First of all, the argument:
1, my road is covered with petals-I didn't clean it for others, my thatched cottage door was closed-but now it's open for you. -Du Fu
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. Aleksandr Herzen
3. Can you keep faith with your friends and always be a person worthy of him? This is the biggest test of your soul, personality, psychology and even morality. Marx
4. Be kind to people who love you. -maeterlinck
5, music to change customs, courtesy to install people. -Tang Wujing
6. When a person is a real person, he should keep an equal distance from boasting and affectation, neither boasting nor flattering. Hugo
7. Bees sip honey from flowers and thank the camp when they leave. The grandiose butterfly thinks that flowers should thank him. Tagore
8. Politeness is to human nature what heat is to wax.
9. His talk is always approachable, which not only covers up his ignorance of some things, but also shows his good manners and tolerance. -Tolstoy
10, the so-called courtesy means treat others as you like them to treat you. Charles Defarge
1 1. Whether you are a man or a woman, only gentleness and generosity deserve your name. A person's real courage and determination is by no means equal to stopping others from talking with his fist. Sadie
12, educated people can find beautiful meaning in beautiful things. This is because there is hope in these beautiful things. Oscar Wilde
13, people are rude, not born, things are rude and countries are rude. -Xunzi
14. Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most precious. -Gonchard
15, career often becomes perseverance and is destroyed by impatience. I have seen it with my own eyes in the desert, and the travelers who are in a hurry fall behind those who are calm; Mercedes-Benz horses are behind, but the slow camels are advancing. Sadie
16, generosity, especially modesty, will win people's favor. -Goethe
17, a person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait. -Goethe
18, the national ceremony is the country's prosperity, and the family ceremony is a big family, with courtesy, self-cultivation and courtesy. —— Yan Yuan
19, the essence of self-cultivation is like a person's character, which ultimately boils down to moral sentiment. Emerson
20. Self-esteem is the mother of progress and inferiority is the source of degeneration, so self-esteem and inferiority are indispensable. -Zou Taofen
2 1. Etiquette is noble only if you behave naturally. If it is too artificial on the surface, it will lose its due value. bacon
22. Politeness is mainly a manifestation of self-restraint. Edison
23. Young people should not hurt others. They should give what they get to everyone. They should avoid hypocrisy and deception. They should be sincere and likable, so they should learn to be honest. -Comenius
24. Another content of family education is to cultivate children's obedience. The cultivation of obedience can make children have the desire to grow up. On the other hand, if you don't pay attention to cultivating children's obedience, he will become abrupt and arrogant. -Hegel
Second, the factual arguments:
1, Japan etiquette training school. Japan has established a new school-Politeness Training School. Many companies send their new employees, especially young female employees, here for training, learning how to use different honorifics for different people, how to accept business cards, how to maintain an elegant sitting posture, how to send guests politely, and so on. The teacher they hired for these courses was a retired stewardess of Japan Airlines.
Wu Qiyan will keep his promise. Wu Qi, a famous strategist in the Warring States period, was extremely trustworthy. One day, he met an old friend, invited him to dinner at home and said, "I'll wait for you to eat together." As a result, friends didn't come at night, and Wu Qi waited with an empty stomach. The next day, he sent someone to invite his friends to have dinner with him. Wu Qi said that to achieve this level is probably the reason why he can command many troops.
3. Smile and witticisms to resolve conflicts. This happened on a bus: the driver suddenly braked, and a young man leaned forward and leaned against a young girl. Although the young man smiled and apologized, the girl was still almond-eyed and angrily reprimanded: "Virtue" is about to quarrel, and the whole car is staring at them. Who knows that the young man is not angry, but still answers with a smile: "It's not virtue, it's inertia." The passengers burst into laughter, even the girl could not help laughing.