We received thousands of stories containing warmth. In these words, the support from others either accompanied the writer through a difficult time or turned into an irreplaceable moment in the writer's life, injecting warmth into their lives.
Such people are precious. If you meet them, please cherish them.
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For me, this? Someone like Bai Yueguang? She was my roommate when I first practiced.
The content of the first internship was very different from what I expected. I am not sociable and dare not take the initiative to communicate with colleagues. Going to work every day is like sitting on an island.
A month later, I met my new roommate. Luckily, she and I work in the same company. Suddenly, I feel that I finally got in touch with this city in a different place. She is excellent and diligent, clever but sincere. When she works, she will devote part of her work to? Help? She gave me advice in the name of "I don't understand", introduced me to her department colleagues, and dragged me to their after-work party.
As an intern, in fact, I can't enjoy the benefits of company employees. Knowing that it was my first time to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival alone in other places, she secretly gave me half of the moon cakes that the company gave her as welfare.
In a lot? Can't find a sense of belonging? At that moment, she saved me.
Before leaving her job, she specially took a vlog for me. When I was leaving, she took me to the airport. I have never felt the feeling of parting, and I want to cry for the first time. In my life, this is the only one that makes me feel? God sent me to see you? People.
02.
When I was in high school, my academic pressure was great, my grades were average, and my parents had a bad relationship. I often feel that my life is gray and hopeless. For a while, I fell into great confusion: what's the point of living?
One night, I really couldn't help asking my Chinese teacher. Because she is very knowledgeable in our hearts, reads a lot and has rich life experience, I believe she can definitely help me.
The Chinese teacher was a little surprised to hear me ask, but she told me sincerely: sorry, I don't know. I thought a lot before, but I couldn't find the answer. After reading a lot of books, it seems that there is no satisfactory conclusion. In recent years, I have occasionally thought of this problem. I think this problem will accompany us all our lives, and let us constantly reflect on our lives. So, I hope you can be more patient, maybe one day you will get your own answer. ?
When I heard these words, I felt more relaxed than ever. When I left the office, the teacher said, Remember to tell me when you have the answer. ? Up to now, I still remember her smiling face is so gentle.
03.
In the third grade, I was isolated by the girls in my class. The homework I handed in will be completely torn off when I return to my hand; Go back to the dormitory to take a bath at night, and it will turn into cold water after washing; There will be dead cockroaches on the bed for no reason. At that time, I felt compelled at school and wanted to transfer, but my parents didn't understand. I always feel that my heart is too fragile and worthless.
So every night when I study by myself, I will go to the abandoned rooftop of the second year of high school, and what it feels like to want to jump countless times. But it was in that place that I met a sister.
Later, she came here to chat with me every night, and then she didn't leave until I went downstairs. She told me that many people in this world may not like you. Some people have reasons, and some people have no basis. Don't always look at those who don't love you. You should live for those who love you. Listen, am I not here?
For me, she not only spent the darkest time with me, but also saved a person who felt abandoned by the whole world.
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In the second year of postgraduate study abroad, the tutor ran away and it was difficult to graduate. The paper was submitted to the journal, and was criticized as worthless by the reviewers. He doubted life as never before. I am so anxious that I don't know who to talk to, so I can only struggle desperately.
One day, I didn't know where I got the courage, so I sent a message to my crush senior for help. The reason I told him was that the other person's academic level was high, and his selfishness might be tense, even if he looked back at the other person's expression.
As a result, the other party not only replied, but also carefully showed me the opinions of the reviewers, and called me to tell me that some parts of my experimental design were actually reasonable, so I could bravely defend my point of view and strive for a second delivery opportunity.
You are doing very well. Don't give up easily. ?
Later, when I returned to work, I encountered any seemingly insurmountable bumps. When I think of what he said on that phone, I feel I still have the courage and strength to try again.
05.
In my impression, my aunt's smile is as warm as sunshine and has been fixed at the age of 36.
My aunt was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 32, and my brother was only 8 years old. My uncle struggled in his career. During the four-year treatment, Auntie has been actively cooperating with the treatment and never gave up. In front of her family, we can often see aunt's smiling face and her comfort to us. Sometimes I think she is strong and she is taking care of us.
On the afternoon of the last journey of her life, I sat by my aunt's bed and looked at her lovingly. My aunt told me that I don't know what difficulties and setbacks you will encounter when you grow up. You must remember to be optimistic and learn to laugh, so that you and people around you can be happy.
Later, I learned to be optimistic, love to laugh, not be troubled by negative emotions, and always warm people around me.
