Tolerance is an open-minded mind, a rare virtue, an intoxicating gift and a shining light in the aura of personality charm.
Zhang Fang, in exchange for obedience; Cao Cao was kind to Guan Yu in exchange for Guan Yu laying down his life on Huarong Road. Washington, the founding father of the United States, took the initiative to forgive Payne's fist hatred in exchange for Payne's fanatical worship of himself. These tolerant actions turn hatred into friendship and obstacles into support. It can be seen that tolerance is a great driving force for change.
Tolerance does not mean indulgence. My father has been very strict with us since childhood. Whenever we are a little rude, he always scolds us severely. He taught us to cultivate independent personality from an early age. I remember one time when I was cooking, I ran to play without paying attention to whether Mars had fallen out, which led to a big fire at home. I thought I was sure to be severely criticized by my father. Just when I was uneasy, my father only said to me: "Remember to be careful in the future!" " "I was deeply moved by my father's tolerance. I will be careful and try my best in my future life, and at the same time lay the foundation for my independent ability. Therefore, I have been dealing with my own affairs since the third grade of primary school, and my parents have been working in the south with confidence since then. What would I be like now without my father's tolerance that day? Nowadays, parents always scold and beat their children, which is an infeasible method of discipline. Nowadays, teenagers' self-esteem is getting stronger and stronger, and some of them can't even tolerate a little injustice. A thick wall is virtually built between parents and children. Tolerance should be everywhere in life. Dear parents, please use your tolerant heart to melt the wall of estrangement with your children!
Wu Zetian is a woman, but her measurement can't make a man. Rebellion, he is a great genius-Luo, one of the four outstanding figures in the early Tang Dynasty, wrote an article for him. The article is wonderful, and his words of scolding Wu Zetian are also mean. A movement spread to Wu Zetian. After reading this article, he was not angry, but appreciated it. When she read, "What can I do for a six-foot orphan before a piece of rotten soil is dry?" She changed her face and said, "It is the fault of the Prime Minister that such talents are not needed." After reading it, he repeatedly praised: "Luo's article is great, but his martial arts may not be comparable." This means that as far as propaganda work is concerned, King Robin carries a lot of weight, and that pen is worth100000 soldiers. However, Xu Jingye's strength is not mediocre, so it's hard to lose. She really wants to use Luo for her own use. As the only female emperor in the history of China, Wu Zetian's great success cannot be said to have nothing to do with her broad mind and tolerance.
A generous person can achieve great things, and a generous person is relaxed and happy. This is the same as before. In dealing with people, there are often unsatisfactory places. If there is not enough tolerance and mind, there will inevitably be a lot of inexplicable pain. Narrow-minded people tend to be competitive, haggle over every ounce, envy and criticize others, and are narrow-minded and vengeful. Such people often lead a very heavy and painful life. Confucius said, "an upright man is open and poised, I am always worried."
A more tolerant attitude will make things better.