1. First, watching my son grow up, expressing my concern and reluctance for my son and the loneliness that I can't let go of in the face of his growth; First, I watched my father grow old and go away, expressing the pain I couldn't keep in the face of my father's old age.

2.① Any relative can only be a fragment of our life; ② Some growth in life is something that we must face independently; We inevitably have to face all kinds of lost loneliness and pain in life; We should cherish every love that belongs to us.

3.

(1) (The content score of the selected words can be accurately analyzed 1, and the expression effect score can be analyzed 1. You can choose words such as "boundless", "long river of time and space", "gaze" and "intersection" to analyze and make sense)

Reference example: the word "intersection" describes the combination of my concern for my son and his attachment to me, and vividly shows the deep affection between mother and son.

(2) The author uses the oblique wind and drizzle to set off the painful parting mood, and then uses two words of "deep" to directly express his grief for his father and himself, so that the affectionate description and lyricism naturally blend together.

You can talk about it from any angle. The viewpoint clearly comes from the text, which is 1, and the reasonable explanation is 2. )

Reference angle: (1) article selection; (2) the emotion of the article; (3) the philosophy contained in the article; (4) the language of the article; (5) the expression of the article.

Reference example: The article injects profound philosophy into the affectionate narration. Through the author's extremely affectionate description, we can feel the philosophy of life put into it by the author, let people learn to cherish family ties and life, let us calm down, be pure, and reconcile with life with love and release.