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My mother comes to mind first. Her life experience, family management and attitude towards life have given me great courage.
At the age of 20, she lost her father who loved her most. Before she could grieve, she took on the responsibility of taking care of her family. At the age of 26, her leg was broken, her boyfriend left, and she stayed in bed for two years. She lives by reading.
In the 1980s, at the age of 29, she was unmarried and had a disabled leg. She was still in brave enough to love. I chose my dad, who is three years younger than her, and worked hard. The couple have been in love for 30 years.
When I was in my forties, I went to school with me, studied dentistry and learned a new skill.
50 years old, in order to have the same language as me, in order to learn new knowledge and see a wider world.
She always said, when we cross the bridge, let nature take its course and don't worry. However, what she presents is that she will never give up, work hard and take control of her life! Therefore, I envy her attitude towards life: she dares to struggle and persist, and she can take everything lightly. Now a person is working outside, and I have encountered many times when I want to give up, but as long as I think of my mother, I feel warm and powerful. Thanks to my mother.
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My own sister is seven years older than me. When I was a child, my parents often left home for a long time and we lived alone.
At that time, I just left a small village and went to the county to attend junior high school. I don't study well and I'm not popular. I am lonely and helpless. She wrote to tell me: you will go to a good high school, go to the university you want to study, learn your painting and study your favorite major; You also talk about a serious love, earn money to eat the first bowl of hot and sour powder, you love yourself, and we love you.
This passage warmed my whole youth.
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I met a girl four years ago, and I like her very much, and I like the kind of dependence on her.
During my preparation for the exam, I liked the way she was so naive that she was always hesitant and angry. One night, I stuck with her by mistake, but she calmly said to me: you do your own thing first, I'm not leaving. ?
Although this sentence is simple, I still remember it now. Because she made me understand that besides her, I have important things to do. Only by taking my life seriously can I cherish such a good person.
I have been with her for almost three years now, and I am still trying to be a responsible man.
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My head teacher.
She took over our class when we were in the second grade. What does she say most in the face of our oldest class? I will never give up on you. . Even if she was so angry that she didn't attend class and cried, as long as someone said that our class was not good, she was the first to argue with the moral education department and protect us.
At that time, there was a female classmate in the class with low intelligence, who was always laughed at and bullied by us. When the head teacher found out, he scolded us, which was more severe than before. After this time, we found that this classmate would kiss her every time she saw the head teacher, and the head teacher would bend over to comb her hair, let her kiss, hug her and give her a big smile every time. We see it in our eyes and gradually stop laughing at or rejecting her. We should protect her as the head teacher protects us.
The head teacher used her words and deeds to cultivate our indifferent class into a United and enterprising family. Classes that have been looked down upon by everyone are the first in the senior high school entrance examination and the first in the subject. She worked miracles with us.
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I'm thinking about my husband.
When I was six months pregnant, my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer. The mood of the whole family suddenly changed from happiness to extreme sadness. My husband encouraged us, saying that people's psychology will affect their physical function, so we must think positively.
With his support, I gradually stabilized my mood and successfully gave birth to my son. My father also insisted on leaving for a year because of driving (many patients in the middle and late stages could not live for three months).
However, there are always peaks and valleys in life. I don't know when he started, but he was under increasing pressure and suffered from depression. I began to learn about psychology. I hope this time, I can accompany him out of the predicament as strongly as he did when he accompanied me through the difficulties.
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20 15 years, 30 years old, experienced premature delivery of the second child, massive hemorrhage and domestic violence divorce. I want to resign from the civil service and do what I have always wanted to do, but I always hesitate and doubt myself.
On a sunny and calm afternoon, my cousin and I sat on the floor. I talked about my desire to study abroad, but I haven't touched English for ten years, so I'm not sure. Cousin said: Sister, knowledge can be forgotten, but ability can't. I always remember her gentle and plain tone, which is similar to her calm tone of explaining the facts, and gives me more courage than encouragement.
Now, I am a lawyer in Shanghai. Along the way, in addition to my cousin, there are many people who have given me help and support. I sincerely thank each of them.
There will be many painful moments in our lives. When we are helpless, if someone can tolerate our anxiety and give us the courage and strength to continue living, then I think such a person is ours? The messenger of life? Still in our lives? Bai Yueguang? .
They didn't tell us what to do, but with gentle company, they used their own existence to convey to us that everything would be fine. They participate in our life without purpose, selflessness and reservation, plant a vital seed and then leave.
But we know that the seeds have been planted and are growing, and one day they will grow into towering trees in our hearts.
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