First of all, find the right point of praise. This requires us to pay more attention to observation at ordinary times. Don't flatter others' shortcomings, for example, a classmate has dark skin and occasionally wears foundation makeup one day. Go up and tell them that you are so white today, comrade. Do you know it's easy to offend people? You should say that you feel particularly energetic today. I don't see any change, but I feel different at ordinary times. Don't praise other people's advantages, because she is used to it and has no influence, such as big eyes. Everyone can see this kind of thing, and you don't need to praise it at all. If you want to praise, you must praise what others don't pay attention to, such as your feet are really white. (It's almost the same, in fact, don't be so abnormal at ordinary times, especially male compatriots)

Second, we must find the right time to praise others. For an introverted person, it may be embarrassing for you to praise him in front of many people, so be sure to pay attention to the timing and the surrounding atmosphere. The point here is to praise people behind their backs, especially those who are familiar with her. It is better to praise people behind their backs than to their faces.

Third, learn to praise others. Don't praise people casually, for example, a good temper is enough. Just like writing an argumentative essay, there must be arguments, arguments and conclusions. For example, you have a good temper. Last time, someone did something wrong and blamed you. You are not angry, but patiently explain, which makes you particularly educated. The so-called model is more convincing by adding concrete examples.

In short, it is not too bad luck to praise other people's children sincerely and casually.