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The ancient sages once put forward the famous assertion that "life is three immortals": "There is virtue in the world, and then there is merit, and then there is words, and over time. This is called the Three Immortals "(Zuo Zhuan). Confucius, a scholar in the Tang Dynasty, made an incisive exposition on "Li San": "Lide means creating vertical laws and giving benefits to the public; Meritorious service is to save the nation and save the time; Making a statement means that it is important and reasonable. " Three simple sentences and 33 words have made the standard of life accurate to the extreme. As a result, "Li San" came to a conclusion and became the life goal and ideal of many people in China since ancient times.

For thousands of years, emperors, sages, heroes, dignitaries and ordinary people of the Chinese nation have been singing this trilogy in different forms, different tones and different methods, which has created the history of moral civilization of the people of China.

Lide-being honest

The ancient sages put "virtue" in an excessively high position because "virtue is a handsome talent, which is the capital of virtue" and "quality can make a country or a country perish, and quality can prosper or abolish it". In ancient times, Lide meant to be a saint, to create a vertical law and to give alms to the masses. With the development of the times, in the contemporary era, Lide has always been caring, accumulating virtue and doing good deeds, from connotation cultivation to external demeanor, and strives to become a model. Throughout the ages, people attach importance to quality and serve officials with morality. People often say: "Serve people with virtue". In modern times, people pay more attention to generosity and honesty, kindness and kindness, steady and generous manners and self-restraint, and moral cultivation. There is martial virtue in Wushu, artistic virtue in art, moral character in life and commercial virtue in business.

Being a man is the premise and foundation of making contributions. Gao Panlong, a scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said: "I stand between heaven and earth and just want to be a good person. This is the first priority." The meaning of being a man is that the sky is as wide as the hole is as deep. Many people in ancient and modern times are studying, and everyone is practicing.

All the successes in life are, in the final analysis, the successes in life, and all the failures in life are, in the final analysis, the failures in life. In my opinion, Lide should strive to achieve the following four points:

One day, stick to integrity. Sticking to honesty means sticking to honesty and integrity, and it is also the foundation of being a man, the way of being a man, the foundation of business, and the foundation of mutual trust between people. "People can't stand without faith", stressing credibility and keeping honesty is a constraint and requirement for themselves, and also a hope and requirement for others. It contains the dual connotations of being loyal to oneself and being honest with others. Therefore, honesty and trustworthiness are not only social ethics, but also professional ethics of being a person and doing things. Honesty and trustworthiness has always been a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, and honesty is the most basic moral bottom line for being a man.

Second, good conduct. The ancients said, "A man can be an official all his life, but he can't be virtuous in one day." "Those who want to show the virtue of the world in ancient times should rule their country first; If you want to govern your country, you should first get your family together; If you want to reunite with your family, you should first repair your body; If you want to cultivate yourself, you should be upright first; If you want to be correct, be sincere first; Be sincere, let him know first; Knowledge exists in things. Everyone knows everything, everyone knows it and is sincere, sincere and upright, upright and upright, well-trained and well-groomed, well-groomed and well-governed, well-groomed and well-governed. From Tian Zi to Shu Ren, one is self-cultivation. " Explain that from the son of heaven to the people, we should take improving moral cultivation as the basis, cultivate ourselves first and then put our family in order, put our family in order to govern the country, and rule the country and level the world. Therefore, doing things is based on self-cultivation. With a good character as a guarantee, you can have confidence, car-scrapping, get rich in business, make friends and be honest and upright as an official.

Third, tolerance and kindness. Tolerance and kindness are both internal and external, which is a virtue. Tolerance and kindness to people is a sublimation of one's own humanity. It is not cowardice or incompetence, but tolerance and generosity. For a person, tolerance and kindness can be exchanged for understanding, harmony, friendship and even turning an enemy into a friend. For a group, tolerance and kindness can unite people and generate infinite power.

Fourth, love and filial piety. "Kindness and filial piety" refers to the conduct of a person, and it is also a moral concept, which is a spirit advocated by China people since ancient times. "Good filial piety" shows loyalty to the cause, people, friends and family, and filial piety to the elders. As a person, you should be loyal to your family and friends. As a party member, you must be loyal to the party and the people; As a cadre, you should be loyal to your career and your duties. As a junior, you should honor your parents and elders. It can be said: "filial piety to parents, sincere friends, loyalty to the motherland, above all else, self-confidence, kindness and everything." ...

Meritorious service-doing things rigorously

Meritorious service means doing things rigorously. Shuo Wen Jie Zi said: "Merit refers to the merits and achievements of stabilizing the country through hard work. From strength to work, it also means work. " "meritorious service" is not limited to earth-shattering events, but can still make contributions in ordinary jobs. Meritorious service should be accomplished in three aspects:

(1) To make meritorious deeds, you must first have the determination to be the forerunner of riding a horse's hoof and not be an ascetic monk who muddles along. Anyone who becomes famous has lofty aspirations and never-say-die spirit, and has a firm and courageous character.

