareness of anti-bullying, starting from an early age.

In addition to the above points, parents should try to put an end to parent-child interaction, and parents also need to help their children establish anti-bullying awareness:

1. Clarify the definition and form of school bullying's behavior, so that children can identify which words and deeds are bullying behaviors;

2. Tell the child: Tell the teacher the first time you are bullied. If it's too late, give priority to protecting yourself. You can fight back, and fear will only make them more rampant;

If you are bullied, no matter what the result is, no matter what the teacher's attitude is, you must go home and tell us, because you are our child, we love you very much and are your strong backing, and we don't allow others to bully you.