Soldiers who don't want to be generals are not good soldiers, students who don't want to study in famous universities are not good students, and entrepreneurs who don't want to be Li Ka-shing-style entrepreneurs are not good entrepreneurs ... This doesn't mean that you must be famous and married, you must be a general, you must study in Tsinghua and Peking University, and you must be a rich business owner ... but you must have this spirit and ambition. To be a man, ambition is indispensable, and ambition is indispensable; Pride is indispensable, and pride is indispensable. If a person doesn't even have ambition and pride, he can't have a successful career and brilliant achievements!

(2) Meritorious service requires skills, and skills must be learned. "Only with knowledge can a person become a' three heads and six arms'", "The blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." "If you don't learn, you won't learn." Any hero who contributes to the people and society relies on the platform of history to display his knowledge to achieve success. Learning can be successful only by hard work. There are many examples in history of hard work, determination to succeed, perseverance and final success. Wen Shu, a native of Luzhou, Shaanxi Province, was born in a poor family and herded sheep in osawa. He made a mat out of cattail grass, borrowed a Book of History and read it. The other is Gong, who raised pigs for others at the age of 50, sharpened bamboo in the bamboo forest and copied Chunqiu. The two later became famous at that time and loved each other. "Hanging a beam on the head and stabbing a stick on the cone" is about Sun Jing of the Han Dynasty, who studies late at night and ties his hair up on the beam with a rope to avoid falling asleep.

(3) meritorious service does not take credit, it is to pay, not to take. Meritorious service is selfless dedication, writing books with sweat and blood, and opening the way with heart. People have multiple values, need multi-layer development and have endless achievements. Some people stop at the form and sell their appearance; Some people stop at courage and show their strength; Some people stop at their hearts and have their own skills; Some people seek reason and use their wisdom. You can hear the loud voice, but you can't see the avenue. A man of great wisdom will not stop at form, strength or skill. They live calmly, think quietly, make persistent progress, go straight to the highland of wisdom, control the law freely, and always maintain an ideal beauty, a light wind and a smooth and bright festival.

Make a statement-inherit civilization

Liyan is the continuation of Lide's meritorious service and the carrier and way to inherit civilization. To make a statement is to record the thoughts, experiences, contradictions, strategies and feats in people's lives in words and pass them on to the world for people to appreciate and learn from, to inspire and spur people. This is a meaningful work, which made a contribution to later generations at that time.

Speaking can express ambition, inherit civilization, stand for the world, stand for the people, and be peaceful for all generations. To put it bluntly, it means continuing merits and inheriting civilization. Sages throughout the ages have made speech their historical mission. At all times and in all countries, countless people have lost their reputation despite their wealth. Only those who are outstanding and dare to speak out will be praised by future generations. When Zhou Wenwang was imprisoned, he deduced the sixty-four hexagrams of Zhouyi. After Confucius was trapped in Lu, he compiled Chunqiu. Qu Yuan wrote Li Sao after he was exiled. Zuo Qiuming wrote Mandarin only after he became blind. Sun Bin's kneecap was cut and Sun Bin's Art of War was compiled. Lv Buwei was demoted to Shu, and Lv Chunqiu was handed down from generation to generation. Han Fei was imprisoned in the State of Qin, and wrote articles such as Difficult Talk and Lonely Anger. Sima Qian wrote Historical Records while in prison ... It's not easy to make a statement, but it's something everyone should do. The ancients had the words of self-cultivation, the words of family planning, the words of governing the country, and the words of the world. You have a purpose, I have a sparse, words, essays, poems, chapters, Jane, agreements, letters, Confucianism, Buddhism, Taoism, soldiers, people and officials all have words, and there are rules and regulations to follow. Society is developing, human beings are progressing, the words of life are harmonious, and there is more love in the world. Scientific words have helped the world, and the world has become more beautiful. Everyone stood up and put in a good word.

In this world, if you want to live meaningfully, you can't live subjectively without the desire to "stand up and speak". Objectively, it is something left to the world, whether it is material wealth or spiritual wealth. So how to do it depends on everyone's own understanding of the world. Whether people admit it or not, the sentence "Li De made contributions and made a statement" is really like what the ancients said. "Don't waste it for a long time" has always been an ideological norm that affects people's behavior.

Virtue, merit, make a statement, all strangers are doing it; Everyone who died is on trial. No matter what the subjective desire is, it will definitely stay or accumulate in material or spiritual aspects objectively.

Life trilogy, three standards, everyone should take care of themselves. "Virtue, make contributions, make a statement", the sages lead the way, and later generations go their separate ways.